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just give me less than three minutes and
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you'll learn the simple habits to build
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a connection that lasts one listen first
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talk second if ever notice how much we
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all just want to be heard the best
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relationships start with great listening
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instead of jumping in with advice or
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opinions try this pause let your partner
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finish then say I hear you it's simple
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but it makes your partner feel valued
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two celebrate the small wind's big
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gestures are great but small moments
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matter more did they make you coffee say
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thanks did they pass an exam or hit a
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goal at work cheer them on when you
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celebrate each other it builds trust and
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connection three never assume always ask
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how many fights start because we assume
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things instead of guessing what's wrong
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or what they're thinking just ask how do
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you feel about this or what do you need
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right now clear communication clears up
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four fight fair not dirty arguments
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relationship but here's the key fight
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fair no name calling no bringing up old
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mistakes focus on solving the problem
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not winning the argument remember it's
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you two versus the problem not you
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versus each other five don't forget
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yourself you can't pour from an empty
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cup if you're not taking care of
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yourself your relationship will feel the
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take time for your hobbies your friends
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and your mental health when you're happy
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you bring your best self to the
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relationship six show love in their
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language ever heard of Love
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Languages some people need words others
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need time gifts or touch learn how your
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partner feels most loved and give them
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that when love speaks their language it
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differently seven laugh together life
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gets tough but laughter is the glue that
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holds you together crack jokes share
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memes or watch silly videos when you
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laugh together you remind each other not
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seriously healthy relationships aren't
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about perfection they're about effort
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start small pick one tip from this video
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and practice it today trust me these
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little habits add up to something big
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what's your go-to tip for a healthy
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relationship share it in the comments
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