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Doriynn and her partner CaLLamar are in a polyamorous relationship that attracts criticism from both her friends and online trolls. The couple met after Doriynn's viral social media videos where she approaches strangers on the street pretending to be their girlfriend. The pair hit it off and quickly bonded over their shared openness to non-monogamy. Since sharing their videos online, people accuse CaLLamar of disrespecting or manipulating Doriynn. Doriynn's loyal followers have also accused CaLLamar of using her for her internet fame. He was known for being in a dance group that created the ‘Nae Nae’ dance back in 2013. Her friends believe that he's using this public poly relationship and her big following to revive his fame. In particular, Doriynn's best friend AJ does not approve. In this episode we see him confront CaLLamar and ask about his intentions with Doriynn. Despite the criticism, the couple remain committed to building a future together. They hope to someday get married, continue creating content as a team, and eventually find a committed third female partner to build a stable long-term polyamorous trio. Will they find love in this episode? Watch to see if CaLLamar clicks with Doriynn's friend Cookie...
Follow Doriynn and CaLLamar: https://www.instagram.com/doriielise/ https://www.instagram.com/therealcallamarr/
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We both get with other women
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but people think Calvin's manipulating me to do it. I just want to have more than one
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I love sleeping with other women as much as he does. So today my friend AJ is coming over
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and he does not like Calvin at all. You know what, I'm gonna give him some pretzels too because I don't think this drink is gonna be enough
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Some pretzels? Yeah. You doing a lot for this man. I've been best friends with her for four years
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and this new guy just came into town and I'm just like, mmm, not really feeling it
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Today we're meeting up with my friend Cookie. How would you feel about being with a couple
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Like as far as me and Calvin. My name is Dorian. How you doing? My name is Calvin
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We really want to find a woman to permanently join our relationship. I do videos where I walk up on people and act like I know them already
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Basically, I did all of that with him. I ended up scoring. We've just been locked in ever since
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Like we balance each other out. When we first started dating, I was not monogamous
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I like men and women. but unfortunately in this generation and society people don't like that they frown upon it i've
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never done this before like seriously it was always a dream you know i'm saying like as a kid
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i just want to have more than one because another can do what she might not be able to do it's a
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team thing some guys don't like that they don't like for their girl to deal with another woman
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me personally i like it as long as it's not another guy the judgment that i see a lot of
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especially in comments, you need to respect yourself. This man doesn't care about you
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He's using you for clout. People are just saying, I look stupid
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They're like, where's the longevity in it? It's not gonna last. Anytime you have three people, it's not gonna last
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Can y'all go find another man too? Like, another person in a relationship is disaster
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It will not end well. It never does. Red flag, red flag
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Find another baddie. Like, y'all not good enough for one another? When God made Adam and Eve
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He didn't add no Gloria to them. Allowing such disrespect means you don't respect yourself
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This is bad. This is disgusting. Y'all stay safe. Objectifying another woman for your man's approval sucks
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Hope that helps. Why are y'all so upset that I'm not offended by that
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I've learned to just laugh at people and ignore a lot of things
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This most definitely made a strong risk of a couple. I used to be in this famous dance group
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and now they think I'm using my girl Dory to regain my fame
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I was famous previously because I created this dance called the May-Nay with this group called We Are Tuned
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My friends think that Calvin is using me to regain his fame. It crazy Some of my friends they just really didn like it They just don understand it because they monogamous So today my friend AJ is coming over and he does not like Calvin at all And he going to tell us exactly why
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You know what? I'm going to give him some pretzels too because I don't think this drink is going to be enough. Some pretzels
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Yeah. You doing a lot for this, man. I'm hosting. Like, really? Okay
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He's just very territorial. There's nothing going on with us though. I have no problems with him, you know
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I have no issues. Like, just calm it down with that, you know? He's a shark, I'm a shark
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I've been best friends with her for four years, and this new guy just came into town
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and I'm just like, mm, not really feeling it. What I would actually like to ask Calvin today is
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what is his intentions? Because you can have great intentions and say you do
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but what are they, though? AJ! Hey, how you doing? Good. What's up with you? How you been
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Good, I missed you. I missed you, too. What's up, bro? I did call you over here because I really wanted to get to the bottom of how you feel about me and Cal
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Okay, first because I don't want to offend you and I want you just to be happy
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Because outside looking in, I feel like you're an opportunist in a way. You know, because like on some of the videos, it's just like I don't feel like he's your team partner, your team player
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It's more so he thinking about himself. I don't really feel like y'all actually have a great time
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It's only just work and when he come around, it's only about videos. So I don't really hear personal things
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I hear more so like beneficial things. I'm not just going to volunteer, like voluntarily say, oh, me and Cal, we be laid up right now
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Like, I don't have to do that. Laid up is basic, but like, does he take you like on a picnic or something
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We do a lot with each other. I mean, you know, I do, I do, you know what I mean, my due diligence
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We don't just show everything on social media, you know what I'm saying
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What's the long term goal? Because I know, I know now. I can't find anyone else that's like her
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That can kind of like match my energy, match my style, match what I want in life
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I didn't really hear the long-term goals though. What's your long-term goal when you think of Dory
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or when you look at Dory, what's your long-term goal? Not what I think or anybody else
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Right, right, right. I want to become one with her, you know what I mean
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As far as like marriage, if that's available. I don't know if that's how that's available with another person
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but if we can work that out, that'd be great. But yeah, how does that look like with another partner
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because I know y'all want to go poly, so how does that make sense? How does this stand with Dory, though
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We haven't really experienced nothing like this, so there nothing that I can say off the bat that I just know this is going to work Like how do y pick the one out the only one who just picked them out in school It really it mostly me Like sometimes Oh okay that cool Yeah it really me
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I kind of call a lot of the shots. Cause girls are very slick, you know. Do you ever feel like he would like venture off
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and do something with the woman by himself or no? At this position where we're at
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I don't feel like he'll do that behind my back because I'm so open with him. Like he's open with me so
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But we can do it together. Exactly. Like if he did, it would be kind of like a shocker to me
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Like, what's so different that you couldn't tell me? How do y'all deal with jealousy? Callum, he's not really the jealous type
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He's just territorial, and it's more with men. The comments were saying something about insecurity and all that stuff, but it's not that
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It's just respecting. But with girls, I don't feel intimidated or jealous as long as he's not doing anything just blatantly disrespectful
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Like, if a girl walk up to him and just make out with him, like, I don't know you. Like, who is this girl
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Are you happy? Yes, I'm extremely happy. Are you happy? I'm more than happy
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I mean, like I say, if we can add on, you know, that would be great
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If not, I'm perfectly fine with being with Dory. Because there's nothing that, like, we're lacking with each other
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I just want to say I apologize. Nah, for sure. We cool. I actually don't feel like you're actually a bad guy
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I feel like you're genuine. It's real. I feel like the relationship is mutual
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I just want to say, you know, you're on my good side. So anytime you want to call, you want to hang out
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It's love, huh? Yes. You know what I'm saying? You walk your way to the door, man
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About time. I appreciate you coming. Thank you, best friend. I appreciate you
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I appreciate you. Thank you for coming. All right, Dora. I appreciate you
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I'm glad you invited me. All right, bro. I appreciate you. All right, y'all
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Thank you. See you later. Let me show you the girls I've been looking at lately. What you think? No? Yes
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She look, yeah. She look a little crazy, though. See, this is why I be needing you, because you
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But that's why I can't find anybody. She do look good, though. We maintain boundaries and have a team patient
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You know what I mean? We don't hide anything. Yeah, yeah, I don't think. Who you been looking at
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Because I know you been looking at some people. Oh, wow. She bad, though
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She look like she might hit me upside the head, so I don't know
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There are rules for me. Not like, nothing crazy, but just don't lie to me
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Don't meet up with another woman without me. I want to be involved fully. I actually would be interested in adding a woman permanently
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Today, we're meeting up with my friend Cookie. And I feel like Calvin's really going to vibe with her
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because I like her. Maybe I can get her on board with the poly thing. Hey girl, how are you
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How are you? Good. How you doing, mommy? This is Calvin. Nice to meet you You look good Thank you so much Love your hair How would you feel about being with a couple Like as far as me and Calvin Yeah
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You with Safali? Honestly, I wouldn't mind, because, you know, I love you. I wouldn't mind giving it a try
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Oh my gosh, for real. Yes. Y'all don't make me blush, because I was over here like, I don't know if I'm going to take it
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I'm so nervous, y'all. I'm nervous, too. Have you ever done it before? Like, it's one
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Yes, yes, I have. OK. Yes. It's been like maybe two years for me, but it was decent
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This is our first time, so I'm kind of new to it a little bit. You know what I'm saying? So I'm very open to see how this thing goes
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As far as like Polly, you know, this is my first. I'm definitely up to it
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Y'all like y'all having some fun. This just made me so happy because I was like, I really did not know how she was going to react
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because I was like, I hope that he's into her like I'm into her. I love your vibe
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Like I said, we can get to know each other a little bit more. I'm a little nervous, so excited at the same time
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We're going to go with the flow. We're going to just, you know, take baby steps. Okay, that's fine
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Are you quick to get like jealous or like? No. Do you feel a certain type of work
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Because she's here obviously first. We're trying to bring someone apart. No
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I just don't, okay. Eventually time will tell you know everything about me. Why do you guys feel like I'm the one that, you know
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perhaps might fit into this dynamic? Mmm. You answer first. Me? I feel like you could teach me a lot of things
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Both of us really, if you've already been in this situation, you know what I'm saying, I feel like we can grow in that aspect
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You're gorgeous, without the makeup, without anything. And I really do like authenticity whenever I date a woman
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So pretty. They share their dimples right. So are you. Thank y'all
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Y'all look good together. We all gonna look good together. Yeah, that's right. Yeah
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What I love the most about Dory is her chest. I'm just lying
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We laugh all day, every day. You know what I'm saying? And she helps me open up, you know what I'm saying
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I can talk to her about anything. He gives me a sense of peace. I can be myself
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I don't have any judgment for him. I'm tired of being judged. I'm tired of having insecure people
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I feel like he's really like a best friend, but like a lover and best friend in one
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And I could tell you everything. The future for the both of us, it holds, I would say, marriage
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Someone that can be a part of this relationship. To people that judge our relationship, go get you some happiness
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Not everybody lives their life the same way that y'all do. Thank you