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stop chasing what doesn't align with you
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start attracting what's meant for you
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when a man and woman stop reaching out
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who's going to make the first move it's
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not about who should call or text first
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it's about how they truly feel if
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someone is into you they'll find a way
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to reach out if not you might not be
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their top priority the effort you're
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looking for in others starts with the
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effort you put into yourself that's a
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hard truth to swallow especially when
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you're glued to your phone waiting for a
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notification that doesn't come but let's
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if they're not making an effort why are
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you the one always holding the
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relationship together relationship
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should be a two-way street not a one
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person Marathon sometimes the Silence of
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someone else is the loudest reminder to
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value your own worth you can't build
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something meaningful if you're the only
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one putting in effort while the other
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person acts like your time attention and
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emotions are optional and here's the
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thing about overthinking don't let their
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silence trick you into playing the
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guessing game maybe they're just busy or
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maybe you said something wrong you think
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Letting Go isn't giving up it's making
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space for what you deserve but here's
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the truth if someone wants you in their
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life you'll know it silence doesn't
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always mean they're reflecting on their
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feelings more often than not it means
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you're not a priority pushing too hard
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is another trap we fall into let's not
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sugarcoat it chasing someone who isn't
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chasing you back is exhausting it drains
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your energy your confidence and your
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peace why spend your precious time
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trying to decode someone's mixed signals
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when you could be focusing on yourself
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or connecting with people who actually
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value you here's a tough pill to swallow
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when people don't reach out it's often
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because they're perfectly fine living
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their life without you ouch right but
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don't let that hurt for too long because
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here's the flip side if someone's not
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reaching out it's a gift it's a clear
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sign they're not your person and trust
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me you don't need lukewarm energy or
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half-hearted effort in your life in a
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world where self-worth is everything
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don't settle for less don't sit around
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wondering if you're enough you are if
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someone isn't stepping up let them step
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aside life is too short to waste on
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people who can't even be bothered to
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send a text when you let go of those who
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don't make an effort you open yourself
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to love that flows naturally and
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effortlessly you stop chasing and start
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attracting you'll find someone who
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doesn't just reach out but reaches for
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you wholeheartedly with no hesitation
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remember this the right person won't
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leave you questioning where you stand
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they'll make sure you feel wanted
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appreciated and seen until then keep
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your head high and your standards higher
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