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Hello and welcome to another episode of
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the DogMind Gears podcast by the Doggy
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>> We are so excited for this one.
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>> Yeah, we really are. So, today we are
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taking a massive deep dive into a
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honestly, it's beautiful, but it can be
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We are unpacking an amazing stack of
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materials from Dog Is Love magazine
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about the intricate relationship between
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>> Right, it's a huge topic.
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to you listening, I want to frame this
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for a second. Bringing a new baby into
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well, it's like suddenly moving a loud,
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completely unpredictable,
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attention-hogging roommate right into
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their absolute sanctuary.
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>> Oh, absolutely. That is such a good way
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>> Right? It is just a massive disruption
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>> It really is. And if you are sitting at
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home right now looking at your dog and
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feeling this like wave of guilt about
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how their peaceful life is going to
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change, you are so not alone.
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>> Yeah, it's such a common fear.
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>> Exactly. It's a disruption that causes
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immense anxiety for expectant parents. I
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mean, you love your first baby, your
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dog, and you love your growing family,
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and the pressure for everyone to just
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seamlessly get along is enormous.
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>> So, in this deep dive, we're going to
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explore two incredibly comprehensive
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articles from Dog Is Love magazine.
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We're looking at the profound emotional
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landscape of the dog, and then later,
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the stunning, almost superpower-like
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biological adaptations they undergo when
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>> Yeah, the biology stuff later is wild.
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But, uh let's start with act one, the
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emotional landscape. Specifically
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looking at the science of jealousy. We
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have this great article by Helen
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>> Yes, it's a fantastic piece.
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>> And the overarching heading here is, do
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dogs get jealous of babies? Positive
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Helen grounds this entire discussion in
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her own experience with her rescue pup,
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Adas, which is great because it brings
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up this huge philosophical question.
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>> Right, the projection question.
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>> Exactly. Are we just projecting our own
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complex human emotions onto an animal
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that, you know, just really wants a
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>> Well, under the heading what does the
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science say about dogs that get jealous
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of babies? We get a really clear answer.
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>> The answer is no, you are not
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projecting. Jealousy isn't a uniquely
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human emotion at all. The science tells
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us dogs experience a very real,
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measurable form of jealousy. There are
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these groundbreaking, famous studies
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using realistic stuffed dogs.
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>> Oh, wait. I think I've seen clips of
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this from PLoS One, right?
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>> Yes, exactly. The researchers instructed
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owners to pet and talk sweetly to this
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fake animatronic dog.
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>> And the real dogs just absolutely lost
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>> Oh, totally. They nudged their owners,
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they whined loudly, and they physically
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wedged their bodies between the owner
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and the intruder. But the expert
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analysis here is crucial. Why does this
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nudging or whining happen?
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>> It's not spite, is it?
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>> No, not at all. It is a primal instinct
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to protect social bonds. To your dog,
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you, the listener, are their ultimate
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>> Yeah, the heading here is the
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fascinating dog mind, more than just a
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green-eyed monster. I love that because
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they aren't plotting revenge like a
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Shakespearean villain. They aren't in
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>> Exactly. The neurological studies show
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that triggering jealousy literally
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lights up parts of the dog's brain
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associated with negative emotions and
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>> So, it's an emotional reflex?
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>> Completely. It is not a calculated
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>> Which brings us to the real case study.
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How a German Shepherd named Rex adapted
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So, Rexy was this total Velcro dog.
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>> Attached at the hip to his owner, Jamie.
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But when Jamie brought the baby home,
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Rexy completely derailed. He started
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quote unquote forgetting his house
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>> Peeing on the rug?
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Now, wait. If a dog is actively peeing
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isn't that just them being bad? How do
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we reframe that? Because it feels so
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>> It feels defiant to us, yes.
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But Jamie, being a trainer, used a
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brilliant strategy. She realized Rexy
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was having a panic attack, essentially.
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So, she gave him a job.
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>> Well, German Shepherds are working dogs.
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>> She gave him the job of finding a clean
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diaper whenever it was changing time.
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>> It is. She channeled his instinct into
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purpose. Which brings us to the next
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section, the science behind why dogs do
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get jealous of babies.
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>> Right. Tying back to the PLoS One study.
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>> Yes. The study emphasizes that dog
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jealousy is rooted in resource guarding
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and attachment. It's actually incredibly
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similar to a young child's jealousy of a
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>> So, for the listener,
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if you understand this biological
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you can replace your frustration with
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Which makes all the difference.
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>> Okay, so then we need to know
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how to tell the signs if dogs are
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stressed versus jealous of the babies.
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This is where the detective work comes
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in. Like, are they doing sudden tricks,
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shadowing you, destructive chewing,
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letting out low growls?
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>> Well, the crucial first step before you
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even analyze that is ruling out medical
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>> Oh, right. Because pain mimics stress.
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>> Exactly. An ear infection makes a dog
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way less tolerant of a crying baby. But,
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once they are physically cleared,
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context is everything.
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>> And the context usually shows up in
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their body language. The next heading is
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the subtle body language cues every
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>> What's fascinating here is how subtle it
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really is. We look for growling, but we
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should be looking for whale eye, or you
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see the whites of their eyes, or pinned
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ears, a stiff body, or repetitive lip
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>> And yawning, too, right?
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>> Not from being tired. Yes, yawning is a
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huge stress reflex, but also avoidance.
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>> Like, taking a toy to another room.
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>> Exactly. Avoidance is actually a complex
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emotional expression of disappointment
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and overwhelm. They are removing
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themselves from a situation they can't
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>> That perfectly leads to the next
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section, from a blogger's notebook.
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When my own dog gave me the cold
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Helen talks about Athos, her border
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>> Right, the tennis ball story.
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>> Yes, she's feeding the baby and Athos
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dramatically flops on the bed and just
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drops a slimy tennis ball right on her
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foot. It's literally them saying,
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"Hello, remember me? The one who hikes
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>> It's hilarious, but it's a very clear
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>> So, we know the emotional landscape now.
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Moving into act two, let's talk about
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proactive strategies and the first
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meeting. How do we fix this before it
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>> Under the heading Proactive Strategies
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for Dogs Jealous of Babies, How to
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The core message is that the best way to
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handle jealousy is to never let it take
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root. Preparation is a superpower here.
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>> And the article lays out the pre-baby
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to-do list for a smooth and successful
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transition. It's a great practical
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checklist. You know, vet visits, setting
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up baby gates early so they aren't a
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>> Brushing up on basic cues like place and
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>> Yeah, and my favorite, practicing
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shorter walks and doing empty stroller
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>> The empty stroller walk is vital. A
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stroller changes your gait, your
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attention, and the leash mechanics. You
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do not want the dog learning how to walk
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next to it when there's a fragile
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>> That makes total sense. Okay, next up is
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the innovative scent introduction to
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make the baby a positive omen.
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>> This is a classic, but it works. The
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scent swapping technique.
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>> Bringing a hospital blanket home first,
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>> Yes, you bring the baby's blanket home
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before the baby arrives and you pair
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that new scent with high-value treats
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>> So, the dog thinks, "Oh, this smell
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means I get hot dogs."
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>> Exactly. You are neurologically wiring
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them to love that scent.
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>> Which helps avoid the situations in the
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next section, Real Life Stories. What do
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dogs do and feel when they get jealous
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The article shares stories of Milo the
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terrier hiding baby toys and a golden
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retriever knocking over the diaper pail
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>> It normalizes the experience. Dogs do
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weird things when they are stressed.
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So then we get to the big day, the first
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introduction. Making the meeting between
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dog and baby a success.
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>> This is the critical moment.
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>> The rule is the mother or whoever was
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away at the hospital must enter the
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house first without the baby.
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>> So they can go crazy and jump up.
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>> Yes, let the dog get the wiggles out,
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absorb that excitement. Keep the
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atmosphere light and happy.
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And then a step-by-step guide to the
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first sniff to avoid dogs to get jealous
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You walk the dog over but keep a loose
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>> Always a loose leash. Tension on the
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leash creates tension in the dog.
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And they only sniff the feet, never
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face-to-face. Keep a happy voice and
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keep handing them high-value treats.
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>> Exactly. But under the heading marathon
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not a sprint, how to manage dogs who get
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jealous of babies, we have to temper our
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>> Yeah, they aren't going to be best
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>> No. Neutrality is the goal and the
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golden rule, you never ever leave them
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Okay, next heading is why including the
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dogs in family routines is important.
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Predictability combats insecurity,
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>> It does. Even if you're exhausted, you
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have to keep the dogs feeding and
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exercise times consistent. It's their
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>> And we also have to consider the
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specific dog. The heading training for
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coexistence and dog breed differences
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points out that like a terrier is going
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to react differently than a guardian
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>> Absolutely. Breed traits factor in
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heavily. Some breeds naturally guard,
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some seek constant attention, some have
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high prey drive. You have to tailor your
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approach to the specific dog's DNA.
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Okay, act three. The baby is home, the
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The new normal. What to do when your
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dogs get jealous of babies?
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>> The strict warning here is
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>> do not punish the dog for jealousy
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because it just proves the baby is a bad
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>> Exactly. It creates a negative
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association. Instead, use baby gates as
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a management tool. They aren't a prison,
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they're a safe boundary.
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And to help with the jealousy, we have
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the you're still my number one
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one-on-one time ritual.
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It's just 5 minutes of focused
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phone-free time with the dog. But
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wait, I have to ask. Is 5 minutes really
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enough to offset 23 hours of feeling
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>> It actually is. To a dog's psyche, the
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quality and absolute focus of the
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interaction matter vastly more than the
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duration. 5 minutes of direct eye
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contact and play is huge for them.
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Next, we have life-saving obedience
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cues, place and leave it.
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>> Place gives the dog a job and a safe
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zone when the house is chaotic.
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>> And leave it prevents them from, you
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know, eating a dropped pacifier.
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>> Or worse. It's a mandatory safety cue.
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Moving to bonding activities that answer
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do dogs get jealous of babies?
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You mentioned supervised tummy time.
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>> Yes, having the dog nearby while the
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baby is on the floor and you physically
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guide the baby's hand to drop a treat
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>> It goes right into the power of scent
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exchange and play prevent dogs to get
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jealous of babies. Like giving the
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baby's used blanket as a dog bed or
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having a toddler play gentle fetch.
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>> It builds positive associations every
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>> And then adventure training including
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everyone on outings.
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>> Right. If we connect this to the bigger
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picture, dogs are adventure partners.
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Going to dog-friendly cafes with the
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stroller solidifies this new pack unit.
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>> It really does. And the article shares
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some amazing success stories how dogs
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and babies can become the best of
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friends. It's so heartwarming.
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>> It shows the immense capacity for canine
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love and adaptation.
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>> Like the tale of Luna, from anxious
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avoidance to devoted nanny.
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Luna was a rescue mutt who was terrified
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of the crawling baby.
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So, they just scattered hot dog treats
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on the floor around the baby.
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>> Right, turning the scary crawling infant
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into a magical treat dispenser.
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>> Such a good hack. And there's involving
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your dog and baby care, making them a
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Giving them a job like fetching a clean
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wipe or fetching baby socks.
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>> It engages their working drive in a
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completely positive way.
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>> We see that with Ava, too, under
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strategies for harmony with avoiding
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dogs to get jealous of babies.
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Ava was a rescue who went from growling
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to actively protecting the baby.
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>> Which leads into your action plan,
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building a harmonious home for everyone.
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It summarizes everything we've talked
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about, that marathon mindset.
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>> But again, safety first. When do dogs
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get jealous of babies around newborns,
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we have to strongly reiterate this.
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Never leave them unsupervised, ever.
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>> Management is non-negotiable.
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>> And if things get scary, when to call in
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professionals when dogs do get jealous
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>> We have to destigmatize calling a
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behaviorist. If there is growling,
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snapping, or stalking behavior, you need
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immediate professional help, and that's
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okay. It's the responsible thing to do.
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>> For sure. Because this is the long game,
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fostering a lifetime of respect and
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Toddler training is just as important as
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dog training. You know, no tail pulling,
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no climbing on the dog.
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>> It has to be a two-way street of
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final thoughts on dogs that do get
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What's the takeaway from source one?
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>> The conclusion is simple. Jealousy isn't
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inevitable and even if it happens, it
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isn't permanent. You can work through
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>> So, we've mapped out the emotional
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But, here's where it gets really
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The second piece from Dog O'zilla
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magazine takes us behind the scenes into
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the sheer biological superpowers your
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dog is using during this whole process.
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>> This is where it gets into almost
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science fiction territory, but it's pure
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>> Yeah. The heading is, this is the truth
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on how to prepare your dog to meet the
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And the premise is wild. Your dog knew
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you were pregnant before the stick even
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>> It's incredible. But, before we get to
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the pregnancy test stuff, the article
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covers how to facilitate introduction
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between your dog and a new baby.
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>> Because that one quiet moment of
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introduction shapes the next decade of
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family happiness. It sets the tone for
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>> So, to prepare for that, you have to
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give your dog the basic training
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The timeline is to start a month and a
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half before arrival, minimum.
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>> And what are the next crucial two steps?
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>> The author outlines two things. Teaching
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new skills specifically for safe
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interaction and helping the dog adjust
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to impending schedule changes well in
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under basic training to prepare your dog
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to meet the new baby,
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it lists the essentials.
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Sit, down, stay or wait, which is
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drop it, not jumping, and come when
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>> But, the most specific one is the next
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heading. Teach your dog to be gentle.
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>> Which is the targeting trick, right?
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>> Yes. You teach the dog to gently touch
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your hand with their nose. It teaches
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them how to interact with the baby
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safely using a gentle boop instead of a
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rough lick or a paw.
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>> That's brilliant.
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taking the dog through the stages of
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The article breaks down the go away
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training. Step one is tossing a treat
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while saying go away.
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>> And step two is waiting for the dog to
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move back on their own first and then
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rewarding that choice. It gives them an
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escape route when the baby is too loud.
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>> Okay, now we hit the section facts about
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how to prepare your dog to meet the new
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I am fully obsessed with this part. It
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is mind-blowing science.
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>> It really is staggering what they can
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>> Like the frozen sock hack is backed by
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You literally wear a sock, freeze it,
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and give it to the dog when the baby
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>> Because childbirth massively alters a
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mother's hormone profile. To a dog, you
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suddenly smell like a different person.
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Freezing the sock locks in your pre-baby
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scent profile giving the dog a
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comforting olfactory anchor while they
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adjust to your new postpartum scent.
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>> That is just wow. And then dogs can hear
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the baby's heartbeat before you see it
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kick. Okay, let's unpack this.
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How is that possible?
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>> Dogs hear high-frequency sounds
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incredibly well. They can actually hear
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the high-frequency whoosh whoosh of
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fetal blood and the baby's heartbeat
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through the amniotic fluid.
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>> That's insane. They've basically been
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listening to a tiny roommate's heartbeat
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through the walls for months.
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>> Exactly, which explains the next
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heading. Your dog might nest before you
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>> Like the husky in the article.
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>> Yes, the husky dragged throw pillows
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into the closet to build a secondary den
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right before the owner went into labor.
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It's a biological ancestral preparation
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for a noisy new arrival.
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>> And their nose is even crazier. Your
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dog's nose knows about morning sickness
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The story of Shep the border collie
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becoming a Velcro dog 2 days before a
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positive pregnancy test.
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>> Well, a dog has 300 million scent
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receptors. They can detect the HCG
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pregnancy hormone spike at one part per
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trillion. They smell the endocrine shift
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>> It's just a superpower. And how they
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react to the baby later.
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A baby's cry sparks an ancient helpful
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panic in your dog's brain.
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>> This is based on a 2020 study in the
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Canadian Journal of Experimental
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When a dog paces while the baby cries,
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it isn't annoyance. It's an empathetic
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stress response. They are mirroring your
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anxiety and basically asking, "I hear
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the pup in distress. Should I lick it to
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>> They just want to help.
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Which is why welcoming the baby home and
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why to stay calm when you prepare your
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dog to meet the new baby is so
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important. You have to use a jolly calm
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>> Because if you enter the house anxious,
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the dog absorbs that anxiety instantly.
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You dictate the emotional energy.
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>> And after you prepare your dog,
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it's time to introduce and meet the
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The article suggests having someone else
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distract the dog with treats.
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>> Right. It divides their attention
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positively so they don't get over
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aroused by the baby.
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>> Okay. Act five. We're getting into the
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advanced FAQ section. Tying the biology
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and psychology together.
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FAQ on how to prepare your dog to meet
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>> These are great questions from the
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How does my dog's brain actually process
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the smell of the new baby?
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And can science help me boost bonding?
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>> There was a 2014 Emory University fMRI
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study showing that familiar human scents
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light up the caudate nucleus, the
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brain's reward center. So, the expert
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tip is the 3-second sniff protocol. Let
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them sniff the baby's scent for 3
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seconds, then give them freeze-dried
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liver. You hardwire their brain so that
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baby smell equals the best treat ever.
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I have heard about littermate syndrome
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Can my adult dog develop a similar issue
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with the baby? Like Max the lab licking
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his paws raw during breastfeeding?
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>> Yes, that's hyper attachment and
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displacement nursing.
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>> It's caused by a massive cortisol spike
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when the mother's attention shifts 90%
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to the baby. The fix is giving the dog a
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frozen Kong on their placemat during
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nursing, so they have a parallel
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>> So smart. Okay, what is the latest
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research say about a dog's ability to
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detect infant distress?
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>> A 2022 plus one study showed dogs detect
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human stress sweat with 93% accuracy.
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This raises an important question. How
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do we clean that emotional air in the
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>> Because they can literally smell our
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>> Exactly. The tip is to use a DAP, a dog
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appeasing pheromone diffuser in the
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nursery. It releases a calming pheromone
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that lowers their baseline anxiety.
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Last specific question. Is my dog's
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sudden need to carry around a stuffed
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toy a problem related to the new baby?
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Like Gus the golden retriever carrying
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his squeaky hedgehog everywhere. Now,
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I'd assume you take the toy away so they
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don't confuse it with a baby, right?
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>> Actually, no. You shouldn't take it
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away. It's a mirroring behavior. They
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see you carrying a baby, and they want
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to participate in the pack activity. You
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should direct them to a bed with their
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baby to validate their participation.
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Taking it away just causes frustration.
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>> Aw, they just want to fit in.
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Which brings us to final thoughts on how
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to prepare your dog to meet the new
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These resources from Doggozilla's
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virtual dog training classroom are just
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>> They really bridge the gap between
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biology, psychology, and practical
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>> And as we wrap up this deep dive, do you
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have a final provocative thought for our
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What if, through all this scent
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detection and emotional mirroring, our
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dogs aren't just passively adapting to
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our growing families? What if their
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thousands of years of domestication have
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literally evolved them to actively help
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us co-parent and navigate our own
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That is something to think about.
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Thank you for listening, dear dog
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lovers, and if you have any questions,
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visit the source article on Dog O'Day
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Magazine at dogoday.com.
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>> That was all for this episode, and until
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the next time, bye-bye to all listeners
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of the Dog Mind Gears podcast.