YOUR PRIDE IS GONNA DELAY YOU
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Jun 5, 2025
YOUR PRIDE IS GONNA DELAY YOU
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hey you need to drop your
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pride you need to drop your pride cuz
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it's not doing anything for you and hey
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I understand why you so
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prideful I understand why you so
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prideful it's because you know your
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potential you know who you are you know
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the things you've done you know you know
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that the the dark places in your life
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you had to take yourself out of and then
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when you came out you you were
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like if I can get out of that
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place I can do other things that thing
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it's a ego
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booster that thing is a ego boost and
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something to be very proud of but don't
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let stuff like that
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to drift you into being a prideful
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person because with Pride you're going
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to ruin so many things you know when
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you're prideful you're like I am not
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going to
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apologize because why don't they
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apologize I'm not going to go to them
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why don't they come to me I'm not going
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to work hard at this business because if
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I work hard they get to benefit so Pari
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will delay you when you think you're not
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doing stuff because you're trying to
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Humble other
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people so you need to be very careful
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pride is pride is a killer of many
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dreams a subtle killer of many dreams
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and I truly I'm not someone who's going
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to judge people who are prideful because
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honestly speaking I do understand where
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most pride comes from and it's all
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because you know your potential and you
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you feel that people don't see that so
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you become prideful and you want to show
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it to show them you know something about
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yourself and there's something about you
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but um that's not how people always
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receive it that's not especially people
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who do not know you so leave Pride
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alone pride is not going to do anything
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for you pride is just going to delay you
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because people are looking people are
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not stupid people are looking and
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and one thing I can tell you is that
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people don't
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like people don't like associating
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themselves with people who are prideful
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because some people are very smart and
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they are a way that prideful people will
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also play a huge role in them being
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delayed in some stuff they want to do in
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their lives because this person's pride
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is blogging this is blocking that no we
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can't do that because this person has
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got to respect us we can't do that so if
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you with someone like that decisions
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that they make um from their pride also
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they affect you so this is why some
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people most people would not want to
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associate themselves with people who are
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prideful so you need to let go of the
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pride and when I say let go of the pride
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I'm not saying stop having confidence
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I'm not saying stop having confidence
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I'm not saying deem your light I'm not
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saying look down on yourself I'm not
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saying do those things but I'm going to
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need you to understand that those big
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dreams that you have are going to
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require you to work with people the Big
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Dreams that you have are going to
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require you to work with people there's
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no single millionaire who's a
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millionaire or he's a billionaire or
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whatever trillionaire who's going to
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tell me they did all of that all by the
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themselves no you're going to need
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people in your life you're going to need
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people in your life that's how people
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grow that's how businesses grow because
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people have connections you can't have
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everything and even if you have
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everything it's very um it's very
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advisable for you
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to create connections with other people
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that's very important so don't let your
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pride get in your way of of growing of
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becoming the bur vision of yourself one
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thing about Pride that I can also assure
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you is that it keeps you stagnant when
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you've got Pride you're like you're
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standing in one place you're standing in
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one place and always fighting fighting
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because you deserve this respect you
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deserve this respect and you're going to
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stand there forever you're not going to
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grow you're going to stand there forever
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with this illusion in your own mind that
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um you keep going higher and higher but
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when people look at you from
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outside they can see that you've been
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standing on one place and you've had it
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in your mind that you are you you become
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bigger you but no you're not growing
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It's Just an Illusion because the more
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and more times you come across where you
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activate your your pride that feels like
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a boost and that boost seems like it's
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taking you higher but you're not going
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anywhere so let go of Pride it's even
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ruining your your friendships your
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relationships with your partner with
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your family and at your
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workplace just cut it if you're going to
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want to coexist smoothly with people of
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this world you're going to have to learn
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how to live with people in my
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language so so um there's this famous
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saying in South
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Africa a person is a
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person because of other people that's
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the translation so yeah man um pride is
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a killer pride is a killer of Dreams
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pride is a killer of of
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relationships pride is a killer of
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growth so
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let go of the pride I know you're
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beautiful I know you've done great
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things in your life I know you've
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achieved good things big good
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unbelievable things in your life but and
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I also know that most of your pride
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comes from not from feeling like you're
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not appreciated enough for the good
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works that you've done but
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um it's not going to take you anywhere
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instead it's just going to keep you
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stagnant in that growth stagnant in that
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growth when you don't even know that you
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you you
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can detach from the pride and even go
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above the growth that
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you've you've come to so you still have
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more growth to go through so don't hang
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on to the pride Let It Go Let It Go
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and live with people and and let that
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emotional intelligence to flourish to
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nurture your relationships and your your
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connections and you will grow but this
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Pride you have to you really have to let
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it go cuz it's working against you it's
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working against you and I want to repeat
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this I know I know you've worked so hard
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I know you are a good person and I know
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that this pride is some type of a coping
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mechanism and a defense me a defense
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mechanism for you I understand all of
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that but this is me saying don't let
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that to keep you stacken you still need
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to grow and that's it for today until
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next time my beautiful people bye and
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toles
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