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When he misses you, it’ll help to rekindle the passion that has been lacking in your relationship of late. But how do you make him miss you?
We have compiled a list of ways to make him miss you because when he misses you, he won’t take you for granted anymore.
When he misses you, he’ll remember why he fell in love with you in the first place.
But how to make a guy miss you? Well, here are 13 quick and easy tips to help you do just that.
And it’s not about playing mind games. Not at all. It’s about changing the dynamic in your relationship with gentle nudges here and there.
And to best follow this video, check this one out too (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oi8jxevrQ-g)
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Here's a not-so-secret secret for you
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Relationships go through good times and bad times, and I'm guessing that you're going through a bad time since you're watching this video
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Right now it probably feels like your boyfriend or husband doesn't value you. Perhaps he's not making the effort anymore
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Maybe he's taking you for granted. Whatever it is, you feel that the spark has gone from your relationship
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and you want to get it back. The good news is that improving things between you can be as simple as making him miss you
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By giving him a chance to miss you, he'll be motivated to chase you again
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No, making him miss you isn't some sort of mind game. It's a genuine way to give your relationship a new lease of life
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So how do you go about it? Well, I'm going to share some simple yet effective tips with you right now
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So let's get started. Reduce your contact with him. Are the two of you in constant contact throughout the day
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If so, you probably need to cut back a little bit because if you're always there in his life, both in person and through text
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how is he ever going to miss you? Even just a few hours about hearing from you could mean he starts missing you
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It's basic psychology, really. You can have too much of a good thing, but it starts to lose its appeal
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It's a bit like eating slice after slice of cake. The first taste tastes amazing, but by the time you get to the fifth slice
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you have no desire to eat it. But give up on cake for a week and see how quickly you begin to crave it
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In this scenario, you are the cake. Your man doesn't want to be forced-fed cake all day long
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So stop texting him about everything that happens in your life while he's at work enjoying your hobby
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Save it all for when he gets home and he'll be more engaged and interested you
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when you have to say. Don't respond to him immediately. If you make a habit of replying to his messages straight away
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try to pause and wait before doing so. It's okay to do this and it's not playing games
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It's realising that you are not at its beck and call. You have your own life and you should feel able to put your full attention
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to someone or something else. In fact it quite rude and really knowing to stop a conversation or actually in its track just to reply to a text So how long should you wait Well there no magic number of minutes to wait before responding
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Just do it when it's actually convenient time for you. He can wait and he will wait for it if he cares about you
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Leaving him wanting more. If your relationship is still in its early stages, this tip is for you
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If you spent hours talking to start on the phone, would you happily go on a date that lasts all day
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Whilst that's great sometimes, you should try to leave some things unsaid so that you have things to talk about and catch up on the next time
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If he knows everything you've been up to and everything about you too soon, you risk the relationship getting boring
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So try to be the one to hang up the phone, end text conversations or say goodbye in person
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It's always better to leave him wanting more rather than giving him everything at once
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Don't drop other things for him. Ladies, this is a really important one
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No matter how long you've been together and how much of a priority he is in your life
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if you want to make him miss you, he can't always come first. Sure, make plans together and respect those plans, but make plans for yourself too
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and definitely don't drop other plans you have just to suit him. Your family and friends, your career, your well-being, all need to be prioritised too
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By making your own plans and sticking to them, you're sending him the message that whilst you love him
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he isn't the centre of your universe. This will create a healthier, more respectful balance between you
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Start living for you. In order for a relationship to work, you have to make compromises
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But whatever you do, don't take this too far. If you lose yourself in this relationship, you'll never truly be happy and the cracks will start to show
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So think about the things that you love to do that you might have stopped doing before seeing this guy
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What do you really miss? What makes you feel alive and like your true self
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Whatever it is, dedicate some time to rediscovering that thing. You'll be far happier in yourself for prioritising your needs once in a while and it will help remind him of what first attracted him to you
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Make time for your friends and family As I already touched upon the other people in your life need your time and attention too If you don spend enough time of your friends and family those relationships will suffer So make it your mission to create some new memories with those you care about Arrange some fun
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activities and don't feel the need to invite your man to everything. He doesn't need to always be there
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and he shouldn't expect to be. When he sees you getting out and about with the other important
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people in your life, he will probably miss having you around. What's more, he might want to start
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making more memories of you himself. Surprise him. Getting him to miss you isn't
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about spending time apart. Surprising him and mixing things up can help too. Rather than just going
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on the same old dates and the same old places, try new things. Arrange activities you know he'll
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love. Keeping him on his toes will mean he's always keen to see you. It will sweep away any cobwears
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that have been formed in your relationship. Leave him reminders of you. If you don't live together
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this tip will work wonders to make him miss you. By leaving something small of yours at his place
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he'll be reminded of you every time he sees you. Make it something that will put a smile on his face
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or even something that will turn him on. Even if you do live together, you can still slip a note or a small gift into his bag
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when he goes away. It doesn't have to be much to put a smile on his face and keep him dreaming of you
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Be yourself. Let's be honest. Day to day life can be pretty boring
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and it can squash down your fun and wacky spirit. So try to let your true self shine
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through in any way you can. Sing and dance whilst doing the dishes. Tell jokes with Paul pranks
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Be forward about getting touchy fearly. Whatever it is you did when you first got together
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that made him fall in love with you. Do it again now. Remind him how much
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much fun you can have together and it will make him miss you when you're up part
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Indulge in some self-care. Forget your man for a second. This tip needs to be all about you
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but it will have the added benefit of making him long for you again. When you take care of yourself
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and do things that make you feel good about yourself, it will show in the way you act and in the way
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that your man sees you So get that haircut enjoy a massage or treat yourself to a new outfit It could just give you a confidence boost that he find irresistible It can make him realise just how lucky he is and start prioritising spending time with you And to be honest whatever his reaction is taking care of yourself will make you feel fantastic Arrange separate
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weekend plans. Newsflash, you and your man aren't joint at the hip. You don't have to go everywhere
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together. In fact, you do need to spend time apart if you're ever going to miss each other
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So when the weekends come around, don't assume that you have to spend time together
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suggest that you do things separately. That might be for a day or even for an extended long weekend
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Getting a break from one another means you'll be more present and appreciative of the time you do share
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Spend some time away. If you've been together for a while and you live together
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you might want to take it further than a weekend apart. There's nothing stopping either of you from going away for more than a few days at a time
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Perhaps you can go on a girl's holiday whilst he hangs out with his guy friends. Sure, he might enjoy the extra space in the bed on the first night
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But after a little while, he'll miss sleeping next to you. Left to his own device, who will also start appreciating exactly how much you do around the house
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or for the children, if you have any. If you've been getting under each other's feet for too long
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a break from each other could work wonders for your relationship. Organised romantic date nights
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After you've had some time apart from each other, it's time to dial up on the romance in your relationship
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Now that he's had the time to miss you, why not suggest that you both get dressed up and do something special and romantic
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If you've been missing each other, it's the perfect moment for the two of you to reconnect and re-light the fire between you
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And that's all from this episode. I hope I've managed to give you some ideas that will get your man missing you in no time
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