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have you ever stared at your phone
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fingers hovering over the keys heart
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pounding wondering if he's ever going to
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reply you send a message full of hope
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Then silence It feels like you don't
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matter Like you're shouting into empty
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space But before you let doubt take over
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know this There are specific texts you
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can send right now that turn that
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silence into connection Today I'm
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sharing seven powerful messages to text
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him when you're feeling ignored messages
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that spark curiosity show your value and
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invite him back into the
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conversation Use these texts wisely and
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you'll see how one well-timed line can
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shift his focus reignite his interest
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and remind him why he cares Stick with
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me By the end you'll have a toolkit of
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messages to try plus timing and tone
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tips that make each one land like a
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gentle tap on the shoulder rather than a
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demand for attention One I'm curious
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what's been keeping you busy when you
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feel ignored a direct yet friendly
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check-in can break the ice without
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pressure This message shows you notice
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his absence but you're open and
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relaxed Imagine you send this mid-after
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afternoon He glances at his phone and
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instead of guilt or defensiveness he
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feels cared about He realizes you
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remember he had a big project or errand
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You're not accusing him You're
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interested in his life Why it works you
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acknowledge his silence without blame
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You invite him to share his world You
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remind him you're paying attention to
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his life not just your own need for a
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reply Wait a few hours after your last
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message unless it was days ago Keep it
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simple No emojis or exclamation marks
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that feel needy Be ready to follow up
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with genuine questions if he opens up
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Stay with me because with message number
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three you'll learn the one text that
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taps into his protective instinct Don't
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miss it Two I found something that made
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me think of you Shared moments create
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bonds When you send him a link a meme or
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a quick photo that reminds you of an
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inside joke or a shared interest you're
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saying "You matter in my day." Picture
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this You're scrolling and spot a line
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from his favorite movie or a dog breed
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he loves You snap and send Just saw this
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and laughed Remember our late night
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movie marathon in that instant he's
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transported back to the fun you had His
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stress eases and his smile comes through
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his reply Why it works it triggers
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nostalgia and positive feelings It
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shifts the focus from his silence to a
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happy memory It positions you as someone
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who shares and remembers the details
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Choose something vivid an image a short
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clip or a oneline quote Tie it to a
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specific moment This scene at 123 Keep
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the tone light and playful Three I read
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your message again and realized I owe
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you an apology When silence builds
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tension taking responsibility for any
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misstep can clear the air If your last
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interaction ended on a tense note this
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text shows maturity and care Imagine he
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stopped replying after a
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misunderstanding You text I read your
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message again and saw how my words came
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off I'm sorry if I hurt you That
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admission melts defenses He knows you
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value his feelings and he's more likely
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to open up Why it works it lowers
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emotional walls by showing empathy It
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shifts attention from blame to repair It
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invites mutual understanding rather than
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demands a reply Only use this if there
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was a real conflict or
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miscommunication Keep it brief and
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sincere Follow up by asking how he feels
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not by justifying yourself Quick
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reminder message number five will spark
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his protective nature in the sweetest
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way Stay with me Four I miss our late
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night talks Any chance we can catch up
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appealing to shared patterns draws him
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back into routine If you used to chat at
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night remind him of that time when
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connection felt effortless Picture him
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winding down phone in hand He sees your
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text and remembers the comfort of
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talking until dawn Suddenly distance
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feels smaller He types back "Sure just
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let me finish this email He's back in
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your world." "Why it works It taps into
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habit and nostalgia." It highlights the
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positive side of your bond It suggests a
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concrete time to reconnect Pick a time
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you know he's usually free Use the word
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catch up rather than talk to keep it
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casual Be open to rescheduling Let him
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propose the time Five I bet you could
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solve this problem Need your genius
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advice Everyone likes to feel capable By
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asking for his input you appeal to his
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desire to help and to be valued for his
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skills Imagine you're choosing between
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two books for your book club You text
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"Hey I'm torn between these two titles
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Thought you'd know which one's better
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Help." He sees an invitation to be your
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adviser His ego flares in a positive way
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You trust him He replies quickly
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Definitely go with the second It's my
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favorite Why it works you compliment his
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judgment You create a natural reason for
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him to reply You shift the dynamic from
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lonely waiting to collaborative problem
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solving Choose a question relevant to
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his interests or expertise Keep it
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simple Two clear options or a single
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issue Thank him afterward with a
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follow-up message Six Just checking in
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How are you holding up sometimes a
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simple expression of care cuts through
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the walls he's built This is more
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personal than number one because it
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emphasizes his well-being not just his
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busyiness Picture him after a rough
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weekend at work He sees your text and
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feels noticed I'm swamped but hanging in
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there You reply "I'm here if you want
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event or if you need a pizza delivered."
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He smiles feeling less alone Why it
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works it validates his stress and offers
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support It reminds him you're attentive
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to his emotional state It opens the door
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for deeper conversation if he chooses
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Use when you know he's dealing with a
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tough situation Offer a concrete gesture
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distraction Be ready to listen not just
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talk Seven I'm looking forward to seeing
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you soon Can't wait When words are
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scarce creating anticipation for a real
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life meeting reignites excitement This
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text reminds him of the bigger picture
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screams Imagine he reads this as he
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wraps up his workday He feels your
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eagerness and warmth Can't wait either
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Let's plan for Friday Suddenly his focus
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shifts from silence to planning He's
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motivated to reconnect in person Why it
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works it paints a hopeful future It
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moves the relationship offline where
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genuine connection happens It reassures
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him you're invested in seeing him How to
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send it suggest a day or activity but
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stay flexible Use words like looking
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forward rather than see you Follow up
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with a specific idea once he
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responds Seeing the patterns and
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responding with confidence These seven
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texts cover curiosity shared memories
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empathy nostalgia value care and
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They meet his unspoken needs Connection
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You remind him you're part of his life
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Value You recognize his skills and
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perspectives Support You show empathy
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for his stress Nostalgia You reignite
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happy memories Hope You create plans to
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look forward to When you use these
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messages in the right moment you shift
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the dynamic Instead of feeling ignored
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you guide him back into conversation and
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your 7-day texting challenge Over the
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next week send one message per day in
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order Day one I'm curious What's been
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keeping you busy day two I found
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something that made me think of you Day
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three I read your message again and
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realized I owe you an apology Day four I
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miss our late night talks Any chance we
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can catch up day five I bet you could
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solve this problem Need your genius
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advice Day six just checking in How are
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you holding up day seven I'm looking
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forward to seeing you soon Can't wait
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Keep a simple note of his replies and
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how each text makes you feel By day
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seven you'll see a pattern of renewed
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engagement and deeper connection From
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anxious to empowered lover you're not
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just someone waiting by the phone You're
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a confident partner who knows how to
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reignite conversation and closeness
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These messages position you as
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thoughtful fun supportive and future
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focused Embrace that identity Trust your
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instincts You have the power to turn
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silence into a shared moment Which
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message will you send tonight drop its
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number number four if you're craving
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nostalgia or number six if you want to
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show you care about his well-being in
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watch the conversation and your
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connection come back to life