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I Lost My Wife, My Family, and My Heart — The Truth About Our Broken Marriage | True Story
Aug 11, 2025
#redditrelationship #aita #redditstories I Lost My Wife, My Family, and My Heart — The Truth About Our Broken Marriage | True Story I grew up in an empty house, lonely and isolated — but when I met Anne Marie, everything changed. Our love carried us through years of happiness until cracks appeared, leading to betrayal, heartbreak, and a painful divorce. This is my story of love, loss, and finding strength in the darkest moments. From shattered dreams and family conflicts to rebuilding my life and creating a new future, I share every raw and honest detail. If you've ever experienced heartbreak or family struggles, this video is for you. 🔔 Subscribe for more real-life stories and lessons on resilience and growth. 👍 Like if you believe forgiveness is powerful but sometimes, letting go is necessary. 💬 Share your thoughts or your own story in the comments — you’re not alone.
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I grew up in the quiet echo of an empty
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house with parents who were ghosts of
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themselves, always preoccupied with
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work. Books were my refuge, and they
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taught me how to escape a loneliness
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that followed me like a shadow.
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Then in middle school, I met Anne Marie
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Santos.
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She was sunshine, laughter, and a
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vibrant chaos I never knew I needed. Our
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friendship blossomed into a romance that
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carried us through high school, college,
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and finally into marriage.
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She was my opposite in every way,
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outgoing and athletic to my reserved and
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academic. But our connection was
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undeniable. She was my best friend, my
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soulmate, my world. 3 years into our
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marriage, that world began to crack. She
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grew distant, her laughter replaced by a
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quiet, haunted sadness. The realization
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that the person you love no longer loves
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you is a silent, devastating blow. I saw
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the change in her eyes one evening as
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she walked into the dining room.
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Hey, Annie. Hi, Gavin. Are you okay? Not
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really. Please sit. I need to explain.
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Her anxious eyes gave her away. I had
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rehearsed this moment, a script I never
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wanted to perform.
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Annie, I've always wanted your
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happiness, but I know you're not happy
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with me," I said, my voice steady
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despite the quake in my heart. She
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teared up, and in a strange way, her
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pain was a comfort. It meant she wasn't
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a total stranger yet. "I don't want to
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dig into details. It'll just hurt more.
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But if we can agree you're unhappy, it
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would mean a lot," she whispered. "Yes,
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Gavin, I know. Thank you." Her honesty
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gave me the strength to speak the words
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I had dreaded. I want a divorce. I had
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to tell Miguel Santos, Anmarie's father,
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a man I deeply respected who had raised
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eight kids in a tough neighborhood. I
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sat with him on his porch drinking beer
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and told him the hardest truth of my
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life.
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Sir, I've loved no one but your
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daughter. I promised you I'd always put
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her first, and that's what I'm doing
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now, even though it means I'm leaving
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her." His anger was as fierce as I
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expected. A mix of English and Spanish,
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demanding an explanation I couldn't
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fully give. "Some things have to stay
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between us, sir. It hurts to admit our
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marriage has failed, but I believe it's
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for the best."
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He eventually calmed down, his
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disappointment a heavy weight. I owed
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him nothing, but he was more of a father
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to me than my own had ever been. Back
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home, Anmarie's reaction to the divorce
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was a quiet acquiescence that both
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relieved and crushed me. I had expected
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a fight, a reason to stay, but she gave
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me none. Her quiet acceptance confirmed
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my decision was right. Two weeks later,
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in our lawyer's office, we finalized the
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split. We agreed to sell the house,
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divide our accounts, and she would keep
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the new car.
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Everything was settled except the 90-day
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waiting period. When she asked where I
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was going to live, I lied, saying I'd
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rented a small apartment nearby.
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In reality, my old truck was packed and
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my wedding ring was on the kitchen table
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with a note. Goodbye. I will always love
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you. Be happy.
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I hadn't had the heart to tell the full
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truth to anyone. Not even the Santos
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family. I had to forgive her in my
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heart, but I couldn't stay. Before I
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left, I made one more stop. Maria Santos
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hugged me at the door. "God bless you,
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Miho," she said softly. "I will miss
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you." I left quickly before I broke
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down. "The reason for our breakup wasn't
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a mystery to me for long. I found an
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unflushed pregnancy test in the trash.
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It was positive." My mind reeling then
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found her birth control pills untouched.
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That's when I knew.
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The final brutal confirmation came when
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I followed her to her office and saw her
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boss, Michael James, pull up and kiss
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her openly. The smile that was once mine
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was now for him. In just over 2 hours,
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my marriage was over. I made the 20-hour
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drive to Las Vegas in 4 days. my old
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truck rattling through a scenery that
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slowly calmed my mind. I arrived in Las
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Vegas, a newly divorced 25-year-old man
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with no family and no life.
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I enrolled in law school with a full
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scholarship, burying myself in studies
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to escape the gnawing pain. I had no
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friends, no dates, just my books.
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I wrote to the Santos family once a
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month, a habit from my lonely childhood,
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and they wrote back, never mentioning
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Anne Marie, only hinting at
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reconciliation.
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It was a cruel kindness, but for a while
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it was all I had. My social life was a
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wasteland for years. Then I met David
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Rothschild, a senior partner at the
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small real estate law firm I joined. He
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became my mentor, my life coach, and the
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father figure I had always needed.
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Gavin, you're dedicated and meticulous,"
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he said in my first evaluation. "But as
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a person, you're completely out of
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touch. Are you 30 or 90?"
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He made me his project, forcing me out
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of my shell. His guidance helped me
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invest, buy real estate, and become a
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confident, successful businessman. After
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helping me build my career, Rothschild
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turned his focus to my personal life.
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Next month, Miguel and Maria Santos will
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be married for 50 years, he said. Only a
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jackass wouldn't mark an event like
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that. He was right. I sent them the trip
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of a lifetime. First class airfare, a
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five-star hotel, limos, and VIP show
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tickets in Las Vegas. When they called
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to thank me, I told them, "This gift
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doesn't even begin to repay the kindness
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you've shown me." They insisted I join
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them for the whole trip. With
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Rothschild's influence, we were treated
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like royalty, welcomed by everyone from
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resort directors to restaurant owners.
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The Santos beamed with pride. "Gavin,
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you've always been such a wonderful
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boy," Maria said, patting my hand. "We
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always knew you were special, and we've
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always been proud to call you our son,"
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Miguel finished, his voice strong and
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full of love. Their hug was a
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long-awaited family moment that finally
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filled the emptiness I had carried for
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so long. Inspired by their love, I
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created a new project.
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It was a small but important one, a
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business plan to secure their future.
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Back in Omaha, I presented it to them in
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a new beautiful condo.
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"We'll form a partnership," I said,
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showing them the documents. will close
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on 19 properties near your home, package
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them with your house, request a zoning
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change, and sell them to a property
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management company.
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Half of the profits will fund a lifetime
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annuity for you both. You'll be able to
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retire comfortably in your new home.
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Tears streamed down Maria's face, and
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Miguel shook his head in disbelief.
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"It's a miracle, Miho," he said. "More
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than we could have imagined. No one
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deserves it more than you," I replied.
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just as a familiar voice echoed behind
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me. No one deserves it more than you
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two. Anne Marie stood there, a more
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mature version of the woman I had
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married, her smile less radiant. We had
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a brief, awkward conversation, and she
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handed me her card, asking to talk.
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Against my better judgment, I agreed.
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Two nights later, we sat in a booth at a
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bar we used to frequent.
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"You lied to me," she said. and you lied
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to me first," I shot back, tired of her
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trying to rewrite history.
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She confessed that Michael James had
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forced her to stop sleeping with me, and
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she had gotten pregnant to trap him,
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only for his wife to find out, and for
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him to leave her, ruining her life. Now
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she was alone, her parents barely
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talking to her, her siblings avoiding
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her. "I'm all alone, Gavin," she
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pleaded. "I made a huge mistake and I'm
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so sorry. I love you, and I've dreamed
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of another chance." Anmarie, I forgave
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you a long time ago, I said, my voice
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firm.
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But there's no going back. The woman I
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loved was a lying, cheating person. How
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could I ever trust you again? I asked.
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Tell me one reason why I'd let you back
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into my life that wouldn't just benefit
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you. She had no answer. I stood up and
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walked away.
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3 months later, I gathered the entire
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Santos family in their new condo. The
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space was cozy but perfect. "I wanted
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everyone here, so I only had to say this
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once," I began, my voice filled with a
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quiet strength. "Being treated as a full
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member of this family has been one of my
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greatest joys. But I also remember that
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Anne Marie was part of this family, too.
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She cheated on me, and I made hard
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choices because of that. But she didn't
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cheat on any of you." I looked at them
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all, their expressions a mix of
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confusion and anger. With all due
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respect, I continued, you all need to
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stop being little a-holes and stop
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ostracizing your daughter and sister
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until she's back where she belongs.
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Until this nonsense is over, I want
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nothing to do with any of you. I walked
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away from my foster family, unsure if I
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would ever see them again, but certain
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that I had done the right thing.
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The love I felt for them and for Anmarie
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had been a constant in my life, and I
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had just made the ultimate sacrifice for