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When our brain wants something, it
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usually wants a whole package. So for
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example, like if you feel hungry, you
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don't want calories. I want to eat this
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and I want to eat this and I want to
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drink this and I want to have some of
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this, right? So there are lots of
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different things that my brain wants or
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my body wants. The problem with
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pornography is that it gives us a slice
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of what our brain craves. And the
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problem is once it gives you a slice,
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once you get that sexual gratification,
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your emotional connection is not met.
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You have no bond. You have no feeling of
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safety. Nothing like that. oftentimes
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you're filled with like regret and all
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kinds of guilt and things like that. And
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so even though you're satisfying that
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sort of procreative drive, all of the
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stuff that comes with it stays
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unsatisfied. And then the real problem
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is once we satisfy the procreative
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drive, the motivation to go and get all
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of those other things disappears. So
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once I nut postnut clarity, I don't need
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a relationship with anyone else. I'm not
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willing to sacrifice to deal with this
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person. If I fill up your stomach with
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just unhealthy food, like let's say I
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just give you straight calories like
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some highly processed like hamburger
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wrapped in donuts or whatever and
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drizzled with take your pick of artery
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clogging stuff. After you eat that, you
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don't have any fiber, you don't have any
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micronutrients, but you're not going to
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crave broccoli. Right? So that's what's
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happening in our society is we're using
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porn as a substitute for relationships
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and that's creating these really strong
