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WHEN Niyah started getting her hair done at AlleyB's salon, she had no idea that it would lead to love. She told Love Don't Judge, "I hooked up with my hairstylist and her man." The throuple - consisting of AlleyB, Niyah and CT - was formed at the beginning of the year, but not everyone agrees with their relationship. AlleyB admitted, "We receive a lot of judgement. They say she's [Niyah] here just for him. He's going to leave me." And it's not just online where they're subjected to hate - AlleyB's brother has his own reservations. "Chris is not on board with this relationship," she revealed. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the throuple will be revealing to Chris that Niyah will officially be moving in with AlleyB and CT. How will he react? Watch on and see the drama unfold...
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I'm Nya, and I hooked up with my hairstylist and her man
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We got a whole bunch of bad comments. If he really loved you, he wouldn't need another woman
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You guys are predators. Today, my brother Chris is going to be coming over, and we're going to be telling him something
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and hopefully he doesn't flip. Chris is not on board with this relationship. You loud, you obnoxious
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I'm loud. You're not moving in here. I could kick you out right now. Oh, wait, wait
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We don't got to go this far. You can leave right now. We don't got to go this far
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Hey, my name's CT. I'm 35. I'm Ally B. I'm 39. And this is our girlfriend, Nya
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Well, I met Nya. She was a client of mine. She was really cute. And she was single
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And we were single. So, yeah. I was comfortable with this, like, you know, open up to her
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with just anything, because that's how her soul was. One day I was doing Nya's hair, and she was texting somebody
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I guess she wanted my advice on the little situation she had going on
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And I gave it to her. And then that's when I knew that she was interested in being polyamorous
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So I started talking to her, and then she just started coming over. And then there it is there
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She started liking CT, and I thought that was so cute for her. And he liked her back, so here we are
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He was just so gentle. I've always wanted a third person, but I didn't really present that to him until like two years into our relationship
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I was surprised, but I was cool with it. We've been a Thrillville officially a year, January 1st
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I've been in polyamorous relationships before, but this is CT's first time
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I have never been in a polyamorous relationship. I'm 20 years old. With them being older, I was like, oh, are they going to belittle me or like, you know, judge me for the things that I don't know and things that I should know
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But the deeper we got into the relationship, they just helped me with this
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At the beginning, I didn't know at the age at first. And then when it happened, we just had a bond already
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So it was too late. Whether you're coupled, throupled or figuring it out
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which is up to 70% on everything. Just hit the link in the description or scan the QR code below today my brother Chris is going to be coming over and we going to be telling him something and hopefully he doesn flip Chris is not on board with this relationship He does not like the dynamic of it He thinks that it should be just be me and CT I nervous
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Chillin So brother, when we first brought a night to you, how did you feel
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At first I didn't feel nothing. I didn't even think y'all was serious about it at the end of the day
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That's who y'all like, that's who y'all love. You know, I'm a respecter, you know
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cause you my sister, I love you and I wanna see you happy. And if she makes you happy, then so be it
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I don't really think too much about it, you know. It's gonna always be Ally and CT, and then just the other
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I'm an other? I'm sorry you did it, Ally. How you feel about the age now
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I didn't even know she was a baby at first. Why you call her a baby
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She's not, but she's wrong with me, He has a whole child. A baby with a baby
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With a home place. But you didn't know I was young. Man, I'm an old school Christian. You didn't know I was young. What about you, then
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Would you ever consider doing something like this? I just want one person to tell myself
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Why would I want to? I can't even find one person. What would I look like trying to find a second person
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Oh, so that's why you don't want to? Let me just find one person. We've got to tell you something
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I don't really know how to tell you, because I don't want you to judge me. I don't want you to have too much to say about it
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because I already know how you is. But, like... What her story is, I'll be moving in next week
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Moving in where? The house. In my dog house, in the backyard
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Wait, Chris. Like seriously, she's moving in. In the house. She trying to- Her in lane
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That's not happening. What? Why not? Was y'all just conversing amongst yourselves and just made that decision
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I'm grown, yeah. We all grown. CT got tied to parents of the rent, so that's what we came up with
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That's not my problem. Bro. Like every time you got something going on, I'm there for you, right
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That don't make no sense. I am here for you. I'm here for you. You don't support nothing I got going on
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Man. I mean, I do pitch in, you know. I help pay the rent
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Clean around the house. I do my part. So if we move her in, then what
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Y'all not going to move her in. What? You don't want to think about it at least
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I thought about it as soon as she said it. Okay, you sassy with it then
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It's not even about space. What is it about? I don't like you, bruh
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You not moving in here. Guess what? You gonna go in like home What I very lovable What have I done to you personally Exactly What have I done to you personally These my people These my family right here You kidding me
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We'll find a way. We'll figure it out. We'll get out to renew your look. Because I'm here to stay, so I'm not going nowhere
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Nah, nah, nah. You all be a family? You loud, you obnoxious
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I'm loud? Yes. You ain't even that loud. Obnoxious is crazy. I can kick you out right now
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Oh, wait. Wait. We don't gotta go this far. You can leave right now
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We don't gotta go get this far. She's sitting there again slick as a
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Hey, you in a relationship with them. You not here to talk to me
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I'm waiting. Look, y'all can get obsessed. Relax, relax. I thought this was a simple conversation
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Hey, hey, relax. Relax. This is why I don't like her. Look, bruh, she like just be popping and like going somewhere, bruh
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I don't know, bruh. I need y'all like a little bit more respect for my brother
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A little, a whole lot more. I got most of the mistakes for your brother
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He just don't have nothing for me. All right, ain't no talk about it. Y'all got it, y'all got it. I'm out of here
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all three of y'all. What? Especially that little buzzard at the end, bro. I don't like you, bro
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Come on, bro. I'm good. I'm gonna call you, bro, because that ain't..
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I ain't got you. I'm gonna get your number so I can't call you. It's you. Stop talking
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Bro. My brother's a really good person and maybe we just have to
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give him a little time, a little space and kind of talk to him
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more about Naya. Communicate. That's the biggest part about communication because if you feel jealous
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about something, you just let that person know and be like, hey, I feel this type of way or I feel like you're not doing this enough
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The only time I really felt jealous is it's kind of like they were hiding their feelings
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And I could sense that. And I didn't like it. I was like, hey, what's going on? I said y'all can be together
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Y'all should love each other. What happened? I was worried about Allie's feelings
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All my love, all my time I had with her, I didn't know how to give someone that to Nair
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I didn't know how to express my feelings, but Nair around Allie
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We had a conversation. Talk to me, right? Eventually, after that, everything just went with a flow and we just got our bond
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Because when I came in, I felt like I didn't want to step on no toes. I felt like I was walking on air shelves
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I had to remember like we're both sharing him. This is our man
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Ever since then, we've just been three peas in a lot. Whenever we want that alone time, we just like, hey, let's go do this or let's go do that
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And then we just go and do it. And then the other person wants to spend some time with that other person, we just take it how it is
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Especially since we girls we have other stuff that we can do to bond like go get our nails done go shopping just do a whole bunch of girl stuff and I love it I spend a lot of time with CT because I live with him
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We go on dates alone, but I, like, push them to go on dates and to spend more time together
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We receive quite a lot of judgment. A lot. They say a lot of stuff. They say, she's here just for him
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She's going to take him or run off and have her own kids, marry him. He's going to leave me
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They're going to leave me. Yeah, me and her were lesbians and we don't want him
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I'm dishearing because I need a place to stay. People are worried about maybe Naya getting pregnant
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Like, what if she get pregnant? I'm like, well, we'll just have a kid together. That's the whole point of poly, extended family
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We got a whole bunch of bad comments. If he really loved you, he wouldn't need another woman
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He's not satisfied. You guys are predators. Who, y'all? Y'all was praying on me
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They talk about me. Naya is using us. This girl is really brainwashed
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Y'all gonna be crying when y'all get cheated on. Wow. When we went viral, I think it locked us in a little bit more
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Naya has a two-year-old daughter. We don't have a kid, so her visiting, it was like
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can you find a babysitter? And that kind of was the issue in the beginning
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That was something that I was very scared of. Like, if this relationship makes me happy
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it needs to make my baby happy as well. That's exactly what it is. My baby is so happy
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I feed it, I take it places and stuff. He taught her how to walk down the stairs
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I taught her how to walk down the stairs. She get on my nerves sometimes, you know
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She eat all my snacks. Our relationship worked because we make it work
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not because we're trying to make it work for somebody else. Definitely, I agree
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It's not just for an image or anything like that. It's because we genuinely love each other
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It's something I see myself in for the rest of my life. Oh my God. I would like to say to the people that judge us that love comes in many forms
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The shapes, sizes, age gaps, all of it. It doesn't matter. That's what really happens
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The same way a mother can love all five of her children is the same way somebody can love
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two people. Thank you