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hey amazing parents have you ever lost
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your cool and yelled at your child only
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to feel guilty afterward you're not
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alone but here's the good news there's a
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better way to discipline that
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strengthens your bond with your child
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responsibility today I'll share the
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secrets of positive discipline how to
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correct Behavior effectively without
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yelling stick around till the end for my
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number one gamechanging tip and if you
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love parenting tips don't forget to hit
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that subscribe button one why yelling
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doesn't work it might get your child's
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attention in the moment but yelling
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actually creates fear not respect kids
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obey out of fear not understanding teach
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is aggression if you yell kids learn to
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respond the same way damages
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communication kids May shut down or
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become defensive instead of listening
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what is positive discipline positive
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discipline is about guiding children
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with respect while teaching them
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responsibility it's not about being too
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strict or too lenient it's about setting
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firm boundaries in a loving way
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practical ways to correct without
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yelling stay calm and use a firm but
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gentle tone take deep breaths before
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responding your child will mirror your
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energy so staying calm helps them listen
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better connect before you correct
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instead of reacting immediately try
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saying I see you're upset let's talk
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about it this makes your child feel
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heard and more willing to
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cooperate set clear and consistent rules
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kids need structure for example if
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bedtime is at 8:00 p.m. stick to it
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consistency helps them understand
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expectations use logical consequences
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not harsh punishments if your child
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refuses to put away their toys instead
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of yelling say if you don't put them
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away they'll be off limits tomorrow
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logical consequences teach
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responsibility offer choices instead of
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commands instead of saying eat your
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vegetables now try would you like
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carrots or broccoli giving choices
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empowers kids while still guiding them
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praise good behavior more than you
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punish bad behavior catch your child
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doing something good and acknowledge it
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instead of focusing on mistakes say I
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love how you shared your toy with your
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sibling this encourages them to repeat
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positive actions teach problem solving
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skills ask your child how do you think
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we can solve this problem together this
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teaches critical thinking and helps them
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take responsibility for their actions
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use time timein instead of timeouts
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instead of isolating your child in a
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Timeout sit with them and talk about
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what happened this helps them process
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emotions and learn self-control be
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patient discipline is a process kids
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won't change overnight keep guiding them
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with love and consistency and you'll see
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improvement over time discipline isn't
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about control it's about teaching when
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we replace yelling with guidance kids
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learn to make better choices on their
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own which of these tips will you you try
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