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I'm building my polygynous kingdom with my two queens and my three kids
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This is my birth wife and this is my second wife. A real man only needs one spouse
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What would grandma think about this situation? Therapy for all, especially for the children
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How did you feel when I told you that we have a second wife
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Do you want any fruit, Yahweh, with your chicken and waffle? I'm Yahweh Kenanaya
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I'm Yahweh Majesty. and I am Yahweh Volgatine. And we are poly parents with three kids
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And they're all named Yahweh. Yahweh the ruler is the firstborn, he's three years old
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And then the twins, we have Yahweh Yahweh, and we have Ba Yahweh
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And they're both two years old. I would describe my relationship as oneness
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As far as like a label, I would just say religion-y. You know, it's one man, one king, and multiple women
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I mean, I think with polyamory, it's more open to more than one male, or maybe more than
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one female. I like the concept of one man, one king, and then multiple women
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It gets the job done, you know. Who cooks the best? Mom or y'all with mom
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Who cooks? Mom. Yeah, mom. Majesty is a chef, so she has a very delicious plate
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We both chef. Yes. Majesty and I have been together for over 15 years now
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We met through high school. It was pretty much high school sweethearts and pretty much love at first sight
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Yeah, it's been a while. Long time coming. When you met Ken and Nia, how did you feel about dating a married man
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Well at first I didn't know he was married. I was talking to him when I was seeing him online
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I met Yahweh royalty through Snapchat. He told me about polygamy and I didn know what it was I just had to go on dictionary and see what it is Did Yahweh Majesty know from the start about royalty
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No, she didn't know from the start. I didn't tell her right away, simply because I tried to build a connection first with the person to see like, okay, now I can tell them it's a good time now
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When he told me that he was dating someone, my first reaction was, you know, of course, I wanted to know who
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Here you go, Yalway. And here is Yalway's plate. Where do you want to sit, Yalway
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Oh, you're welcome. So I moved in officially after two years of dating
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A lot of men, you know, that haven't done it or haven't tried this type of lifestyle should try it
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especially if you have children, it's definitely a benefit because of teamwork
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The male figure as a role model, then you have two queens, two mothers to be a role model
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Don't get no better than that. Put together the cards that match
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Find all the ones that match. The dinosaurs. Good job, you see
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All right. I would say my parenting style would be more so
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discipline, yeah, discipline. Structure, organized. just making sure that the children are well-mannered
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I definitely believe it's important to be the strong male role model in the house
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As a man, as a father, we have a duty and a responsibility to uphold and keep
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It's very important to spend time with my son because I'm his role model
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I'm his hero. He look up to me. I'm trying to raise him up to be a righteous man
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A righteous Yahweh man. Even though I am the leader, I lead in the household as a man, but they also have opinions too
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You know, I ask them. I do consult with them and, you know, ask them questions sometimes because, honestly, we all new to parenting
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You know, all through. What is it like when you all out in public together Do you get stares or any type of awkward comments or anything When we out in public it like we get a lot of stares We got people that make me like you know guys
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How do you plan on explaining to the kids about the family dynamic as they get older
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Pretty much we're going to keep everything the same because we all share the same name
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so we always will be family. Alright, so we're about to read a couple comments real quick
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First one is it says, Seems wrong, just a bunch of sick, nasty people
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I wouldn't ever say that about nobody. You know, I don't care what their dynamic is
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Love is love to each his own. A real man only needs one spouse
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Anything extra is jealousy. That's their lifestyle. They want to be monogamous
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That's cool, you know, to each his own. What would grandma think about this situation
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Therapy for all, especially for the children. We can't normalize everything. Oh, wow
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My grown-up would say, mom you happy baby i'm happy for you so i'm like okay grandma right you don't have to agree with
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it but just respect it at the end of the day the beautiful thing about our children is that
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they didn't have to come into a situation to where they had to adjust they were born
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into the lifestyle like we was there from the beginning all the three of us
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as their parents we're all they know yes that's true that's true how did your family and friends
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react to the news that you will be raising a family altogether. They didn't like believe that
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I will be in this type of relationship or stay in this type of a relationship, but they are very
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surprised. It was more so trying to understand the dynamics because it's not what most people are used to
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Love you. So good to see y'all. It's been a minute. Yes, it's about a year, right
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with all the kids. Maybe. How did you feel when I told you that we have a second wife
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You know, you explained it to me, but my first reaction was just like
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I'm not really sure about the topic myself. My lifestyle don go with that So it was just like something new So I just wanted to make sure like how you felt about it did you ever feel any type of jealousy bringing royalty into your
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guys relationship no it wasn't any jealousy for us like it was just new like something different
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just an adjustment she also had to adjust to us so just adjustments but nothing no no jealousy
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because you can't be in this type of relationship and be jealous
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I guess when we first was together, like, what did you think about me? I thought that you was very nice
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You were sweet. Just the same characteristics how my sister is. It's like, y'all was very, very similar
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Just like a best friend or somebody that just, you just get to live with them
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I definitely didn't feel like you was a homewrecker. You can't run a home. No
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You invited into the home. And even though it's different, it's working for you guys, and that's what matters to me
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What do you hope the future holds for your family? I would say the future will hold more love, more understanding
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Possibly another queen. We'll see. It just depends how things go. Royalty and Majesty, would you guys be open to another wife
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Yes, definitely. What would you say to people who question the way you do things as a family
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I would say if you don't like it, do it better. Polygamy is not traditional. It's not like a traditional thing
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It's completely unorthodox. What people may see or what people may think about the sex and all this stuff
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Nah, it's all about family and just lead them out the right way so they can have multiple role models in the house
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A lot of us have been taught that we're supposed to be jealous of our sister
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I'm here to say no. You have to genuinely want for your sister what you want for yourself
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You don't have to compete when you're one
