He has a Small Penis

He has a small penis, and I feel like a jerk I feel SO shallow writing this. Please help. There's this guy I like a lot but it's long-distance relationship. he will be here to visit in a few months. He will be staying with me for 2 weeks. Because of our feelings for each other I am afraid he will want to do the deed. So, here's the problem. He has a very small penis, the smallest ponies I have ever seen. I mean it's literally the length and width of a girl's pinky, and that's when hard. we have fooled around before so I know this. when it's soft it's like it's not even there. I am afraid the sex would be lousy. all my previous partners have been average and most have been pretty big. What if I didn't even feel anything?! I mean, he is literally smaller than a tampon. Sex is very important to me, I enjoy standard penetration much more than say, oral or masturbating. am I making too big a deal out of this?