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For 12 years, I dedicated my life to the
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family business. It was a jewelry
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company started by my grandfather, and
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for as long as I could remember, my
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father had promised it would one day be
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mine. I was the older sister, and while
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my younger sister, now 33, wanted to get
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married and have a family, I wanted to
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build a career. My father, a man of
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tradition, had always groomed me to take
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over. I even quit my first job to come
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work with him, sacrificing my own
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professional ambitions for the sake of
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the family legacy. The promise of the
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business was an unspoken agreement, a
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future I had built my entire life
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around. My sister's relationship with
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our family was, to put it mildly,
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When she was 18, she left after a
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massive fight with our parents. She had
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refused to go to college and said some
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truly awful things, claiming she was
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better off without us. She eventually
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came crawling back, but my father, a man
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of his word, stood firm on his
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ultimatum. Go to college or leave.
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She chose to leave. And for the next 15
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years, she was a ghost.
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We only saw her at family events, and
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all we knew about her life was what we
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heard from relatives. She was a woman of
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her word, and she never looked back.
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Then about a year ago, my father's
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health took a turn for the worse. He
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suffered a serious heart complication
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and the doctors told us he needed to
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make some serious lifestyle changes.
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Facing his own mortality, he reached out
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to my sister and to my surprise, she
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finally came back. It was an emotional
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reunion, a reconciliation I was
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genuinely happy to see. A few weeks
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later, she came back with a surprise. A
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He seemed like a good guy, well off and
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serious about their relationship. My
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sister, it turned out, had kept their
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engagement a secret from everyone. Her
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fianceé was the son of a wealthy man who
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ran a chain of fast food restaurants,
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and they were very much in love. I was
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genuinely happy for her. I never could
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have predicted what would happen next.
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3 weeks later, my father called me into
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I was confident I was about to be made
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CEO, a title I had been working toward
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But instead, he delivered a crushing
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He was giving the business to my sister
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He said he had his reasons, and after a
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lot of arguing, he finally told me the
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truth. He believed they would be more
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capable than I was. The business, my
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life's work, was to be a wedding gift, a
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way to welcome them back into the
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family. I was heartbroken. I had devoted
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12 years of my life to this only to have
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it snatched away and given to a man he
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had known for 3 weeks.
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I begged. I pleaded. I offered to be
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partners, but he was firm.
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He believed their experience in business
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would expand our jewelry company twice
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as fast as I ever could.
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The betrayal was swift and brutal.
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My sister, the woman who had abandoned
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our family for 15 years, gladly accepted
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her wedding gift, a gift she knew was my
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life's work. She announced her
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engagement on social media, a public
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display of the very thing I had been
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working for my entire life. I was
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Nobody from my family reached out. It
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was as if I had been erased. My 12 years
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of hard work and sacrifice gone to
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I cut all ties and for 8 months I
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spiraled into a deep depression, a
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hollow shell of the person I used to be.
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I started therapy. I blocked my sister
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and I asked my relatives not to tell me
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anything about my family. A week ago, I
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got a call from an unknown number. It
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was my father. He had suffered another
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cardiac arrest and was in the hospital.
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I felt a pang of guilt for blocking his
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number. But then I remembered what he
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had done to me. Still, I went to see
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him. To my surprise, my sister and her
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fianceé were nowhere to be found. My
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father, his voice heavy with
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disappointment, told me they were too
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busy to come see him. They hadn't even
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visited him once since his heart attack.
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My dad, a man who had been blinded by a
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false promise of expansion and financial
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success, finally saw the truth. They
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didn't care about him. They had been
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disconnected, distant, and now when he
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was in the hospital, they were nowhere
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I made a grave mistake, he said, his
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voice full of regret.
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a sincere act of contrition that after
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all this time was exactly what I needed
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He wanted me to come back. He wanted to
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take the company back and give it to the
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person who truly deserved it. I was
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overjoyed. Asa, I had a discussion with
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him right there in the hospital room.
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Yes. And I forgave him. They say I was
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getting my life back, my legacy back.
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But my sister, as always, had to make it
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She called me furious, accusing me of
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being a horrible human being.
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She said she couldn't believe I was
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doing something so cruel to her. I
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couldn't understand her devastation.
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If her fianceé was as rich as he
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claimed, why would she care about our
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It was then that a theory I'd been
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formulating began to solidify.
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Her fiance's family, I had heard from
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others, was in financial trouble.
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His father's company was facing a string
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of losses, and they were on the verge of
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My father's company wasn't a gift. It
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was a lifeboat. They had infiltrated our
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family, using my father's health and his
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desire to reconnect as a means to a
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selfish end. They were never in love
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with the business. They were just in
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love with the security it offered. It's
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been a couple of weeks since I got that
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call. I am now officially the new CEO of
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my father's jewelry business. The
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handover is complete and the company, my
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legacy, is finally mine. The process was
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delayed because of my sister's protests,
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but it's finally done. My theory was
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right. My sister and her fianceé were
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trying to sneak their way into our
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family business, a lifeboat for their
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sinking financial ship. It was my sister
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who had planted the idea of handing over
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the business, playing on my father's
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grief and his desire to reconnect.
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He, blinded by greed and a desire to see
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our business expand, fell for it.
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He had originally intended to retain me,
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but when I told him I wouldn't accept a
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position other than CEO, he lost his
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temper, and that led to the 8 months of
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misery for both of us. Thankfully, he
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came to his senses in the nick of time.
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My sister finally confessed.
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She called me, her ego set aside, and
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admitted that she and her fianceé
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desperately needed jobs.
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I told her I would think about it. I was
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On one hand, I wanted to help her. On
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the other hand, how could I trust people
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who had so callously betrayed me? They
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had accepted the business, my life's
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work, without a second thought. They had
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abandoned my father in the hospital, and
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they had shown absolutely no empathy for
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me. I made my decision. I couldn't hire
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them. The risk was too great. I told her
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the truth. I couldn't trust them. She
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didn't take it well. She showed up at my
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office and threw a tantrum, calling me
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heartless and selfish.
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She even had the audacity to say she
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regretted letting me have the company
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back. That was the last straw. I had the
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police escort her out. I'm done with her
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drama, her selfishness, her endless
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cycle of betrayal and blame.
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I'm the CEO now and I won't let anyone,
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not even my own sister, get in the way