My ADHD Boyfriend

So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. he has pretty bad ADHD. he sometimes can't read my emotions very well and says some things that are out of pocket. I have done a lot of research on being with an ADHD partner and learned to go with it because I know his intentions. the only issue is that recently he's been going overboard with mean comments, or maybe just poorly worded ones that have been really taxing me emotionally. like the other day he went out of his way to say "pretty describes how you dress, and sometimes you're not pretty." I fully understand that he doesn't truly mean it, but sometimes its hard to brush off. it sounds kind of silly, but I just need another perspective. any advice from someone with ADHD or an ADHD partner? should I continue to brush it off? #ADHD #dating