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okay so today we're going to be talking
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about intuitive eating eating
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intuitively and basically nutrition and
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food in general so obviously people on
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the panel is going to be different
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about intuitive eating and eating
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intuitively one of the first things we
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actually want to go through and this is
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just a really unfortunate name situation
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so you have intuitive eating and you
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have eating intuitively have you both
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heard of as people heard of intuitive
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eating and eating intuitively put your
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hands up if you have yeah so pretty much
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intuitive easy is actually a 10-step
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principle process and you have to be
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qualified in intuitive eating to talk
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holistic it's a structured program and
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then you've got eating intuitively
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eating mindfully which is where you're
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still honoring your hunger but you don't
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actually need to be a practitioner to
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talk about it but the names are just
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super similar so we're so we're talking
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about eating intuitively eating
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mindfully we will touch on calories and
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macros and things like that as well in
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terms of different goals Aesthetics and
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things like that but first things first
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I actually watched Darren the first
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apparently because I think people might
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be quite interested with your diet as a
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bodybuilder and the fact that you
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actually don't really track yeah so
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that's very true and so when obviously
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bodybuilding is all about counting
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macros and all that kind of stuff but I
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found early on in my career that it
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wasn't enjoyable for me to be so
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specific on calorie counting and
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became a chore and monotonous and it
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he couldn't sustain that for 365 days a
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year well that's how I found it anyway
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some people can some people can't and I
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was a guy who lost the enjoyment when it
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came down to Counting every calorie I
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was eating that being said
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when I'm dieting for a show which is
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obviously 12 weeks of the year or 16
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weeks depending I'll I will weigh out my
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food so I'll know the grammage of my
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food but I won't look at the calories
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and be too specific with that I go on
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how I feel in the mirror how I look in
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the mirror how my points are when I'm
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training how long the pumps last for
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whilst I'm training and my mental state
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if I'm fatigued and all those type of
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factors when I'm dieting a lot of
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bodybuilders will count everything down
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to a tea but as soon as I come off prep
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I know roughly what my maintenance level
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is what that looks like when you look at
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it on a meal panel right food and I will
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just be in a surplus of that so I'll
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enjoy normal food with my family I will
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eat clean I'll be very kind of I'll be
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conscious of what I'm eating but I was I
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will still be able to yeah have normal
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to normal meals with my family we eat
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normal every night like it together say
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but yeah that's how I've always been 100
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and then Siobhan yours is a little bit
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different because you've had
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bodybuilding experience where I did
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track quite significantly and then
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you've done more of like a 360 with
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eating intuitively and you said eating
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mindfully yeah so yeah yeah so I did a
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bodybuilding show in 2017 a long time
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ago I'm like um but at the time I loved
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traveling calories like I found it gave
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me so much freedom and you know I didn't
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I just always love Nutella and I just
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wasn't willing to cut it out if you
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um and it really helped me you know
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stick to you know to be in the calorie
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deficit the right way to get shredded to
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be on stage I you know as
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to buy the numbers and then afterwards I
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mean it was a roller coaster of up and
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down you know I wasn't strict enough I
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just didn't care enough what I looked
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like but I found then once I started
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training for performance I started doing
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CrossFit and Muay Thai and I just kind
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of was like I don't care what I look
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like anymore it's not actually listen to
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my Hunger levels rather than looking at
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of course initially you can't just
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switch off like I found initially I
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would still think of the numbers so I
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put in my head like oh spare 500 that's
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why I probably have 2 000 calories today
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so I don't think I think you've always
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got that knowledge in your head and
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sometimes we talk about eating mindfully
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eating intuitively but you've always
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know if you've been doing it for a long
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um and then yeah I started
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practicing on the hunger level you know
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I'd say try not to let myself get too
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hungry you know if I'm at it too I don't
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make you know great decisions when it
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um and then you know don't eat past
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point of fullness they go take a seven
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and of course there's times that go way
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um but by going like that I can make I
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can choose what's important to me and
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sometimes I do want to get a bit leaner
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it doesn't mean like I gave up on being
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shredded it means I was able to listen
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to what I needed after training before
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training and training for performance
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and then a little bit of me would go
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okay maybe go a little bit hungry just
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so I know them in a calorie deficit
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because I do want to be lean this summer
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or something like that I didn't just go
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never diet you know I just eat mindfully
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but a few little tools I'm just gonna
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slow down that's the big thing I just
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slowed down and going yes I do want the
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Nutella but I also want to be lean so
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what do I really want and sometimes it
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is you know so it's bad it's it's not an
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easy thing to teach people but it it
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takes practice and kind of letting
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yourself Let Yourself Go oh
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amazing I mean that's the thing that's
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difficult for people to establish that
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balance that you've experienced for
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those years life's coming to you because
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I think you're someone who can
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potentially talk about how your ethos
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may have changed over the years since
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you've been in the industry because I
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think you came from a time where diet
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culture is like very strong in the
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industry it's like where we are today
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where things are moving to a more
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balanced lifestyle and driven style diet
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yeah so for people who don't know I was
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I came in in the macro introduction era
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so that was one of the first guys to
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kind of be utilizing macros to diet for
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but when you've got the normally a week
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out from a show people around Turkey
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water dying napping in chairs
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complaining about life I was having like
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a barbecue with sausage and white bread
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and it just blew people's minds but did
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you ever win a shell huh
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ones but no in terms of like bringing
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body fat down to competitive levels that
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have been very very lean it worked but
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I'm also from a science-based background
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so I went from full growth like
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literally turkey roast cakes six almonds
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there's no reason to eat six almonds I
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just thought that's what somebody else
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did I'm doing that and and working
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full-time whilst they're not nonsense so
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literally the next week flipping after
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watching and seeing the science behind
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macros we're flipping next week to
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having ice cream and regular fruits and
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everything involved just making more of
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a healthy balance but I did Count
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like a Rice Krispie in the bowl like I
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was fanatical with it to a point I do
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when I'm dieting but which meant off
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season I just switch off for the rest of
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the year I didn't think that measuring
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in sector is important like you need to
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be able to gauge volume of food that
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you're eating if you're not gauging
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volume yeah you you're gonna be like
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this every day up and down on the scales
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up and down in the mirror which is just
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disheartening in itself are you reading
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for a bodybuilding show no actually in
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general in general so if you're if
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you'll feel like you're waking up and
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you're fluctuating weeks where you can
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be very very frustrating water retention
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levels can can rise and fall depending
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on how late you finish eating one night
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so how early you finished eating the
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previous night which is where
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intermittent fasting can come into play
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which is not magic it just makes you eat
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in a time frame so that you look more
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consistent when you wake up every day so
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you feel a bit better and you can stay
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controlled but for me having that era of
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just really monitoring macros to a
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really high level then allowed me to be
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able to spot monitor it so it won't but
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still be able to look at the food I'm
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putting on my plate in a realm of you
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and also to remove guilt from food
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because when you when you do do macros
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you realize I can eat chocolate if I
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want to eat a chocolate and utilize that
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many carbs and that many fats and you
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eat it guilt-free knowing it's within my
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allowance my body's just mature it up
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whereas most people's opinion and you
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said it before you say clean food I'm
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really upset because I hate this term
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yeah there's no such thing as clean or
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unclean food unless you're washing it
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through the fair liquid that's clean
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food but outside of that is just how
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many you know how impactful is that food
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is it a low impact food or high impact
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food and that's the bit there's no bad
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food there's just too much of certain
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types and and if you're willing if you
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want chocolate and you're willing to
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give up x amount of calories for that
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chocolate it's fine eat that chocolate
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It's Gonna Do no harm but then you just
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realize you're giving up you know later
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in the day some other things that might
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be more satiated yeah so this is more a
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question for everyone even you might be
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able to answer this one with regards to
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dieting and the reason intuitive eating
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out of practice was created is because
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over five years the long-term success
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rate of diets is so poor it's in 80 of
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people regain the weight from the diet
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diets are that unsuccessful because
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people think they're a short-term
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solution dieting is what you eat on a
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day your diet is what you eat daily it's
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not something we do for eight to ten
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I think that's the main point diet it's
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like a lot of people at the last diet is
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like you say 12 weeks or online that
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they can't sustain it for me I will be
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I'm I don't fit in really with intuitive
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eating because I I do eat quite a
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structured diet 365 days a year but I
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choose to do that and it's impart my
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living and I enjoy it and I've been able
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um well for some people that's not
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sustainable I think like you've just
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said with the five over the five years
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not being able to sustain it because
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they're trying to eat foods that they
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don't particularly like or fit in with
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their their day-to-day
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um I found something that works for me
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and I enjoy what I do and I think that's
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what's important when you're from a day
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too it's almost like I was going to say
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the opposite but for me it's like I
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stopped eating to look a certain way
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um and it's funny like now I I found a
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way that I found an environment where I
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train and I eat well and I stay lean
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um but I was gonna say the reason it
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probably doesn't last is that
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people don't want it enough and
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sometimes people can get triggered when
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you hear that but like that's why I
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don't track everything because I'm like
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I actually don't care as much what I
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look like anymore so it's not that
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important to me so I'm like you know
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like if I have to decide between two
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Foods or decide between a higher calorie
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lower economy if it means even if it
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means a scale it's going to book
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tomorrow or anything it's like
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it's okay because I don't really care
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um no saying that I think there is a
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healthy like obviously health is
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important and I would never just go eat
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terrible for so long which I have done
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for the last six weeks I've been on the
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holidays but I think natural but not
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naturally there will crave routine you
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know I think like as long as you have
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those good habits in place if you do go
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like too far one way I think naturally
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you want to come back to that set point
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um but it's not like I'm not as strict
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it's not like oh I gotta have to eat
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this because I want to look that way I
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think that's what other people realize
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is that they get you know they diet hard
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and they drink and they die down to the
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way they think they'll find happiness
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and it's not there so that they just
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keep who's on a diet right now Hanzo
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who's actually very actively dieting
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I've just done that many actual people
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how many of you just eating what you
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want whenever you want
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how many do you feel good about that and
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the way you look that's pretty easy
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perfect that's breathing and most people
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yeah so you're buffering the diet with
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yeah so this is a sensible way of doing
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things if you're moving a lot and be
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very active you're going to have a
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higher calorie allowance if you're
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sitting in more a more sedentary for
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through a certain day just eat less that
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day and you can literally start on that
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base level have a bit you know no I'm
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not allowed to eat that full cover
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popcorn today because I've sat down for
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eight hours editing or whatever you've
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been doing maybe you've been out hiking
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gym you've done all that day yeah eat
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intuitive and sense of I get way more
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allowances there I find that that for me
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really helps even if I'm trying to
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actively gain weight if I've been sat
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still for a lot a long period of a
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single day I would cut my calories at a
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cut the volume if you like because I
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know it's it's not going to get utilized
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in the right way it's going to be stored
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more in those fat cells and stuff like
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that because I'm not actively using it
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because I tend to put a lot of my carbs
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around the training and activity times
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when I do when I do take them in so if
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there's no activity at all goes down and
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I find that I don't drop weight that way
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but I do keep gaining the good weight
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when I want it and so that's that stops
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me putting on excess I think I think the
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common theme is that a lot of people
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tend to dip in and out of intuitively
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and dieting and there's nothing wrong
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with that because like you were saying
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intuitively but I would argue in some
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periods that you potentially do and it's
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fine to do that I think it's good for a
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lot of people to do that rather than
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just diet all the time because I think
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one of the big things that comes from
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dieting is like 30 to 35 of people who
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are dieters then transition into
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pathological dieters then 20 to 25 of
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that going to eating disorders yeah
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which is like one of the the biggest
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causes of their friends in the UK so
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it's good to have an intervention in
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terms of eating more intuitively just to
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bring balance back to to your life as
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well there's nothing wrong with that
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dieting as well like if I die now I do
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it super aggressively so like you would
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save them from a mortgage for your house
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you have to spend the same amount of
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time being really strict with your
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finances and then you can just balance
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out by paying your monthly mortgage
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payments I did the exact same with my
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diet so I'll be super strict go
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aggressive like two or three weeks get
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in shape and algebra maintenance
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calories then just maintain it and use
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intuitively and there's a tool to
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maintain it so there's not there's
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nothing wrong with flicking in between
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the two you just can't do both at the
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same time you can't dive
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kind of restricted diet and intuitively
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because you just don't go hang around
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nothing what you said about the um being
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a Perpetual Dieter that's a really bad
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thing to do so if you're jumping from
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diet to diverse to diet today whatever
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it is you're doing you need consistency
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whether it's a really simple just
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monitoring like the volume of things on
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your plate or just you know mimicking
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meal for near like three meals a day you
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need consistency over at least like
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to let it settle in and let you kind of
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monitor how your body's going to react
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you can't do something for a week two
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weeks expect to see change and then flip
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things up because it's not working the
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way you want you need time and
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consistency to be able to make these
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micro adjustments as you go along and
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you need to understand as well if you
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cool it's not going to hinder everything
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that you've done up to that point you
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just messed up that one day or that one
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week just get back on track and then
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forget about it and move forward I think
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a lot of people Chuck everything out the
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window because they had like a week of
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mistakes and it doesn't work like that
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your your body will often fluctuate with
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water retention more than anything which
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makes you feel bad make sure that you're
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putting loads of weight but you can't
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gain tons of weight really quickly just
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like you can't get shredded really
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quickly it's the same you know on this
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it's the same sea salt yeah it's good
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like they coach women and it's the
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biggest thing I want them to count
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calories initially because I want them
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to learn it's not like I want I want you
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to be really strict I want your life to
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be restrictive but the problem is they
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think you know they're thinking in clean
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and dirty or good and bad foods and I
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want them to learn to make intuitive
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decisions you know to learn like oh
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maybe I don't want avocado with my eggs
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today if I'm trying to stay a bit leaner
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rather than thinking good food bad food
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so I'm quite not insistent but I just
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recommend it to a lot of clients even if
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it's for a couple of weeks just most
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women are actually eating too little for
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their goals you know they can't just
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keep it up in the long run because
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they're eating too little so I most of
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the women are getting to eat more when
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they get their calories they're like how
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can I eat this much like because you're
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actually going to eat like an adult and
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you're not gonna just have chicken and
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leaves you're gonna like eat so that
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you're full so you're not making
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irrational decisions and that's where
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the hardest thing is just the women are
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ruined by a lot of men as well I'm sure
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and ruined by diet culture and it's it's
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trying to let them learn about food to
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make their own decisions yeah that's one
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of the things that you're doing there is
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like it's almost we're teaching them
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that that first lesson it's like if you
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were to go dancing your land and stuff
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is like one two three four one two and
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then you get into a flow you don't have
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to count anymore you just do it more
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with a flow and that's what you're doing
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with diet and after you've learned so