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I had just woken up from my emergency
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C-section. The room a sterile blur of
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white and green when I learned that my
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sister Mia had changed the baby's name.
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What stung most was the feeling of
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I was a vessel, a surrogate, as she so
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lovingly put it. She was the real
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mother, but she had promised to name the
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baby after me, Helen, as a thank you for
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My body had paid a heavy price. I had
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died and had to be resuscitated before
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the C-section even began, and the
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complications had left me with permanent
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damage. Yet, all of it was worth it. For
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3 days, I waited, an ache in my heart
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that had nothing to do with my wound. I
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texted Mia, begging to know if my baby
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was okay, and if I could still be the
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godmother, the one thing I had truly
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wanted. Of course, she texted back, a
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hollow promise. Sis will make it
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official when you come over, but not
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this weekend. Maybe next. For six
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agonizing weeks, I begged to see Kyle.
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Finally, Mia sent a text. Come to mom's
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for Sunday dinner. We'll do the
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godmother ceremony. My heart leaped. The
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last of my money, $50, went to a silver
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rattle. Sunday morning, I woke at 5:00
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a.m. too excited to sleep. I spent 3
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hours getting ready, my body protesting
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with every movement. I curled my hair
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for the first time since before the
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pregnancy and put on the only dress that
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fit my still swollen belly. Driving
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over, I called mom to ask what dessert
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to bring, but her number was
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Strange, but mom was always forgetting
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to pay bills. I called Mia next. An
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automated message confirmed my worst
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fear. I had been blocked. My chest
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tightened as I pulled over, my car
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shaking from the passing traffic. I
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called Dad, my cousins, Aunt Carol.
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Every single number was either blocked
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or disconnected. It felt like I had been
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surgically removed from my own family
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tree. Mom's house was a ghost town. Her
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prized rose bushes, brown and brittle,
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hadn't been watered in weeks. I peered
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through the mail slot and saw furniture
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draped in white sheets.
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I drove to Mia's apartment where a young
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couple was touring the place with a
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landlord. He recognized me. Oh, are you
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Helen? He asked. Mia left something for
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you. He handed me a simple envelope.
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Inside was a check for $5,000 and a note
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for the medical bills. This makes us
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even. Please don't contact us. The check
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bounced 3 days later. Through a fake
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Instagram account, I discovered they had
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moved to Seattle. Kyle, my baby, had
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been christened with mom holding him. A
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stranger was labeled as his godmother.
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That night, I stared at my C-section
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scar in the mirror, a permanent reminder
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of how my family had ruined my life. The
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beginning of the end. 8 months later,
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after I had finally accepted that my
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family had used me as a free incubator,
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an insurance investigator called. My
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medical bills from the birth had reached
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and the insurance company, doing what
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they do best, was looking for any excuse
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not to pay. The investigator's voice was
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calm and professional as she delivered
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"We found something interesting in our
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review," she said. "Your sister had
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genetic testing done 6 months before the
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pregnancy. It came back positive for
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My legs gave out. I knew nothing of
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this." I told her, my voice a hollow
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whisper. I was unaware of any family
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medical history. Then her voice turned
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serious. This is fraud. We're going
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after the full amount. I immediately
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started making calls to doctors. I
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begged them to run tests. The results
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came back a few days later, confirming
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my worst fears. I had factor 5 liden, a
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blood clotting disorder that made giving
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birth a death sentence. Mia had known.
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She had known I would likely die during
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childbirth, but she didn't care. She
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just wanted her baby. The investigator's
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words rang in my ears. I called the
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insurance company back and they
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confirmed that while it was still fraud,
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they would now be directing their
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attention to my sister. So was I. A
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lawyer, Nathan Cross, took my case pro
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bono. We filed civil suits and criminal
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charges. The insurance company went
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after her for the $547,000
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while I went after her for attempted
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murder. Mia's perfect Seattle life, so
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carefully constructed on a flimsy
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foundation of lies, began to crumble.
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Child Protective Services moved fast,
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finding Mia's boyfriend Derek, dealing
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drugs from their apartment. The photos
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they sent me during the emergency
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removal broke my heart. There was Kyle,
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11 months old, in a filthy onesie. Empty
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bottles scattered on the floor and the
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expensive stroller I had bought them now
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being used to store drug money. Mia
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called me sobbing so hard she could
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barely speak. Please don't do this. He's
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my son. I hung up mid-sentence. Four
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months of paperwork and phone calls
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followed. The day finally came when I
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could pick up my son. I flew to Seattle
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with an empty car seat and a heart so
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full it achd. When the social worker
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brought him out, Kyle was screaming for
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his mama, thrashing in her arms. This
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beautiful boy I had felt kick inside me
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for months. Didn't recognize me. He saw
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only a stranger in a long line of
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strangers. But I was determined to make
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him my own. For seven years, I did. I
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fed him, cleaned him, and taught him how
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to play peekab-boo. I was his mother,
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and he was my son. The return of the
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ghost. One Thursday afternoon, 7 years
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later, the doorbell rang. I opened it to
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find Kyle standing there with his
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backpack, tears streaming down his face
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as he clutched a fist full of crumpled
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photos. "Why did you lie to me?" he
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asked. "I froze. He was supposed to be
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at school." "Open," a lady at the fence
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told him. She stole me from my real mom.
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My heart slammed against my ribs. I
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looked at the photos in his small hands,
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noticing his backpack strap was torn and
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fresh red scratches ran down his arms.
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My sister was back. The photos showed a
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perfectly cropped version of her life,
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hiding the filth I remembered from the
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police photos. I knelt down, but Kyle
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jerked back. "That lady hurt you?" I
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asked. He pulled away harder, demanding
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to know why I had stolen him from his
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real mom. My hands were already dialing
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the school. A secretary, a familiar
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voice, explained that a woman claiming
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to be his aunt, Lia Smith Morrison, had
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shown up with official looking court
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papers and proper ID. My legs went weak
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as I hung up and immediately dialed 911,
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explaining that my sister had taken Kyle
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from school with fake documents.
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The operator listened, then told me that
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since Mia was his biological mother and
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Kyle wasn't physically harmed, it was a
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civil matter for family court. That
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night, I sat outside Kyle's bedroom
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door, listening to him cry himself to
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sleep. The C-section scar burned with a
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phantom pain. On his school tablet, I
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found messages from a Mommy Mia 2024
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account dating back 3 weeks. She had
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been messaging him during recess,
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filling his head with lies about what
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Aunt Helen did to our family. Nathan, my
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lawyer, was on the case immediately. He
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filed an emergency hearing, but warned
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it would be at least 2 weeks. The
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damage, however, was already done. The
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school counselor showed me Kyle's
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drawings, one house labeled fake home
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with us, and another labeled real home
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with a woman he had never lived with.
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The counselor recommended immediate
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therapy, but the wait list was 6 weeks
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long. A formal letter from a Seattle law
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firm arrived demanding Kyle's return. It
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claimed I had obtained custody through
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fraudulent means and that Mia had
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completed rehab and remarried a
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successful businessman who could provide
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opportunities I never could. My hands
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shook so bad I dropped the papers. But
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Nathan's investigation revealed the
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businessman was actually Derek, her
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former dealer, a man recently released
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from prison for fraud. The Leia Miller
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Morrison who had been stalking us was
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his sister. The entire operation was an
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elaborate fraud, and Mia was still
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lying. The final showdown. The morning
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of the hearing, Kyle locked himself in
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his room, screaming that he hated me and
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wanted his real mom. The drive to the
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courthouse was silent. Inside, Mia, in a
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conservative dress suit, looked like a
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completely different person. She sat
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holding hands with a man in an expensive
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suit, who her lawyer introduced as
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Robert. Mia cried softly while her
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lawyer described a recovering mother
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desperate to reunite with her stolen
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Judge Patricia Vance listened with
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obvious sympathy. She ordered a full
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custody evaluation over the next 60 days
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with supervised visitation starting
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immediately. Kyle's face lit up. 3 days
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later, I sat in my car outside the
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visitation center listening to Kyle
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It was a sound I hadn't heard from him
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in weeks. The supervisor's notes would
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say how comfortable he seemed with his
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biological mother. The psychological
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evaluations began. Kyle, coached by Mia,
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repeated rehearsed lines about feeling
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unsafe and scared around me. Rachel
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Simmons, the psychologist, wrote it all
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down. Then I found the cheap prepaid
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phone hidden under Kyle's bed. It
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contained dozens of calls to a Seattle
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number and texts from Mia telling him
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she was coming to save him. The phone
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was not the last of the evidence I would
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find. Under his bed, I found drawings of
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me with devil horns and red eyes and Mia
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with angel wings. He had drawn me in a
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cage and himself with Mia in a new home.
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Then Kyle came home from a visit asking
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me why I didn't die like I was supposed
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to when he was born. My blood ran cold
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as he explained Mia had told him I had
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stolen him from heaven's plan. The
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preliminary report from Rachel Simmons
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recommended reunification with the
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biological mother. My heart shattered.
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The following Saturday at Kyle's soccer
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game, I noticed Leia and a man with a
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professional camera filming me, building
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a narrative for a documentary about a
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child being kept from their biological
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mother. Then Nathan's investigator
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tracked down a woman named Sharon, Mia's
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former neighbor. She had photos from
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just 6 months ago showing Mia's
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apartment building with a condemned
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notice and police tape, not the clean
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new life Mia claimed to have been
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living. Sharon, terrified of Derek and
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his friends, gave us the photos and her
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contact information. The next supervised
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visit was the worst yet. Kyle screamed,
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"Don't touch me." When I tried to hug
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him, the school principal called me to
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report Kyle was showing his classmates
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bruises and claiming I had hit him.
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Child protective services opened an
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investigation. I went to a therapist for
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the first time since Kyle's birth and
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sobbed for 40 minutes about losing the
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boy I had raised for 7 years. Two
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mornings later, the doorbell rang at
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7:00 a.m. It was a CPS investigator. She
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walked into a mess of a room, a mess
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Kyle had intentionally made, and started
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taking pictures. I knew without a doubt
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that this time I was going to lose.