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Today, I'm sharing two clear signs you
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can look for that proof he's got you on
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his mind, whether he says it out loud or
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not. Stick around because by the end,
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you'll know exactly what to watch for
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and how to respond in a way that deepens
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your connection even more. Sign one, he
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reaches out with perfect timing. Have
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you noticed it happens at the exact
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right moment? You've just had a long day
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or you've paused mid-air and suddenly
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your phone buzzes with a hey, you okay?
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When someone texts you at the precise
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moment you need it, that's not luck or
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coincidence, it's evidence they're
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paying attention. In the noise of
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everyday life, emails, meetings,
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errands, most messages go unread for
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hours. Yet, when he texts you just as
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you're thinking, "I wish someone would
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check on me," it shows he's tuned into
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your rhythms. He may not be literally
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spying on you, but he's noticed patterns
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when you stay late at work, when you
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mention big deadlines, or when you share
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plans for a tough weekend. He remembers
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those details and uses them to reach out
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exactly when you need a lift. Imagine
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you told him last week that you have
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backtoback presentations on Thursday.
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You brace yourself for a stressful
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morning. Then around 10:15 a.m., just
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after your first talk wraps up, your
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phone lights up. I know today's a
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marathon. Sending you a virtual high
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five and your favorite coffee emoji.
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You've got this. In that moment, his
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timing is perfect. You are ready to
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slump at your desk. But instead, you
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lean back, smile, and feel a surge of
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confidence. He's in your corner, even
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from afar. After you share future plans,
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note when you mention something
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stressful or exciting, does he check in
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at that exact time? When your mood
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shifts, if you text a sigh or an emoji
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hinting at a long day, does he reply
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within minutes? On routine days, even
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when nothing big is happening, if he
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still texts just to say hello at a time
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you always scroll through your feed,
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he's mapping your habits. When you spot
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this perfect timing, respond not just
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with thanks, but with reciprocal
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attention. Try, "Wow, you'll always know
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when I need that pickme up." How do you
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do it? This shows you notices effort.
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gives him room to explain and opens a
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deeper conversation about how he's
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paying attention. Stick around. Up next
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is sign two, and it's all about those
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little details he remembers and uses to
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make you feel special. You won't want to
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miss it. Sign two, he brings up
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something only you would share. Have you
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ever told him one small fact? your
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favorite childhood snack, your go-to
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karaoke song, the name of your best
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friend's cat, and later he references
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it. When he weaves your private details
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into his messages, he's not just being
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polite. He's showing he's absorbing your
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world and making it part of his own. We
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all share tons of information every day,
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weather, work, weekend plans. But the
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details that stick are the personal
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ones. The memory of your grandmother's
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secret cookie recipe, the fact that you
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always hum when you're nervous, or the
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little inside joke you laughed about for
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weeks. When he remembers those details,
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he's signaling that he values your
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He's not listening just to respond. He's
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listening to remember. A few days ago,
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you mentioned offhand that your favorite
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ice cream flavor is pistachio.
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You didn't think much of it, but tonight
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out of the blue, you get stopped by the
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gelato shop and got pistachio just for
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you. Let me know when you want a taste
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test date. He didn't have to remember
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yet he did and he turned it into an
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invitation to share something you love.
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That shows he's thinking of you often,
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not just in passing. Recall of small
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preferences. Note if he references your
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favorite snack, color, song, or show
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without prompting. Inside jokes
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If he drops a line from a funny moment
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you shared weeks ago, he's keeping the
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memory alive. Supportive gestures. When
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he surprises you with something tied to
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your interests, like ordering a book by
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your favorite author, he's showing
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attention to detail. When he recalls
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these personal details, respond by
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celebrating them and adding your own
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detail. Try, "You remembered my
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pistachio obsession. Next time, bring a
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scoop of Rocky Road Too, my go-to
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midnight snack. This not only
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acknowledges his thoughtfulness, but
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also opens up a playful exchange of
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personal likes. Bringing it all
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together, these two signs, perfect
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timing and deep recall of your details,
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are powerful proof that he's thinking
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about you beyond surface level. They
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meet core emotional needs. Connection.
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He bridges distance by texting at the
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exact moment you need. Value. He honors
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your individuality by remembering what
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matters to you. When you see these
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signals, you know he's invested in you.
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And when you respond in kind, by
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noticing his effort, asking playful
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follow-up questions, or sharing more
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about yourself, you build a cycle of
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mutual attention and affection. Your
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2-day observation challenge. Over the
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next 48 hours, make a mental note or jot
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down. Day one, track when he texts you
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at key moments, stressful, exciting, or
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routine, and how that timing aligns with
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your needs. Day two, notice at least two
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personal details he brings up
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unprompted, and how you feel when he
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does. At the end of two days, review
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your notes. You'll see a clear pattern.
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When he texts just in time or recalls
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your secrets, that's genuine proof he's
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carrying you in his thoughts. Identity
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shift from wondering to knowing. You're
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no longer the one anxiously waiting for
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signs. You're now the confident partner
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who can see when someone truly
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prioritizes you. Embrace that clarity.
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Recognize your worth and use these
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insights to deepen your bond because
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knowing he's thinking about you too
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should spark joy, not doubt. Which sign
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surprised you most? His perfect timing
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number one or his deep recall number
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two. Drop number one or number two in
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