My mother LIED about my marriage… it ruined my in-laws’ life! - r/charlottedobreyoutube | Reddit Stories

My mother lied about my marriage. It ruined my in-law's life. Ominous. First of all, I want to

apologize. My story is not funny, but I really need advice. Well, we're not reading it. I can't

sleep and I'm always thinking, me too girl. I cry in my prayers and ask Allah for forgiveness and

cannot trust anyone. I am female, 28, from Egypt, living in Dubai now. By the way, this comes from

Madaru or Manarao. And if you want to submit your own stories, go to r slash okistorytime

separated. So first of all, I have to tell you, I was raised in Egypt from a middle class family

but we always lived like poor. My father loved saving money. He didn't like spending at all

even meat or chickens. We only had it once a week growing up. Still, I have to be fair. My father

was a great man. He is the best husband and father, really always loving and caring for us

May he rest in peace. But I never felt like my mom loved him. She always used to complain about

him, wishing him to pass away. Even saying to his face, I wish you would pass away and we enjoy

your money. Wow. Wow. I can't blame my mom. Still, I never agreed with her. After he passed

she bought us a new home in a fancy neighborhood in Cairo and tried to fit in with that community

But it was always as clear as the sun that we don't belong there. I got married to an Egyptian

guy from a very rich family. He was born and raised in Dubai, arranged marriage. His father

is the sweetest man ever. I call him father and I really feel like Allah gave me this man

replacing the hole in my heart after losing my dear father. Even his mother is a really nice lady

She's so classy and since my marriage five years ago, she never put her nose in our business or

anything. Even though we live in the same street, she taught me how to eat, dress and speak like a

Dubai lady. Me always asking her what is her opinion and she gives me her comments in the

nicest way possible. This is lovely. I'm a little worried based on the title, but yeah, it seems like

This is really great. Now, where is the problem? And there we go

Since the beginning of my marriage, I was unable to get pregnant. We waited for almost two years, which is a long time for a Middle Eastern family

Finally, when we visited, me and my husband discovered that I have issues and need to be treated

My mom called my husband from Egypt and asked him not to tell anyone about this, thinking that people might think less of me

We're not in Egypt anymore. No one has this mentality here. She was so scared that he might divorce me for this reason and she would lose all of this

But deep inside, I know he would never do that. He took me to the biggest hospitals all over Dubai

Later on, I got to know that when people asked her about my pregnancy, she used to lie and tell them that my husband had issues

Crazy. Which means people will think less of him now I got really mad at her but I can show it in our culture We cannot raise our voice to our parents My mother we call her Sue got to know about the rumor She spoke to me and she was very angry

Stupid me told my mom about this and they both fought. It was kind of a big drama that lasted for some time, but it all ended when I got pregnant

My husband funded the entire trip for my mom to come take care of me during my pregnancy

This was the first time my mom left Egypt. She was so happy and honestly, I was even happier for her

especially my husband's family has a nice home and cars she really lived like a queen for three

months every day sue sent us breakfast lunch and dinner with the driver i mean it's dubai yeah you

gotta be like super wealthy to live in dubai they started talking to each other again like nothing

ever happened oh alhamdulillah i have a very beautiful baby girl she is a gift from god sue's

friends wanted to visit me to give gifts and pray for the baby that day my mom insisted she would

cook Egyptian local food for them and show them the actual Egyptian culture

They came and left. We had fun and everything went amazing. In the evening, Sue called me to check on me

My phone was on speaker and my mom was next to me as usual. I asked, how was the presentation and everything

Sue answered, the food was good, but I have a comment. Next time, wipe the dishes and glasses

You cannot give people wet dishes, but it's okay. I guess they understand your mom used to live in the village and she's doing the best she knows. Oh

No, Sue. Sue, that's messy. Girl, that's petty. You don't have anything nice to say, just don't say it

Now, I know this was rude, but believe me, I know Sue very well

She doesn't mean anything bad, and if she knew my mom was hearing that, she wouldn't have said that

We don't need to fully forget that. That was just own up that that was messy

She shouldn't have said that. After closing with Sue, my mom started shouting, saying, why do you allow her to talk to you

like that? and she raised her voice until my husband woke up. The moment she saw him coming down

she started crying, telling him, please book my tickets. I'll go back to the village

I know your mom was never proud of us as in-laws. She's always treating me so bad

She shouted at me a couple of times. Never happened. And she kept saying many other lies

Then she told him, you can ask your wife. I didn't know what to do and I don't know why I even got mad at Sue that time

and agreed with my mom's lies. We're going to get back to the story, but Sam, you have a copious amount of something. What

What, John? Exes. I have like four or five or six. I heard of six with a zero

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Wednesdays and Fridays. And it's only five bucks a month. So tap our profile on Facebook and click the little subscribe button on our profile Join a club almost as exclusive as Sam exes Well let get back to the story My husband called Sue and said the meanest things I ever heard him saying to her

You also came from a village. If you forgot your roots, you can visit your brothers in Egypt

Blah, blah, blah. Since, I guess, 2012. Okay, okay. So we're about to time jump

So pausing really quick. Okay, yes. Sue was really rude. I said a really rude comment

Yes. And then the mother got all, you know, upset and was like, oh, she's yelled at me all this time

And then the OP's husband was like, how dare you to his mom? And then OP backed up her mom

And so now that all just happened. Before we get into this kind of time jump, I think Sue definitely was out of line

400%. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if OP knew that her mom was lying, I mean, like, I guess it might be a cultural thing where she felt the need to defend her mother

But like it seems like they both are really petty to each other. And it's just this back and forth, which is frustrating to deal with as the children in this situation

What do we do here? I don't know. It's like I think honestly they should have tried to defuse the situation rather than pick sides, I think

Yeah, because now it's just like what's said has been said and now you can't take it back

Yeah, I think they should have tried to defuse it, especially because we know that both of them have contributed to the situation

Obviously, Sue is in the wrong for that comment, for sure. Now it's like a house divided kind of

And we're going to have a time jump. Since I guess 2020, Sue never entered our home

Even her relationship with her son became so bad because my mom kept saying more lies

Honestly, I also did say a lot and I cut my daughter off from that house

I never felt guilty. I never thought about God's punishment until recently

I got a call from Sue. She was crying. She said, I will never forgive you

even after life I will ask God to take my revenge on you and your mother whoa you destroyed my home

and my family and your mother is texting my husband what she wants from him she told me I

pray every day to God that your daughter does to you the same as my son did to me she said many

things I couldn't forget apparently my mom is texting my father-in-law and I have no idea what

type of conversation they're having that made her swallow her pride and call me later on I get to

know that she left the home and is staying with her daughter i feel horrible i suddenly realized

how amazing this woman is the pain we caused her honestly i'm thinking of telling my husband the

truth but i am so scared of him i can't trust him also now he hurt his mother so easily okay op

you're about the a-hole yeah what soap opera are we in now what will he do with me girl you've been

living a lie i thought for a second when op was saying that it was just like oh she was taking her

mom's eye because she wasn't sure. No she was aware of all of these lies and was And you went with it Yeah Yeah You the a girl You the a Tell your husband the truth Absolutely And it kind of annoying to me that she like oh I scared of him because he turned against his mom so quickly

And it's like, no, he was defending you and your mom. And guess what? It was a lie

Because he thought that you were telling him the truth. He trusted you and you lied to him

You didn't think it was going to get that far. You have to tell him the truth. I feel like I don't love or trust him anymore

after he cut his mother off for you. You did that. For you

OP, you're an a-hole. You're the a-hole. Even if it was for me, she's his mother, he will do the same with me someday or another

Girl, you're the a-hole. I'm sorry, what? This is ridiculous. I feel like OP's instilling this cultural mindset of like, you have to take your parent's side over anything

Which is, I think, maybe why she's, you know, defending her mom. I'm pretty sure OP's like, this wasn't gonna get that big

Yeah. Like, it was just like a little lie, and maybe like a little family argument

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But there is a little bit left to the story. So we're going to jump into this because I'm freaking pissed at Opie

Yeah, Opie, you did a huge 180 there. Yeah, like such a giant 180

Your husband literally defended you and your mom. He lost his mom

He lost his mom for you. And my mother, I'm so angry at her

she destroyed the family and now she's going to destroy my life. Stop pointing fingers

You're pointing fingers now. It's your fault, girl. You were complicit in this

Yes, like your mom started this, but you are also to blame. You went along with it

Also, if my husband gets to know what is happening between her and his father, she did all of that because she's jealous of Sue

I know I'm kind of answering myself, but I can't sleep. I want to tell the truth, but for sure my life will be destroyed

I will lose my husband and my mother. Plus, I don't think Sue will ever go back even after I say the truth

I feel like they will not bother to apologize to her at this point as well which will hurt her

it is better for her and for everyone like this but I just feel so guilty please advise me everyone

I have too many things in my heart to say but I already wrote too much I need to talk to someone

and there are comments and I'm so excited to read them because I feel that they are going to be

saying the same thing as us they're gonna be very juicy comment one you can't trust him he did the

right thing when he thought his mother did awful things to you and your mother you need to tell him

immediately if religion matters to you at all you know that if his mother passes away before he asks

her for forgiveness and fixes this it's going to be a really bad thing he needs to know and he needs

to ask forgiveness and that is the end of that story but your lying is serving no one all the

religious cursing here you need to get this like you're oh man you caused all this op you're an a-hole

i agree your mom a-hole stinky stinky stinky but that is the end of that story