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People choose to SEE YOU how they want to SEE YOU.
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Jun 7, 2025
People choose to SEE YOU how they want to SEE YOU.
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there's absolutely
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nothing there's nothing you can do about
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how people choose to see you because
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they are constantly creating their own
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realities and that's just it if someone
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is creating a reality for themselves
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where they have this cousin or a sibling
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that hates them even though we all know
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that's not the
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case you can't go all
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out trying to prove to this person that
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no that's not the case that's not the
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case that's a reality they're creating
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for themselves that's a story they're
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going to go around telling people so
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that people feel sorry for
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them and the foolish people will believe
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that that that one side of the story you
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know if someone comes to you with a
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story telling you this person is doing
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this to me ha and then you choose to
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believe that as the whole truth then you
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are
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foolish every story has two sides if you
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heard one side of the story then you
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don't really know the story you don't
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really know the story so these are the
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things we cannot
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control how people choose to see
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us how they they choose to create us in
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their reality and
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how they they they create Us in the
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realities of people around them we have
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no control over that and I I'm thinking
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maybe this is one of the things that
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pushes people to just end up choosing to
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be
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alone end up choosing
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to to be alone
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and be by themselves be introvert
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because you are so sick and tired of
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coming across such things being around
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people so unstable so unhappy with
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themselves you tired of that so you
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rather be alone cuz you know when you're
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alone you are kind to yourself you give
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yourself peace and you're not bothering
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anyone and you are definitely not going
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to expect anyone to come and bother you
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but guess what people will come people
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will disturb your
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peace I've been learning recently this
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you know through my own life experiences
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that yes it's going to be painful it's
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going to be painful when when you have
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someone in your
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life
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that wants to Tanish your name and I
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don't know what causes this sometimes it
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could be be so many things sometimes
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people TR they choose to to do this
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because they they feel like people favor
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you or they feel like people think you
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are this perfect person but that's
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that's a story that they they they are
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constantly telling themselves about you
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so they feel like everybody sees that
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and they try to Tanish that and when
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they do that there's nothing you can
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do there's nothing you can do because
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every little thing that you do in these
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people's eyes everything that you do
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it's under a
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microscope it's under a microscope
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they're trying to see how you react if
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they do this how you going to react so
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if this is how you react next time this
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is what's going to happen and they you
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got they are studying you so that they
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can try to break you behind your back
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you have no control over these things
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you can't go to open up a case because
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someone is tiing toing your
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name you can't what are you going to say
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you are suspecting they are they you
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know there are some things
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which only you and the person will know
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and not everyone else you know and I
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don't know if you you understand me
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but there's that thing
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between two
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people that energy where only two people
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know what's happening between the two of
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them and none of them can actually speak
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out because it does not make sense it's
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not going to make sense to the person
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who's not part of what's happening
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between these two
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people so this is why some people they
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they'd rather just keep quiet and not
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share anything with anyone because no
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one is going to
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understand no one is going to understand
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why because for you to to to go and tell
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the story you have to have proof you
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have to have evidence you know people
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want to to have something solid for them
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to to understand exactly what you are
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saying and what help you need because of
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such tiny little very strong
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things so oh man life is too is too
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complex it's too complex too
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complicated many gray areas you know
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so there's really nothing you can do
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there's nothing you can do let people
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choose who they want you to be in their
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lives because whether you try to be good
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or however
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they'll still choose to see you how they
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want to see you because maybe they are
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destined to to to be in a reality that's
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filled or a a reality that has this
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person who hates them or this person who
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does not like them or this person who is
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too
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perfect maybe that's what they are
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destined for but what about you
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what reality are are you creating for
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yourself what reality are you creating
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for yourself are you creating a reality
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where people are too perfect and you
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want to Tanish their names and stay in
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that reality and be miserable and have
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regrets later or are you creating a
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reality where you just want to see the
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goodness in people not only that that
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yes you're just human sometimes you're
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going to be annoyed but by some things
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that people
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do but you get over that but there are
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there are some things which are
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Everlasting are you
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creating uh
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dirty ugly Everlasting realities for
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yourself or
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what or what I I I'm truly at a point in
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my life where
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I I don't care
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anymore I don't care anymore but deep
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down I
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do deep down I
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do I do but I I I don't know I don't
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know how to explain this or should I say
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I do not want to K anymore and hey this
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video is not here to give advises I
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myself I need an advice I need help in
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that area I need help in that so I just
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decided let me just release this video
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maybe someone out there has something
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they've done I don't know I don't know
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what to call this but
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yeah maybe acceptance is what's going to
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set me free maybe accepting
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that you can try by all means to have
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this peace within yourself but they'll
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always be that one person there'll
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always be that one person who wants to
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challenge that and there's absolutely
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nothing you can do about that maybe
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that's something I just need to accept
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