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We film each other with other people
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I find other women to keep my man company. Her family has a file of all of her content and all of her posts
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They're just like, how can you have a loving, proper relationship with someone
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if you're out on the internet doing that kind of stuff? Her
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Hold on. Yeah, she's great. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I will heart that one
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All right. Send a message. I'm Natasha. And I'm Gregory. I find other women to keep my man company
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So we actually met on a dating app. I came across his profile. He had in his bio that he was an adult content creator, which was something I wanted to revisit
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When she matched me, I didn't really think she was real. You don't really find women like her on dating apps
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Usually they get picked up in real life. Within the first month, we were already kind of together
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Locked in. Gregory's type is just beautiful women. Whichever woman I'm attracted to, I know he's going to be attracted to
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So I kind of go off that. The most attractive thing about her is her face and legs
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My height is six foot three. And I'm six foot even. Our height difference would be three inches
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My tallest heels will make me six foot nine. Almost a foot of difference
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I have always been confident in my height. I love to strap on heels just to be extra tall
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I've always been attracted to tall women, but I've never actually been with any woman that was taller than me
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I've always dated guys shorter than me. He's actually the tallest short guy I've ever dated
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I enjoy dating short guys. It gives me this power, you know, because they can't talk crap to me if they have to look up to me
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I'm going to need to bring you a stool so you can talk crap to my face, you know
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So right now we're setting up to shoot a scene. two weeks after matching on the dating app
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we were already shooting our first scene. We had conversations about how monogamy wasn't really for us
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and how we were more interested in having something that was more open and free and fluid
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From that point on, our relationships always had an open door. I first decided to get into the industry back in 2019
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I was shooting primarily solo content but then had stopped at that point to pursue a nursing career and then didn pick it back up until after we met on the dating app
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I got into this years ago, 2016. I started on just regular social media apps, just selling videos and pictures of my normal life
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Once I realized you can actually make real money off it and I'll still start to create real art, that's when I kind of took it fully serious and really locked in on trying to become the best
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triple X producer there can be. I had the inkling about wanting to come back to the industry. So
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him already being in it. I was the catalyst. Yeah, pretty much the catalyst moment
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My parents love me for me. They understand I live an alternative lifestyle. They don't like it
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but they're very accepting, very open. Her end's not exactly the same though
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I have family members that will meet together and talk negatively about my relationship with Gregory
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our career choice. Her family has a file of all of her content
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and all of her posts. They subscribe to her paid pages to print
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out screenshots of her content and the things that she's doing just so they can
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talk about it together in a negative way. They think it's an
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easy choice. They also think it's unbecoming of a lady to put this
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kind of stuff out on the internet. Like, I'm nude on the internet. I'm doing things
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with other people that aren't my boyfriend on the internet. So they're just like, how can you have a loving, proper relationship with someone
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if you're out on the internet doing that kind of stuff? They don't understand
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This? Are we going to get kinky? I'll come down with that. A little drooly. That's perfect
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Yeah, we'll do this one. Hell yeah. Yeah, I like these. These bottoms are really cute
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Yeah, I like those ones. A lot of people think that being in an open relationship is easier, but it requires more communication and it requires more trust in a monogamous relationship
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The only rules we have about dating other people is just the honesty and communication
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Keeping each other safe. Yeah, keeping each other safe. Don't bring anything back home. If you are with somebody unprotected go get tested a week or so after so we can make sure that we safe back at home We don have any rules We don have any rules when it comes to work do what is on brand for you what going to sell Work is work and there no limits to that So I guess I going to start here
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I'll use this at first. I'm going to do a sweep around the left. Cool
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So let's go ahead and get changed. Y'all got to get up on out of here, because no cameras unless they're ours
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We're going to go be sexy together. People doubt our relationship just being valid
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People don't think that it's real. They think that it's fake or authentic
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Apparently we can't have an authentic relationship because we share ourselves physically outside of each other
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I think our values are just placed differently than other people. A lot of people put a lot more value in sex than we do in our relationship
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So I think that the idea, the concept of being with somebody else
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is just so asinine they can never imagine. that the one that went video most recently
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was a video of me with one of my co-stars and we were just taking a picture together
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Well, they were a married couple. The caption was, when my husband lets me have a boyfriend
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and she kissed her husband first and then kissed me afterwards. There's a lot of comments
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Most of them are negative on that one. A lot of people just don't understand and don't view adult content creators being a real job
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or it's selling your body or all the stigma that comes with that industry
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So online, we get a lot of hate with people like, you're fatherless, or you have no mother
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you need God, or you kind of people are ruining this country and ruining us
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Somebody said gross. No self-respect. So sad, such a punk. He has to be a Democrat
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All y'all deserve less. Stop being . You'll be degraded until you die
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Street dogs are everywhere. Stop working. If a man is doing this with his wife, he is gay
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So you painted your nails for them to love you, then they don't love you for you
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I don't necessarily know what that means, but a lot of people have issues online
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with me painting my nails. I don't really know why it affects people so much
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but it really does bother people. My masculinity has been questioned online
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ever since I started painting my nails because people view it as a feminine thing. I actually started painting my nails
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because people were saying that it's a feminine thing and that you could never get a woman like that
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So I initially was no that not true at all But then I actually started liking it It gave me a little bit of flair that a lot of people don have I guess they trying to say that painting your nails is associated with being homosexual or being gay I don know how those two things correlate
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but so people always question my sexuality just because of the way that I am, the way that I'm able to express myself
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but it doesn't really have anything to do with my sexuality at all. The judgment makes me feel no type of way
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I have very thick skin. I had to have it with how I grew up
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and the judgment that comes directly from my family. So honestly, it goes right over my head
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I mean, if they can get it over my head. The judgment doesn't really get to me either
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I also have thick skin. And I also know, especially online, hate drives engagement
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And so I lean into it. Like, hate me all you want. I don't really care. I know I'm physically sound
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I've got a beautiful lady. You can't really say anything about me that's going to throw me off. We'll be sitting in bed at night
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and I'll be scrolling on social media where I'm getting some hate comments or something
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And I'm just dying laughing. and I'll show him the comments and we'll just laugh at them together
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We respond to them as well. Kill him with kindness. Let's put that away and get you ready for your date
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Oh yeah. Oh yeah, that's about to tell him, isn't it? We are getting him ready to go on a date
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Okay, let's get this on you. There we go. Fix your collar
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You look so good. I think this relationship works because it's exactly what we both needed
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We went through the process of making it work. We spoke about boundaries quickly
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We spoke about relationship types. We spoke about what we want, what our morals are
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and all of those things just happen to align. She's changed my life in so many ways for the better
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just because she's accepted me as me and it allows me to live my true, authentic self
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What I love the most about Gregory is his personality. He's very sociable, very extroverted
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I need somebody who's actually going to get me out of the house. People judge our relationship, just, okay, there's..
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That's your opinion, your perspective. We don't care. You send hate our way and you're going to get a thumbs up and we're going to move on
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because why would we harp on something that doesn't matter to us