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DJ Envy and Gia Casey Talk on Their New Book, Infidelity, Sex and Maintaining a Strong Relationship
May 7, 2022
RaaShaun “DJ Envy” Casey and Gia Casey have been married for 20 years of marriage and counting, and are sharing everything that they have gone through in their new couple's book Real Life, Real Love: Lessons on Joy, Pain and The Magic That Held Us Together. They stopped by Sway In The Morning to talk about the relationship and how the book came about.
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here too
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[Applause]
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i've known that man for over two decades
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had to be yes i had the distinct
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pleasure of being a co-worker of his
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early on in radio i remember i remember
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it like it was yesterday we were doing
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that morning show
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life radio we had so many iterations of
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the name of that show
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went through a lot of [ __ ] during that
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show and one of my favorite moments of
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the day is he would come on right after
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us and always be one of the most
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pleasant people that i would know not
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being from new york you know especially
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in the music business at that time you
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know i would i would encounter a lot of
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what i call pretentiousness
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i was aware of it tracy i could sense it
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in people we got ingenuity we got
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intuition but from this particular
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individual he was always 110
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with rich nice in me and i appreciated
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that i knew his history being a a
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personality being a dj from cali we
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studied everything that happened in new
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york i'm sure folks probably did that
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with cali as well i knew uh i knew his
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crew i knew everything about his
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mixtapes at the time i knew a lot about
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his history how he came up in the game
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and then watching him ascend from that
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position years ago to who he's become
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today i just want to commend that man in
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his face and say congratulations on all
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your success thank you man
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yes thank you dj envy thank you thank
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you thank you
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but equally if not as more tell them
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talented and powerful
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than he is yes for without her there
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would be no him citizens
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i noticed for a fact she used to drive
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him around in that escalade as he tried
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to get jobs and
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it was her making the money in the
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beginning tracy it was her supporting
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his dreams yes to help him become who he
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is and she wrote that i never even
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foresaw
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i never even had any foresight on the
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success he would have because i was
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doing it purely out of love and to
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support my king
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and boy does she support this king
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because to be able to be married to this
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barbarian right here
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and to raise that amazing family of
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children that they have
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every time you see a picture you feel
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like it's a magazine spread and i know
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she's doing the styling yes please
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welcome her to the show for the first
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time the one and only guia casey thank
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you
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thank you for having me of course yo
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this book citizens they have a book real
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life real love life lessons on joy pain
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and the magic that holds us together
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rashawn dj envy and gear casey it's an
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amazing book if you listen i i was
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telling them off mike when i that i read
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the book and i was reading it out of
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necessity uh tracy and heather was
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trying to hook me up on the air today
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didn't go too well
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i wonder whose fault was that
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and i too i've been in long-term
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relationships that didn't work and um
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i've been single since because i
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realized i don't have the blueprint
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right so reading this book coming up
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with relationship mission statements and
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all the different things that you
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suggest in your q and a have been very
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helpful
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but gia i gotta ask you
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there's a story in this book about envy
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being possessive
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and territorial see once you put in the
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book you can say whatever you want
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you can't say nothing to me right now
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open season heather one time
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this barbarian
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i was
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i was he was on his way to a gig okay
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right
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and he commanded
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that guillotine one night you are not
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allowed to go out
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and gia decided well you know okay i
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won't go out whatever
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and as he was on the way to his gig
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he found out that she went to a place
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called the armory yes called the armory
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okay
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he found out from a friend of his who
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was snitching somebody snatched somebody
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snitched
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snitching
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the man had a pay gig turned the car
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around just to show up in the location
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she was at
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picked her up and threw you over his
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shoulders
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like tarzan
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why didn't you run from that kind of
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behavior because i was in the air
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i met at 16 and 15. right she was 15 i
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was 16. we've been together ever since
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never broke up
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i was uh growing up i was very insecure
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reason being i had glasses i had braces
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acne i was five foot four i always say
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this gear hates when i say but my mother
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would say i wasn't the cat's meow right
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got it nobody was hollering at me okay
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so when i when i you know got with gear
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to me she was my everything she was
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beautiful she was smart she she was
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caring she was she gave me butterflies
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and i'm like if she ever goes out she'll
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find somebody smarter than me that looks
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better than me that is more compelling
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more added to your insecurities
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absolutely so i was like if she goes out
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that will happen so my whole thing is
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like if she doesn't go out or if she
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only goes out with me i'll never lose
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her so that particular night i had a
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party of course i went to hampton
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virginia she went to old dominion she
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went out and i had a party a hour away
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in richmond
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my man his name is little sean snitched
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on her and he was like
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yo gear's here and i said what you
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turned and and came back and got it that
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was my possessive insecurities at the
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time at the time you like sean to this
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day now y'all still cool
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he was at my house yesterday wow
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yes sean is uh our kids godfather i'm
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his uh kids god parents where we are and
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uh he's a big big big big big friend
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beautiful
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now i'm curious have you ever felt the
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way that envy just described oh no no
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wow
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no
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for clarification what i mean when i say
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that is that i'm not a jealous person
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okay my
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way of looking at life is if you're in a
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relationship and
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i would look at him like he's a bird if
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i put him in a cage and i leave the cage
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door open he has the freedom to fly away
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if he chooses but if he stays then you
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know that he's really yours right that's
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how i feel
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about people in relationships
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someone if they want to be there they
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will be there you cannot contain someone
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that does not want to be there
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absolutely because if i didn't love him
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the way that i did and if he didn't
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deserve all of the love that he received
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from me
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maybe i would have stayed because
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i was catering to his feelings or giving
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in to his possessiveness but then i
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would have cheated on the side
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do you see what i mean like if i felt as
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though i were a captive then i would
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have been like okay boo yeah sure and
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then done something on the side but i
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never wanted to step outside of our
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relationship he was always everything
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that i ever wanted wow yeah that says
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that all the time to me right
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uh
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so let me ask you this so you've never
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had infant committed infidelity
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on envy do you know that you are the
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first person through all of the
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interviews that we've done to ask me
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that direct question
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the first person
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you know
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we were inducted
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and the answer is no you never did never
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tempted no no never close no
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no
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he was my first everything um the
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furthest that i've gone before him was i
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let a boy go on my shirt so second base
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but aside from that
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i'm still looking for that guy i'm still
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looking for him 27 years later it's a
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little cringe for him but yeah but
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that's the furthest that i went and he
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broke my virginity so yeah he's the only
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person i've ever been with did you guys
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ever have a break because i know some
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couples when they've just been you know
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in the throes of monogamy for so long
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i know a young lady that was like bro i
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never had my whole face i think we're
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gonna need a break for me to explore
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before i go down like this lane of
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eternity with you yes was there ever a
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break so you could explore you know the
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many fish
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no
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and i've never wanted a break for me if
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it's not broke it doesn't need fixing ah
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and i was always satisfied with
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everything that our relationship had to
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offer me
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even though there were bumps and crashes
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along the way yeah and you know what too
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it also reminds me of when you get
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married you're marrying so many
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different versions of that person so you
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do get to like date a new person i would
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assume kind of every other decade like
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what was the difference between envy at
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16 and then envy now
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in terms of qualities
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rashaan has matured
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he has matured significantly
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um i think that
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from his perspective now looking in
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hindsight it's really
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20 20 for him
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he can see his whole self and what his
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whole self used to be and all the flaws
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that came with that and since then he's
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course corrected and he's we course
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correct every day because none of us are
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perfect we're always striving to be
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self-actualized and to be our best
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selves in
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life and love and spirituality and
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everything so every day really is a new
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day and he's constantly trying to become
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a better person and we daily we point
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out things about one another that could
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use improving don't just remind you of
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that big interview i think i don't want
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to say was it barbara walters who did it
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with mike tyson and robin gibbons
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[Laughter]
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and mike was just sitting here
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you know what i do this for a living so
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sometimes i'm so into just how she's
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speaking and how well she does and yeah
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and i think to myself all the time like
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she should be on effing tv yeah like she
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should be on f right like the way she
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and she was a communications major so
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when i'm watching i'm like mesmerized
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like goodness great this this is my wife
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like i'm i'm i'm mesmerized yeah that's
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yeah that's interesting you say that uh
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he's never said that oh he's never said
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that mesmerizing the first word
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y'all want to hug just so far
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two things i want to ask you because one
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of the things you said in the book is um
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you were concerned about the possibility
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of losing your identity during his
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success i'm paraphrasing through his
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career when did you when when did that
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become a concern for you at what point
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in the relationship because that happens
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a lot you hear a lot of women in
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relationships who identities get
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swallowed up by the men
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it was the point at which his ego
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started to grow
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and even though he wasn't envy inside
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our house
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i saw that he was moving with a certain
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kind of bravado a certain kind you can
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see it i know what you have to see it a
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little bit
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i saw it too i recognized it go away
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where everything
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was about him
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and my concerns my thoughts my needs
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weren't a priority any longer so i found
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that i was starting to diminish within
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the relationship and then
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just with foresight you can say okay if
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it starts to diminish here then it's
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going to start to diminish everywhere
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else in our lives that we share together
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so
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that was when i said you know what no
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this isn't this isn't okay we're going
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to have to make some changes
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wow and i think the industry did it i'm
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sure heather you know sway you know back
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then
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it was
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you never said you were in a
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relationship it was always you're in the
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club you're popping bottles you're
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standing on the couch with stupid
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sunglasses on you had chicks around like
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that's what the industry was yeah yeah
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and it was never about family it was
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always about you had even even women
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artists they were just you got to be
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single you got to make men love you you
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got to make men think they have a chance
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with you it was the same thing with
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fellas and we all played against it i
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you know i always say and the reason
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that we wrote this book is because i
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want to show people a different side not
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just decide that oh now you got to do
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this you got to do that because we don't
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have a way to follow different things we
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can talk about so many different things
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in our circles right we can talk about
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our favorite basketball players our
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favorite kicks our favorite artists but
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we never have an opportunity to be like
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yo i got an argument with my wife the
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other day and she said this what's your
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opinion yeah you know hey heather like
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me and my wife talked about this what's
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your opinion perfect example i know
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we've been talking about it if i came to
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you 20 years ago mm-hmm pulled you to
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the side heather eh
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yo sway yo
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my wife says she has an orgasm in 10
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years what do you think
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that silence
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shocked that you even said and then when
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i left y'all would have laughed like oh
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man
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in my relationship
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goodness gracious
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i'm just testing out envy you know he
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wrote a book kevin i'm just seeing how
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far i could go
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checking the temperature but you know
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hopefully with this book we can have
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those conversations about relationships
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and understand is you're not the only
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one so when when gear came out and said
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that when we wrote it in the book
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and you know people laughed and it was
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headlines but if i tell you how many
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people dm me and dm'd her and said the
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same thing like yo i'm glad you said
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this i'm gonna have this conversation
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with my husband tonight i'm gonna have
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this conversation with my my man tonight
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and how many dudes hit me be like yo bro
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you know i know that was a long time ago
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how did you figure it out how did you
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make your wife orgasm after that and
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that's the conversations we want to
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start with this book did did you figure
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it did he figure it out gear well here's
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the thing this is the catch-22 let's say
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yes first so that no no
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yes i figured it out numerous times hold
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on no problem stop it
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there was actually nothing for him to
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figure out because the problem wasn't
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with him the problem was with me and
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that's the shame with the um with the
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click bait and everything that's going
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out surrounding this story it paints
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a picture that isn't accurate they just
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grabbed it like okay this is sensational
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we're gonna you know we're gonna get a
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lot of views a lot of likes and a lot of
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listens but it wasn't with him
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women essentially are very different
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from men um anatomically like
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we orgasm in our minds
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you know for me it doesn't matter what's
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actually happening physically it's all
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about the feeling the love the passion
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the intimacy like what's going on in my
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mind rashaan could literally be doing
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nothing
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at this point and
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i'll definitely climax every single time
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it's because i got right with myself
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yeah the time that we're talking about
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you know i was 16 i lost my virginity my
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virginity to him on our one year
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anniversary when i was 16.
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and
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we're talking about 10 years since then
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so probably from 16 to about maybe 25.
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yeah
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i hadn't had an opportunity to figure
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myself out you know he was young just
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like me were both very inexperienced
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essentially each other's firsts and kind
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of like two fools bumping around in the
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dark with no flashlight like you know
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what i could tell everybody i would
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watch porn and when you watch porn all
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you see is bang bang bang bang bang and
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you think you're doing your thing and
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that's what i thought i was i thought i
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was beating up yeah you just scammed
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i thought i thought i was man
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i thought i was everything i was sitting
15:34
back after like we always used to joke
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right like after after we have a good
15:38
sex session we'd be like now or then
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back then uh-huh we didn't even smoke so
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we'd be like i think i need a cigarette
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yeah
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i thought i was that good and then and
15:48
then you realized that i wasn't yeah no
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it's not that you weren't and you even
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still say it and
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you could tell that he's still affected
15:56
still dealing with it yeah because i
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have told him i have been very clear it
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literally had nothing to do with you had
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nothing to do with you know your
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inspiration from porn it didn't have
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anything to do with you it only had to
16:08
do with me and not to be like who am i
16:12
too much tmi like now do you even have
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to do anything yes
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you don't have to
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you don't even he doesn't really have to
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do much he doesn't have to do much he
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just has to exist because i'm so in love
16:24
with him that in my mind i get there men
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are different men are different you know
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i think that you're a lot more physical
16:30
with your body and a lot of women can
16:32
enjoy sex without orgasming but i think
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a lot of the pressure that comes from a
16:37
woman is to men the prize is the orgasm
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correct and if that finale does not
16:42
arrive then you've done wrong but the
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movie's horrible yeah right exactly
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i always through those 10 years people
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misunderstand it but i always enjoyed
16:55
sex with rashaan right and for further
16:57
clarification it's not that i wasn't
16:59
having orgasms i wasn't having orgasms
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through intercourse
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i was having orgasms every other way it
17:05
just my mouth game was strong she's
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trying to say okay
17:08
okay okay
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that's the case of a lot of women but
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i'm hearing a little
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uh pacified and persecute right here i
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know that was your tactic on how to talk
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about sex uh in your book yeah you talk
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about your approach it sounds like you
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it sounds like you're letting them know
17:24
no you're beautiful you're beautiful
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right
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but i wasn't still getting off for these
17:29
reasons it had nothing to do with you
17:31
absolutely okay so in the book um envy
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you talk about um and i'm paraphrasing
17:36
being told these things that um guilla
17:39
wasn't necessarily experiencing certain
17:42
heights and sex
17:44
and um that made you feel less of a
17:46
person or less of a man correct and that
17:48
and that kind of led to infidelity
17:50
correct okay
17:52
um you felt like you could go out and
17:55
please another person and that would
17:57
make you feel full and complete did it
17:59
how did it make you feel
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um
18:04
he's a hall of famer
18:07
i've been waiting for these questions
18:08
he's a hall of famer um
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i was so broken back then as a person so
18:14
insecure and with that they even made me
18:16
even more insecure right because now i'm
18:18
really feeling that i can't satisfy
18:21
my wife right and all and all that talk
18:23
you know when people say hey we broke up
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it's not you it's me mm-hmm that just
18:27
sounded like [ __ ] back then yeah
18:29
right like you're being patroned yeah so
18:31
when it came to it i felt like yes i
18:33
needed my ego stroked i needed to feel
18:36
good you know because here i am you just
18:38
played rashawn casey but in the streets
18:41
i'm dj envy everybody loves dj envy i
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got my glasses on i'm the man when i'm
18:45
out in these clubs out in these streets
18:46
out doing the show to show the show so
18:47
yes it made me feel that way and also it
18:50
was also the fact that
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gear
18:53
lived so i she was so far away from the
18:56
industry yeah so gear didn't have
18:58
twitter she didn't have facebook she
18:59
didn't have myspace black planet
19:01
instagram none of the social medias she
19:03
didn't even really go online like she
19:05
was just focused on our kids at the time
19:07
so i'm like between this and this yes i
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want to i want to feel good i want my
19:11
ego to feel good and that's what it did
19:13
it made my ego feel good until you
19:16
realize
19:17
that's not what i want that ego driven
19:20
situation and feeling is not what makes
19:22
me feel like a man that's not what makes
19:24
me feel like a good best friend a good
19:26
lover a good father so you do it until
19:28
you realize nah that's boyish ways of
19:31
thinking and i have to man up and be a
19:32
man
19:33
wow
19:35
and so
19:36
that that and you know this is a big
19:39
these this what happened chapter is big
19:41
in this book you know because it was so
19:43
well publicized and you guys um
19:46
really didn't hide behind it but what
19:48
came out of it to me is what i think
19:50
we're seeing now you know what i mean
19:52
like i'm not sure if you guys were so
19:54
insightful on the workings of a
19:56
relationship prior to the infidelity i
19:58
know the infidelity made y'all go back
20:00
and do a lot of work and gia put it on
20:01
you and says i didn't cause this problem
20:04
you got to fix the problem correct and
20:06
then one of the things you said in the
20:07
book is that uh prior to that you know
20:10
god wasn't
20:11
central in your relationship correct
20:14
absolutely not okay but
20:16
pro after that
20:18
that was a part of the fix
20:20
making absolutely yes can you talk about
20:22
that thousand percent okay i think you
20:23
have to start from guia's best friend
20:26
okay so let me just break it down so
20:27
guia had this best friend from college
20:28
it's her best friend's husband and
20:30
they're all very tight he didn't like me
20:32
too much because he felt that our
20:34
relationship was toxic which was he was
20:36
true he was right yeah so because of
20:37
that i didn't like him he was the only
20:39
one that didn't champion our
20:40
relationship so now when everything's
20:42
going down
20:44
he calls he steps into play now when he
20:46
calls and i see his number on the phone
20:48
i'm like oh boy it's over here we go
20:49
here we go it's like he's not going to
20:51
help yeah and you want to explain what
20:53
happened
20:56
okay well you know because you read the
20:57
book it's a long story i'm like okay how
20:59
do i how do i shorten this um we were
21:02
having a very bad day rashaan was not in
21:04
a good place mentally and
21:07
let's just suffice it to say that we
21:09
were worried about his safety
21:11
uh my my friend that he's referring to
21:13
his name is rasheed rasheed called he
21:15
called me i told him what was going on
21:17
he called rashawn rashawn picked up
21:20
and
21:21
he let me know that the situation was
21:22
very dangerous and that i needed to call
21:24
the police and let me just let me
21:26
explain because
21:27
so at that time i was at my lowest okay
21:30
gear wanted a divorce she did not want
21:31
to be with me and at that time i felt
21:33
like my life would be better not here
21:36
than here
21:37
as a kid growing up especially in new
21:39
york
21:40
when you hear people commit suicide or
21:42
taking their life you you first thing
21:44
you think is they're suckers yeah
21:45
they're soft they're not a man they
21:47
they're weak they're selfish they're
21:48
selfish
21:50
until you get to that position and when
21:52
you get to that point you realize it's
21:53
none of that it's none of that and
21:55
that's why we talk about it in the book
21:56
so much because we don't ever talk about
21:59
these things or people dealing with it
22:01
so at that time when gear was was
22:04
we were going through our thing i was in
22:05
the garage with all the cars on she's
22:08
trying to open the door and i'm holding
22:10
the door so she can't get in the garage
22:12
and the exhaust is just coming mm-hmm he
22:14
calls me i pick up the phone i don't
22:16
even remember but i pick up the phone i
22:18
guess we had a conversation he hangs up
22:19
he calls gear back and says that wasn't
22:22
rashawn i was speaking to i don't know
22:24
who that was call the police now
22:27
the things that he was saying wow
22:28
rasheed told me was things that rashaan
22:31
in his right mind would never say like
22:33
what can you give us an example yes
22:35
i don't deserve to be here i don't
22:37
deserve ghia i don't deserve my children
22:40
i'm just going to kill myself today's my
22:42
last day don't call me back but not only
22:45
that he said that the voice that he
22:47
heard wasn't rashawn's voice
22:50
so not to get too
22:52
deep into spirituality and things like
22:53
that but rasheed was pretty much telling
22:56
me that it was the enemy yeah
22:58
took over him and was convincing him
23:01
that the things that he was saying was
23:03
true yes convincing him that he was not
23:05
worthy to be here which rendered him in
23:07
that garage that day with six cars on
23:11
damn so
23:12
he said this is not a joke it's not a
23:14
game it's not a manipulation
23:16
call the police right now which i did
23:18
the police came
23:20
they took rashaan against his will with
23:22
the ambulance and committed him to the
23:24
hospital and i was the only one that had
23:26
the power to be able to sign him yeah he
23:28
had the stray jacket you had to stray
23:29
jacket envy no there was no stretch
23:31
there was no stage but there were two
23:32
guards at the door and they took his
23:34
laces and everything from him but he hit
23:37
a phone he hit a phone before they had a
23:39
chance to take anything away so
23:41
rasheed came
23:43
um he was a mess after he got off the
23:45
phone with rashawn he's from l.a well he
23:47
lives at the time he lived in la
23:49
and he was an attorney so he walked into
23:51
his boss's office and said listen i have
23:53
to take an emergency leap of absence um
23:56
i don't know when i'm going to be back
23:57
but i'll keep you posted and he burst
23:59
into tears he said that he was on the
24:01
floor in his office literally bawling
24:05
and he booked a flight went home packed
24:07
a bag and got on a flight straight to
24:09
new york told me that he was coming and
24:11
i said i don't want you here because i'm
24:13
used to dealing with my problems myself
24:15
i'm not the type of person that really
24:16
advises
24:20
i handle everything myself he insisted
24:22
that he was coming i picked him i left
24:24
the hospital
24:25
and i went straight to the airport
24:27
picked him up and he stayed with us for
24:29
about 12 days wow he's a very spiritual
24:32
person
24:33
or something like that
24:34
and i said why are you here
24:37
and he told me that god sent him
24:40
i said what do you mean god sent you
24:43
and he said god told me that i had to be
24:45
here to save your marriage
24:47
and i said i don't understand what do
24:49
you mean god spoke to you i said are you
24:51
hearing voices
24:53
and he said
24:55
i'm not hearing voices but when god
24:57
speaks to you it's as though he puts an
24:59
overwhelming feeling on your heart
25:01
absolutely and when he tells you to do
25:02
something you don't ask any questions
25:04
you just do it
25:06
that's why i'm here
25:08
i didn't understand that and especially
25:10
coming from him because like rashawn
25:11
said he's the only person in our lives
25:14
and at that point 17 years that did not
25:17
support us and didn't think that our
25:18
relationship was the greatest thing he's
25:20
the only naysayer i said of all people
25:23
god sent you
25:24
that's how it works i thought you would
25:27
find out that he cheated and then tell
25:28
me you want to get your boys from
25:30
passaic and do something about it right
25:32
not
25:33
you need to stay in this relationship
25:34
whether you want to be here or not so
25:36
that was the start of our spiritual
25:38
journey and then this the second start
25:41
now you know i do the breakfast club so
25:44
at that time i was a robot i couldn't do
25:46
nothing i would come to work i would lay
25:47
under the counter con you know good
25:49
morning everybody and lay back down i
25:50
was messed up i lost my job here
25:53
because i couldn't come to work i lost
25:54
my mtv job i couldn't come to work i was
25:56
messed up
25:58
tyrese just happens to be in town
26:00
and i have no relationship with tyreese
26:02
at the time i didn't know him we used to
26:04
make fun of him being black tie and
26:05
tyrese like it was no relationship he
26:07
heard me on the radio and called me and
26:10
said hey i was praying this morning
26:12
uh i want to meet with you and your wife
26:14
and i said why and he was like god
26:17
sent me to
26:18
talk to you i was like what are you
26:19
talking about tyrese he said just do me
26:21
a favor
26:22
he said book a private room at charles
26:25
get your wife there and i'll meet you
26:26
there
26:27
so i booked the private room yeah
26:29
philippe charles we get to philippe
26:31
charles
26:32
tyrese comes down the stairs with a back
26:34
backup singer
26:36
and a guitarist and he sings stay
26:38
his songs stay singing serious like
26:41
singing singing he's singing like he was
26:42
singing like he was performing like he's
26:44
at the bar
26:45
like he's at the garden singing singing
26:47
yeah like
26:49
the the muscles coming out his thrones
26:54
and then he sat down with us for about
26:55
what four hours four hours
26:57
just happened and he was supposed to be
26:58
at a wedding the next day he had
26:59
rehearsals he cancelled rehearsals to do
27:01
that changed his flights and then for
27:03
the next couple of
27:05
weeks
27:06
tyreese would be on the phone with us
27:07
for seven eight hours a day
27:09
wow a day every day yeah because you
27:12
know during that four-hour conversation
27:15
he was trying to
27:18
clue me in to the insights of the male
27:20
mind okay and how men work
27:23
he was trying to explain which i still
27:25
don't necessarily understand but he was
27:26
trying to explain how a man can love you
27:29
and cheat at the same time just because
27:32
he cheats it doesn't mean that he
27:33
doesn't love you and we just explored
27:35
that and we talked about many many
27:37
different things over these four hours
27:38
and at the end i had to ask him i said
27:41
why did you do this
27:43
you're supposed to be a wedding
27:44
rehearsal right now you rearranged your
27:46
flights
27:47
you don't know rashawn you don't know me
27:48
you don't know if our relationship is
27:50
even worth saving i could be
27:53
i didn't say this at the time but
27:54
basically what i meant like i could be a
27:55
thot you don't know anything about me
27:58
yeah
27:59
you don't know if i'm worthy of
28:00
everything that you're giving right now
28:02
he said i'm here because god sent me wow
28:05
i said what do you mean you know are you
28:08
hearing voices right
28:12
yes right and he said no he said this is
28:15
from my heart and then he reiterated
28:17
exactly what
28:19
he said my goodness when god speaks to
28:21
you he puts an overwhelming feeling on
28:22
your heart etc
28:24
and at that point it clicked for me
28:26
because i had been begging for a sign i
28:28
learned how to pray properly and i was
28:30
begging for a sign and that was the sign
28:33
because i knew that there wasn't that
28:35
much coincidence in the world you have
28:37
someone that doesn't like reshawn you
28:38
have a complete stranger both of them of
28:40
their own volition coming to you and
28:42
telling you that god sent them to
28:44
intervene on his behalf in your
28:46
relationship and its well-being and both
28:47
of them said that it was a must i didn't
28:49
have a choice in it
28:51
and at that point i i understood now
28:54
they say you understand the assignment
28:55
at that point i understood the
28:58
assignment yeah wow man gia casey is
29:00
here she's with this guy
29:02
[Laughter]
29:06
dj envy this is what i'm saying man this
29:08
book this book look i got so many notes
29:11
i i'm not going to get to the nose
29:13
y'all got to go but i thought i got
29:15
through the whole
29:16
person you end up with swag
29:19
whatever tracy yeah you know i was
29:21
talking to heather who's you know
29:22
married to big horse you know from uh
29:25
hearts lucy wally 09 and um i was asking
29:27
heather would you ever put it out on the
29:29
line like this in a book
29:31
you know and that's not something you
29:33
would necessarily do right no um because
29:35
everybody's like gear was everybody's
29:38
road is different
29:39
everybody's role is different horse and
29:41
i um coincidentally have been married 20
29:44
years as well
29:45
and i think the opposite was
29:48
we had that spiritual confirmation
29:50
before the marriage
29:52
and then we children and i think it's
29:54
hard to base
29:55
um my marriage and anyone we don't have
29:58
children it's a completely different
30:01
dynamic it's so different um and i so i
30:05
admire
30:06
when people decide to fight for family i
30:09
admire that i don't really
30:11
um
30:12
i can't speak on that because i don't
30:14
know what that's that dynamic is like
30:15
just like nobody would know for me
30:18
you know it's like well if horse ever
30:20
cheated on you you it's easier for you
30:22
to leave well how is it necessarily
30:25
easier if this is my soul mate and my
30:27
best friend
30:29
it did you know what i mean it doesn't
30:30
make it easier or harder when you have
30:32
your your help mate and your soulmate
30:34
having children had nothing to do with
30:36
me but that's what
30:38
speaks to what you're saying
30:39
that's what i'm saying nothing it wasn't
30:41
part of the equation it's not part of it
30:42
but at the same time when you for you as
30:45
a man
30:46
daddy you know you don't you can't
30:48
replace that you know coming home
30:50
where's daddy what does mommy say you
30:52
know mommy's crying something doesn't
30:54
feel right in the house all of those
30:56
things i can't i can't relate to that so
30:58
i could only speak on
31:00
my situation and for us it was a
31:03
complete opera we had that whole
31:05
confirmation like to me tyrese was your
31:07
confirmation yeah rashid sounded like he
31:10
was the messenger and y'all was still
31:12
like
31:13
okay maybe somebody told somebody ain't
31:15
no way did tyrese was like good
31:19
he was a confirmation and so we had that
31:21
and that's how our journey and he never
31:23
told anybody tyrese never talked about
31:24
the story right never like he could i
31:26
mean he could have used it it could have
31:27
made him sound great yeah he never
31:29
discussed it he actually texted us the
31:30
other day did he yeah he said you know
31:33
i've never spoken on it you know i've
31:36
never told a story i've never i've i've
31:38
never made messages he knows who sent
31:39
them yeah you're trying to he ain't
31:41
trying to get that wrath
31:44
because that's what i was instructed to
31:46
do
31:46
well you speak on kids and i have a
31:49
beautiful 23 year old daughter um man i
31:52
want to commend envy um for one of the
31:55
things you did after you outed and
31:57
everything was found out that the
31:59
infidelity took place
32:01
you sat down with madison and logan yeah
32:04
and told them what daddy did yeah
32:07
absolutely i'm not sure if i i mean you
32:09
know what i said like you didn't have to
32:10
tell them they were eight and ten at the
32:12
time right yeah
32:15
you sat with the kids
32:17
you're their hero you're a superhero
32:20
daddy you're perfect you're flawless
32:22
you're daddy and then he's villain and
32:24
then so how did that go well see that's
32:27
the thing with
32:28
in our
32:30
our family my daughter is like my best
32:32
friend oh
32:34
so it's like when i'm out and about
32:36
she's out with me when i'm looking at
32:37
cars she's looking at cars and i'm going
32:38
to the game she's with me at the game
32:40
same thing with my son so we're tight
32:42
like if i'm cleaning the garage she
32:44
comes out with me to help me clean the
32:45
garage like i'm her hero
32:47
so when i told her her first reaction i
32:50
told her the truth she was like
32:52
but dad who told on you
32:55
she was more concerned about that yeah
32:58
she's a writer okay
33:01
i like that
33:02
daddy's girl but that kind of speaks to
33:04
the part in the book where
33:06
you know i said that the squeaky wheel
33:09
gets the grease
33:11
in our family i've never been the
33:13
squeaky wheel so i don't get much grease
33:16
yeah so my kids when they found out it
33:19
was like
33:20
how's daddy handling it yeah is daddy
33:23
okay like he said who told like mom's
33:26
going to be okay but what about dad
33:29
but that's that's how our kids are like
33:30
they are always concerned because you
33:32
know dad's tired so you know i'll come
33:34
home and my daughter make me breakfast
33:36
here dad and my mom's looking like what
33:38
about me what about it nobody asked me
33:39
if i ate nobody
33:40
like like dad gotta go to work like you
33:42
know no dad dad you have a show tonight
33:45
dad okay well and they'll make me like
33:46
little to gold packets like this will
33:48
give you energy just give you some food
33:50
when you drive like that's how the kids
33:52
are where my son he'll call me like when
33:53
i'm driving home from a club just to
33:55
talk to me to make sure i don't fall
33:56
asleep like wow that's how connected we
33:58
are as parents but my kids like i was
34:01
surprised like i'm still there now my
34:04
daughter's dating and it's difficult for
34:06
her because she wants a guy like daddy
34:08
yes she wants a guy like you you bought
34:10
your daughter a lot of stuff
34:14
man look at this
34:15
can we compliment the jewelry first
34:17
before we go into that look at the
34:19
jewelry y'all
34:20
the casey has been matching jewelry
34:23
not just clothes
34:27
color palette the diamonds all right go
34:28
ahead ashley i'm sorry
34:30
a question for you then envy so after
34:33
um you feel like you have the
34:34
confirmation and you guys are on this
34:36
beautiful road of spirituality together
34:38
and learn so much do you then now still
34:40
believe that a man can truly love you
34:42
and cheat on you no
34:44
no the problem with our relationship i
34:47
think um in the book i explained it
34:49
i think most men
34:51
or most people getting married don't
34:53
know the true definition of love and
34:54
what it means right it's easy to say i
34:56
love you i love you babe i love you mom
34:58
i love but we don't know the true
35:00
definition of love if i really love
35:02
somebody am i going to hurt them
35:05
am i going to deceit them am i going to
35:06
lie to them am i going to cheat you know
35:08
you still want those butterflies in your
35:10
stomach and i didn't never
35:12
thought about the definition of love
35:13
because we never talk about
35:14
relationships you talk about everything
35:16
else growing up and that's why we wanted
35:18
to write this book like we want to open
35:20
it up where we can talk about
35:21
relationships where we feel comfortable
35:23
saying you know where let's say i see
35:25
you on the street i'm like yo heather
35:26
let me ask you a question gear said this
35:28
what do you think where you feel
35:29
comfortable like this that when i go
35:30
back to get like you know what i've seen
35:32
heather and she said this and it doesn't
35:33
feel awkward no comfortable it doesn't
35:34
it's kind of like what sway said right
35:36
before we crack the mics that no one
35:39
ever taught you how to be in a
35:40
relationship
35:42
that's why we wrote the book my dad
35:43
never told me about sex like we i never
35:45
had the birds and bees conversation
35:47
really yeah so you're just it's just
35:48
porn you was informed by porn
35:50
just it was what it was back then we my
35:52
parents didn't have that conversation
35:54
yeah now we have those conversations
35:56
with our kids oh yeah you know we have
35:57
them early on but back then it was kind
35:59
of taboo like my parents never had that
36:00
conversation with me you just had to
36:02
figure it out i mean his parents felt
36:03
funny reading the book did they really
36:05
yeah hey man you got some beautiful
36:07
parents too you know i saw the pictures
36:09
in the book and and god bless your mom
36:12
yeah you know god bless your mom and you
36:14
guys have you have a handsome family
36:16
thank you so much i got i feel reading
36:18
this book and looking at the pictures i
36:19
learned so much more about who you are
36:22
and gear got to know who you are
36:24
what you're saying it's the same thing
36:26
heather that terry crews came up here
36:28
and said about porn that's how he
36:29
learned about intimacy was through porn
36:31
at the age of nine people
36:33
you know
36:34
and he said a man can hide best his
36:36
infidelity through success he said it's
36:38
such a sweet spot he said being
36:40
successful a man can hide all of his
36:42
infidels he's such a warm place to hide
36:44
he sat right in your chair and said that
36:47
yesterday explain that a little bit
36:48
hiding it through success the more
36:51
successful you are i guess you're
36:53
covered very easily you know it's easy
36:56
to be covered it's easy
36:58
not to be found out or if you are found
37:00
out people just pretend it's just normal
37:02
it's hollywood it's it's life it's the
37:04
game it is normal
37:06
it is normal and that's the sad truth of
37:09
it it's
37:11
it's almost expected
37:12
it's almost expected and you know
37:14
there's a part of the book where i was
37:16
talking about what happened according to
37:18
me the cheating according to me how it
37:19
went down and there was one person in
37:21
particular his name is june roshan's
37:23
manager and still our close friend who's
37:25
like
37:26
you're gonna leave all of this
37:28
behind a little cheating
37:30
essentially
37:34
like
37:35
like essentially like look at your life
37:37
you're gonna
37:38
leave all of this behind he was trying
37:40
to help me but it wasn't working with
37:41
the work
37:42
and what i said to him and how i felt
37:44
and i was reiterating to him like how i
37:46
like i was articulating thoughts to
37:48
myself and i said it to him i said do
37:50
you really think that i would stay with
37:52
a cheating husband
37:53
for some leather
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leather handbags leather shoes like
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that's the this yeah okay yeah house
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jewelry but
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bags shoes stuff
38:05
stuff are you kidding me like this is my
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life this is my love this is my
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existence this is my family who cares
38:12
about all that stuff that stuff can burn
38:16
this is this is everything like we were
38:19
together when we were broke
38:20
you know when our parents were still
38:22
giving us lunch money that's when we
38:24
were together you think i care about the
38:26
stuff come on but it's that's the thing
38:28
it's expected
38:31
most women and the truth is it's not
38:34
lost on me
38:35
a lot of women that are with men of
38:37
means they do stay for that reason right
38:39
so people that have said okay she's only
38:42
stayed with you for the money
38:44
i see where it's coming from because
38:46
that's a narrative that's been tried and
38:48
true so it's an assumption that's put on
38:50
me but in our situation that just didn't
38:52
happen to be the case and i feel like
38:54
also a lot of men and women believe that
38:57
the role as a husband is to provide
38:59
those means so if he's doing it then
39:02
that's a part of the lifestyle that's
39:03
owed to you there's so many gems that
39:05
are being dropped um i'm curious now
39:07
because you guys are so transparent
39:09
about your relationship
39:11
do you ever have issues where you're
39:12
like let's keep it to ourselves
39:15
there's no value in that okay
39:17
for us
39:18
for us i feel as though we've been
39:21
through the dirt and the mud we've been
39:23
in the gutter of our relationship
39:25
now that i feel like we've cracked the
39:27
code and we figured it out it's our job
39:29
to pay it forward so a lot of people
39:31
don't have to get dragged through the
39:32
same mud okay because had we had a book
39:34
like this that said to us you know what
39:37
the most important thing is to keep god
39:39
at the pinnacle of your relationship
39:41
honor him and through doing that you
39:43
will honor each other if we knew that
39:45
and it was given to us in a way that we
39:47
could understand and digest it interpret
39:50
it get it
39:51
we wouldn't have gone through all of
39:52
this
39:53
so that's the reason why you know people
39:54
like why are you putting all your
39:55
business in the street aren't certain
39:57
things meant before
39:58
where's the value in it if you don't
40:00
share where's the sense of community how
40:02
do you take care of your people how do
40:04
you how do you influence them to make
40:06
better decisions than the ones that you
40:08
made if you don't share right but what
40:10
about the challenges that don't yet have
40:12
solutions and they still feel very like
40:15
raw like you know what like there's a
40:17
level of vulnerability like i understand
40:19
like for myself to me the prerequisite
40:22
for sharing oftentimes on a public space
40:24
is have i gotten it figured out where
40:26
someone's opinion does not impact me a
40:30
negative opinion you know what i mean
40:31
where i'm you're
40:33
the way that you receive me
40:35
my securities are not contingent upon
40:37
that absolutely right i'm in that space
40:39
okay so even if you guys were in a
40:43
problem that has yet to be resolved
40:45
would you still feel comfortable sharing
40:47
it publicly oh yeah we do on our podcast
40:50
we do in our podcast there's been many a
40:51
times where we were in the throes of a
40:53
disagreement yeah and we're not on the
40:55
same page and we talked about it on our
40:58
podcast and sometimes it got figured out
41:01
within that hour and sometimes it didn't
41:03
and it spilled over into another podcast
41:05
she's a talker she likes to talk six
41:07
hours we like any moment
41:09
um but like i'm not sure what goes on i
41:12
mean yeah we argue but not never got
41:14
violent nothing ever got crazy
41:17
so like i consider her a flagrant you
41:19
know what i'm saying
41:21
well it sounds like she's a flight risk
41:22
but
41:24
the last time that she loves him the
41:26
last time that she left what was the
41:27
reason be specific
41:29
what happened so we was in vegas um we
41:32
moved to vegas um from connecticut what
41:35
and
41:36
i was we were trying to start a new life
41:38
build everything from the ground up like
41:39
i'm a hard worker i started you know we
41:41
started saying and i don't know if it's
41:43
because she was was sitting in the
41:45
apartment or what was going on but like
41:48
i was trying to work and build something
41:50
because like i said we started from zero
41:52
you know what i mean in vegas las vegas
41:54
no job no apartment like we started from
41:56
scratch
41:57
i was working one day uh she had started
42:00
a fight with me and she wanted to answer
42:03
the phone nothing i kept calling kept
42:04
calling i actually left work to go home
42:06
and she was already going back on a
42:08
flight back to connecticut
42:13
so nothing really happened
42:15
it was it was a frivolous fight it was a
42:17
frivolous fight and then she was gone
42:18
she doesn't love him thank you if
42:21
you're if your
42:23
accounting of the events is true and
42:25
accurate then yes she is a flight risk
42:28
and you need to be with someone that can
42:29
give you
42:30
security you love her more than she
42:32
loves you she's using you for whatever
42:34
it may be it might be for the d it might
42:35
be for the money but she's not in love
42:37
with you and that's why she's so easy to
42:39
to leave so fast so i mean
42:42
i would say you know what gear said
42:43
earlier in the interview you have a bird
42:45
in the cage you let that bird go and if
42:46
it comes back then you know it's there
42:48
just let the bird go well i don't want
42:49
to call a bird but just let the woman go
42:51
let your bird go man
42:53
and you love her more than you love
42:55
yourself yes absolutely
43:02
hey shane you know what shane shane
43:03
shane honestly
43:05
um
43:07
i'm not sure what chapter it is but
43:08
there's a chapter in this book where
43:10
envy talks about being so wrapped up in
43:13
his own world that he didn't recognize
43:14
the sacrifices that were being made um
43:17
by gia and the family members and you
43:19
sound like you work a whole lot and
43:21
she's sitting around too you might want
43:23
to consider that moving forward that
43:24
don't make your work a priority over
43:26
your love or balance that thing out all
43:28
right shane real talk i got you i
43:31
appreciate you guys love you guys listen
43:32
to you all the time can we put shane on
43:34
hold and give a book he seemed like you
43:35
need to get shane hold on we're gonna
43:36
get you a book man hold on shane uh
43:38
shane on line five yo i know you got to
43:40
go to urban view
43:42
i can't stand what you just told him
43:43
just
43:45
like sway always try to save i'm trying
43:47
to save them
43:49
i want to see the best
43:51
people man but you know it's um i want
43:54
to thank y'all for coming up oh man
43:56
thanks for having me
43:57
thanks for having me real fan of the
43:59
family thanks for having us maybe i'll
44:01
get invited to the 12 days of christmas
44:04
maybe i won't who knows
44:08
from maybe if envy got some how many
44:10
cars you got now don't you got the car
44:11
shows i got the car show i got one going
44:13
on in houston june uh 19th with his
44:16
father's day weekend juneteenth so
44:18
fathers come on out it's a perfect
44:19
father's day gift we do cars we do it's
44:21
like rides for the kids it's just a lot
44:23
going on and then we have one coming up
44:25
july 9th in atlanta so if you want to
44:27
get tickets get your tickets now it will
44:29
sell out it's just a lot of family fun i
44:31
bring my whole all the family comes the
44:33
kids come so there's something for
44:34
everybody so if you got a little girl
44:36
that doesn't like cars she could be in
44:37
the jumpy she could be in the carnival
44:38
rides she'd get a face painting she
44:40
could get fun makeup she could learn how
44:41
to double dutch there's so much to do
44:44
envy i'd love for y'all to come back too
44:46
because we didn't talk about finances
44:48
and um uh it's been really i marveled at
44:50
the way you guys have handled your
44:52
businesses
44:53
over the years and that's something i
44:55
find interesting too that couples who
44:57
could be in business together and how
44:59
that helped grow that wealth for your
45:00
family um and then i can ask you some
45:02
more personal questions about your
45:04
business absolutely all right
45:06
okay man give it up for dj envy man give
45:08
it up for gear casey i'm on the kc crew
45:11
make sure you get the book it's called
45:12
real life real love life lessons on joy
45:15
pain and the magic that holds us
45:16
together all right hb see you tomorrow
45:19
love you too all right heather got like
45:21
three jobs
45:23
she's going to urban beauty she's on fly
45:25
later today man she's killing it um
45:28
people want to read you gia how can they
45:29
reach you
45:30
you can dm me in my instagram guia
45:33
underscore kcs gia underscore c-a-s-e-y
45:37
okay y'all know how to reach dj envy
45:39
that's right dj envy and get the book
45:41
get the book get the book when it comes
45:43
to books this is my first book so i
45:44
didn't know anything about books i'm
45:45
treating it like mixtapes and cds
45:47
absolutely and so just get the book it
45:49
means a lot when you guys purchase the
45:51
book and get it on the list so it you
45:53
know that's why you see books in target
45:55
and walmart and even at the airport it
45:57
takes a lot to get those and a lot of
45:59
times our community we don't have those
46:01
authors there so we have to support each
46:03
other to make sure we end up in those
46:04
spots if not you'll continue to see the
46:07
books like five love languages and 48
46:09
powers all that but purchase the book
46:11
real life real love it's a good book
46:13
it's a serious book yes it is it's a
46:16
great book excellent book i've learned a
46:18
lot from it um you will too i guarantee
46:20
you that tracy i can't read you if they
46:21
want to talk to you yeah citizens it's
46:23
been a beautiful bomb ass wednesday with
46:25
y'all hit me up on twitter instagram
46:26
take your pick i'm over there it's tracy
46:29
g i t s t r a c y g
46:32
tonight um here on channel 45 we're
46:35
going to be remembering the legendary
46:36
djk slay aka the drama king okay uh what
46:41
he's done for this culture what he's
46:43
done for the community last time i saw k
46:45
slayer we were in harlem handing out
46:46
laptops to different families in the
46:49
community and that was not that long ago
46:51
so we're going to make sure his legacy
46:53
lives on tonight it starts at 7 00 p.m
46:55
right here at eastern on shade 4-5
46:57
papoose is going to co-host great rizzi
47:00
is going to co-host imma come out and
47:02
co-host maybe dj envy might even call in
47:06
okay davies to be a part of this
47:08
kendrick lamar man oh nipsy hustle um
47:10
excuse me nifty hustle uh kendrick lamar
47:13
may know so many more people gonna be a
47:15
part of this 7-10 p.m eastern make sure
47:17
y'all tune in man as we honor and
47:19
celebrate djk slay that's our show for
47:22
today thank you for tuning in i'm at
47:23
real sway if you want to reach me give
47:25
it up for the casey
47:28
all right we'll be back tomorrow i think
47:30
tiffany hattis is going to join us
47:32
tomorrow so make sure y'all tune into
47:34
that and on that no citizens we have
47:36
nothing
47:37
left to say
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