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ladies and Gentlemen let's gather around
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and talk about something we all love our
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dogs nothing brings a smile to your face
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quite like a wagging tail and a slobbery
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kiss but hold on a second before you
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reach out to stroke that furry head
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there are a few things you need to know
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yes folks it turns out there's more to
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petting a dog than just the joy of it
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let's dive into what you need to know
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before stroking your dog's head and
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trust me it's not just about avoiding
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Moment One the importance of
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consent first off let's talk about
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consent yes even in the dog world just
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because you're in love with your pup
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doesn't mean they're always in the mood
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for affection some dogs are like that
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friend who loves to party but suddenly
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decides they need me time if your dog is
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giving you the side eye or backing away
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respect their space it's not rejection
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it's just their way of saying not today
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matters now when you do get the green
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light to pet your dog where do you start
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you might think the head is a safe bet
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but hold your horses many dogs prefer a
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scratch behind the ears or under the
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chin think of it as a doggy spa
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treatment they might not appreciate you
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diving right into their personal space
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like you're trying to find buried
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treasure on their forehead so be gentle
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and start in those sweet
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spots three watch the body
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language next up body language dogs are
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experts at communicating with their
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bodies if they're wagging their tail
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like it's a flag on a ship great but if
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that tail is tucked or they're leaning
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away from you it might be time to back
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off off it's like reading a book except
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this book has fur and occasionally
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calmness ever noticed how dogs can sense
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our emotions they're like furry little
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therapists if you're anxious or stressed
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out while trying to pet them they'll
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pick up on that energy faster than you
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can say good boy so take a deep breath
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before you reach out Channel your inner
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zen master your dog will appreciate the
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Vibes five avoiding the top of the
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head let's talk about that classic move
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reaching over the top of a dog's head
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for a Pat this can be intimidating for
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some dogs it's like someone looming over
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you with an umbrella while you're trying
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to enjoy a sunny day at the park instead
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approach from the side or Crouch down to
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their level make it friendly make it
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inviting six be mindful of their past
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here's something many people Overlook a
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dog's past experiences can shape how
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they react to touch if a dog has been
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mistreated or had negative experiences
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with humans they may be more cautious
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about being petted it's essential to be
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patient and earn their trust over time
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remember every dog has its story be
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breed let's not forget about breed
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characteristics some breeds are more
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affectionate than others for instance
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retrievers might be all about those
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belly rubs While others may prefer
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minimal contact do your
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research understanding your dog's breed
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traits can help you navigate their
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comfort levels when it comes to
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affection eight timing is
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everything time cling matters too if
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your dog is busy playing with their
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favorite toy or enjoying a snack this
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might not be the best moment for some
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head pads dogs have their priorities
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just like we do wait for them to wind
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down before attempting any cuddly
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interactions nine the power of
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treats want to win over a shy pup use
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treats positive reinforcement can work
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wonders when building trust with a
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hesitant dog offer them a tasty morsel
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while gently stroking their side or
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under their chin this creates positive
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associations with touch and makes them
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more receptive over time the age
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Factor let's talk age puppies and Senior
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Dogs often have different needs when it
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comes to affection puppies are usually
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more open to touch as they explore the
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world around them while older dogs may
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have aches and pains that make certain
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touches uncomfortable be sensitive to
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these differences adjust your approach
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matters sometimes health issues can
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affect how dogs respond to touch too if
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your pup suddenly becomes skittish or
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doesn't want to be petted anymore
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consider that they might be in pain or
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discomfort a trip to the vet could be in
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order because nobody wants to pet a
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grumpy pup who feels under the
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weather 12 always end on a positive note
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finally always end your petting session
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on a positive note whether it's with
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treats or just some gentle praise make
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sure your dog Associates being petted
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with good feelings this will encourage
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them to welcome future Strokes instead
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of dodging away like they're avoiding an
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exit a party so there you have it
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everything you need to know before
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stroking your dog's head remember these
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furry companions are more than just pets
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they're individuals with feelings and
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preferences all their own