Getting back together after break up: The eight week challenge - For the ladies

I wanted to come back and share something that I learned from the book "Getting to I Do." When a man and a woman break up it takes eight weeks for the man to realize his mistake, to miss you and to decide if he wants you back. Here is what the author wrote: "Remember that a normal, right-handed, focused and logical man needs four to eight weeks to evaluate the loss of you. This is a decision of emotional significance both left lobed logic, in this case: "Do I want to call her again?" and right lobed feelings "I miss her, she is a really nice, sexy lady. Should I call her again?" If he calls in two to four weeks, it means he was ready for commitment and needed only to evaluate things for a little while. Many men can manage four weeks apart from a woman that they care about quite easily. If he calls after six weeks, a crucial time, he has made a rational, male decision. As I said before, eight weeks is critical. If he has called within that time frame, stop waiting and go on to other men and other experiences." Many masculine, bullheaded men must feel the pain of loss before they realize they want to be married. I must emphasize that this is a critical time, when one incorrect action on your part can extend your painful bon to the wrong man. So, it is imperative that you understand what is happening during this process. As I have said, it takes approximately eight weeks for a man to process his decision. For four weeks, he can usually function superficially, dating, working and living. At first, his left lobe logic says "Who needs her! I'll decide how things go between us. No woman controls me!" If he is in love with you, and not just using you for sex, but didn't 'know' he as in love, somewhere around six to eight weeks he will miss you so badly that he may call to ask to be "friends." Read more: https://www.enotalone.com/topic/213477-the-eight-week-challenge-for-the-ladies/