0:00
It had been 25 years. 25 years of shared
0:04
jokes, family vacations, and the quiet
0:06
comfort that comes from growing old with
0:08
someone. I had believed our love was a
0:11
deep rooted oak, a sturdy thing that
0:14
could weather any storm. But on a
0:16
Tuesday afternoon, my wife Annie
0:18
shattered that belief with a single
0:20
careless blow. She sat at the kitchen
0:23
table, a glass of wine in her hand, a
0:26
look of grim resolve on her face. I had
0:29
just come home from work, my mind still
0:31
replaying the day's numbers and
0:32
deadlines, but her demeanor told me this
0:35
was no ordinary evening.
0:37
"Arthur," she began, her voice a
0:40
practiced monotone. "I need you to sign
0:42
these papers. I found my soulmate."
0:45
The words were like a physical blow. The
0:48
world, once so vibrant and full of
0:50
color, began to drain into shades of
0:52
gray. She continued to speak, but her
0:54
voice became a distant hum, a mosquito
0:57
buzzing in my ear. She talked about her
1:00
new love, Paul, a man who she claimed
1:03
made her happier than I ever could. She
1:06
spoke of the years of our unsatisfactory
1:09
life together, of the love she no longer
1:13
All the while, my body remained frozen,
1:16
a statue in my own home. I looked at the
1:19
papers she was pushing toward me. The
1:21
bold words petition for divorce and
1:23
obscene banner on the page. My mind so
1:26
sharp and analytical in my work as an
1:28
accountant was a useless blank canvas. I
1:32
wanted to scream, to ask her why, to beg
1:35
her to reconsider, but I couldn't. I was
1:39
trapped inside a body that refused to
1:40
obey. The last thing I remember was the
1:43
sharp sting of her slap. A final act of
1:46
cruelty from a woman I no longer
1:48
recognized. Even then, I felt no pain,
1:52
just a cold, encroaching darkness. The
1:54
silence of the house hit me first. The
1:57
lights were on. My dad's car was in the
1:59
driveway, but my mom's was gone. I had
2:03
just gotten home from university,
2:05
exhausted from a long, stressful drive.
2:08
I dropped my books and bag on the
2:10
kitchen floor. the clatter echoing in
2:14
My dad, Arthur, sat at the table, a
2:17
single glass of wine in front of him,
2:19
motionless. "Hey, Dad," I said, touching
2:22
his shoulder. No response. I walked
2:25
around to face him, and a wave of panic
2:28
washed over me. His eyes were glazed,
2:30
milky white, a trail of drool hanging
2:33
from his mouth. He wasn't blinking. Dad,
2:37
Dad, come back to me, I pleaded, tears
2:40
stinging my eyes. He didn't move. I knew
2:44
this man. I knew the man who had sat
2:46
through every school concert, every
2:48
ballet recital. The man who had bought
2:50
me a Hoffner violin for my 16th
2:52
birthday. A gesture of quiet, unwavering
2:56
support. This wasn't the man I knew. He
2:59
was a shell, an empty vessel. My hands
3:02
shook as I dialed 911, my voice cracking
3:05
as I explained the situation. While I
3:07
waited for the ambulance, my eyes fell
3:09
on the papers on the table. Petition for
3:12
divorce. A cold, creeping horror spread
3:15
through me. I read, my skin crawling at
3:18
the details. My mother, Annie, wanted to
3:21
leave my father. My father, I now
3:24
realized, was a victim of an emotional
3:25
and mental assault. The compassion I had
3:28
for my mother, a woman who had been my
3:30
role model, evaporated in that moment.
3:33
The ambulance arrived and I directed the
3:36
paramedics, a detached, professional
3:38
part of me taking over. I followed them
3:41
to the hospital, making a series of
3:43
calls on the way. I called my
3:45
grandmother, my aunt Rhonda, a family
3:48
attorney, and my dad's best friend. I
3:50
even called his manager at work,
3:52
informing her of his condition and that
3:54
he would be out for an extended period.
3:56
Then I made the call I had been
3:58
dreading. "Hi, Sally, my darling. How
4:00
was your day?" My mother's voice
4:02
chirped, a sickeningly casual tone that
4:05
infuriated me. "Where are you, Mom?" I
4:08
asked, my voice dangerously calm. "I'm
4:11
out and about, sweetie." "Out and about?
4:14
You just shattered dad and left him to
4:16
die alone. The ambulance is taking him
4:18
to the hospital, and he looks like he's
4:20
had a stroke." There was a moment of
4:22
silence on the other end, but it wasn't
4:25
a silence of concern. "Oh, Sally, my
4:28
sweetie," she said, her voice dripping
4:32
"I'm sorry to hear that, but he'll be
4:35
fine. I'm only asking for what is
4:38
rightfully mine. The casual cruelty of
4:40
her words was a gut punch." "Rightfully
4:44
yours? What about a heart, a soul?"
4:48
The conversation devolved into a
4:49
shouting match with me accusing her of
4:52
being a heartless liar and a cheat.
4:54
She had been having an affair with a man
4:56
from her work, a man a dozen years
4:58
younger, and she had the audacity to
5:01
expect me to live with them. I hung up
5:04
on her, the finality of the action, a
5:06
small comfort in the chaos. The next two
5:09
weeks were a blur of hospital lights,
5:11
doctor's visits, and the constant
5:14
presence of Rhonda, my aunt.
5:16
She had taken the divorce papers, a grim
5:19
determination on her face.
5:21
The good news, she told me with a
5:23
sardonic grin, is that she's hired a
5:27
My dear brother, on the other hand, has
5:29
the best lawyer in town, and he's
5:31
getting the family discount. My dad's
5:33
physical health was fine, but he
5:35
remained in his catatonic state. I
5:37
continued my university studies from a
5:39
chair by his bed, my laptop and
5:41
textbooks, a testament to my
5:43
determination to hold on to some
5:44
semblance of normaly.
5:46
One day a woman came to visit him, a
5:49
striking figure with dark hair and
5:51
mesmerizing blue eyes. Her name was Tina
5:54
Williams, the owner of the company where
5:56
my dad worked. She told me how my dad
5:58
had helped her years ago during a messy
6:00
divorce. He had introduced her to
6:03
Rhonda, who had saved her business from
6:05
a predatory ex-husband.
6:07
Tina visited several times, bringing
6:09
cards from his co-workers, holding his
6:12
hand, and sharing stories about the
6:13
office. My dad, it turned out, was a
6:16
beloved figure, a source of humor and
6:19
light in a tedious job. Then, on a
6:21
Friday afternoon, something shifted. I
6:25
had just returned from a shower at home
6:26
to find Rhonda and Tina talking, a
6:29
shared fury in their voices.
6:32
My mother had sent a demand letter to
6:34
Tina, attempting to extort a portion of
6:36
my dad's past bonuses.
6:39
The audacity of her actions, even in his
6:41
condition, was breathtaking.
6:44
"If it weren't for your father," Tina
6:46
said, her voice filled with a simmering
6:48
rage. I wouldn't have my daughter or my
6:50
business. I'd have pursued him with
6:52
everything I had after my divorce if he
6:56
As she leaned down to give him a tender,
6:58
sincere kiss goodbye, my dad groaned. My
7:02
dad. He was back. I watched as he slowly
7:05
came back to us, his eyes regaining
7:07
their focus, his memories returning in a
7:10
torrent. He told us about the last thing
7:13
he remembered, Annie's slap and her
7:15
final cruel words. The psychologist
7:19
explained that my dad had experienced a
7:20
form of catatonic shock, a similar
7:23
episode to one he had experienced as a
7:25
child when he had been bullied. The
7:30
With the love and attention of these
7:32
three lovely ladies, he said, "I believe
7:35
you'll be well taken care of." Over the
7:37
next two weeks, I was a man reborn. I
7:40
was discharged from the hospital, and
7:42
with the help of Sally and Tina, I
7:44
returned home. Tina, the woman whose
7:47
kiss had woken me from my living
7:48
nightmare, was a constant presence.
7:51
She brought me a work laptop, giving me
7:54
simple tasks to ease me back into my
7:56
routine. She stayed for dinner, helped
7:58
clean up, and we'd talk for hours. On a
8:01
Friday afternoon, Rhonda delivered the
8:03
news that we had been waiting for.
8:06
Annie was arrested this afternoon, she
8:08
announced. I was shocked. She explained
8:12
that based on my statement, the police
8:14
had issued a warrant for mental cruelty
8:16
to a person with a disability.
8:18
It was a small victory, but a victory
8:22
The divorce proceedings, once a slow,
8:24
moving bureaucratic nightmare, began to
8:28
Tina and I started going on dates. We'd
8:31
have dinner, go dancing, and talk for
8:33
hours. We never went beyond holding
8:36
hands and a few lingering kisses. a
8:38
silent agreement to wait until my
8:40
divorce was finalized. But on the night
8:43
the divorce decree came through, Tina
8:45
gave me a deep, passionate kiss.
8:48
"Consider that my acknowledgement of
8:49
your claim," I said, a grin on my face.
8:52
3 and 1/2 months later, we received a
8:54
notification that the divorce would be
8:56
finalized. But before the final decree,
8:59
Annie requested a meeting, a last chance
9:05
I spent the afternoon cooking a meal
9:06
that had been a family favorite, a final
9:09
poignant nod to the life we once had.
9:12
When she arrived, the woman who had been
9:14
my wife, was almost unrecognizable.
9:17
She had gained a significant amount of
9:19
weight, her face puffy, her body soft
9:21
and shapeless. The Annie I had known, a
9:24
vibrant, attractive woman, was gone.
9:27
"It's what Paul wants," she said,
9:30
addressing my unspoken shock. "He didn't
9:34
My daughter Sally was a firestorm of
9:36
righteous fury. "You did a freaking
9:39
horrible thing," she spat. "You tore
9:42
apart a happy family and walked out
9:43
without a care in the world." The
9:45
conversation was a minefield, a mix of
9:47
strained small talk, Sally's righteous
9:50
anger, and Annie's quiet defensiveness.
9:53
After dinner, she asked to speak to
9:55
Sally alone, a last desperate attempt to
9:58
win her back. But Sally, a new kind of
10:01
woman, a new kind of strength, refused.
10:05
If you can't say it to both of us, she
10:07
said, "Then I don't want to hear it."
10:10
After Sally stormed off, I looked at
10:12
Annie, and for the first time since this
10:14
nightmare began, I felt a kind of
10:18
Annie, I began, my voice low and steady.
10:22
You need to realize that nobody in this
10:24
house holds much affection for you. I
10:27
laid out the facts, the brutal,
10:29
unvarnished truth of her betrayal. I
10:31
spoke of the long-term affair, the
10:33
divorce papers, the cruelty of leaving
10:35
me in a catatonic state, and the lack of
10:38
concern she had shown for me or our
10:40
daughter. With all that considered, I
10:42
said, a bitter laugh escaping me. I
10:44
think things went quite well. Her gaze
10:47
fell to the floor, tears welling in her
10:49
eyes. I didn't know if they were for me,
10:52
for Sally, or for the lie she had lived.
10:55
But it didn't matter. The woman I had