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So, I thought I was doing everything
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right with this plant, but look at it.
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Just sad. And trust me, I've been there
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more times than I want to admit. If your
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filidendrin's looking more hospital ward
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than Pinterest goals, you're probably
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making one of the nine mistakes I'm
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about to show you. Too much water, not
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enough, wrong pot. Yeah, all that stuff
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actually matters. And some of it might
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surprise you. So before you lose another
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leaf or worse the whole plant, let's
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break down the most common filidendrin
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care mistakes people are still making
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this year. No judgment, just real talk.
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You ever pick a pot just because it
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looks nice? Yeah, I've done that, too.
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But if your filidendrron's sitting in a
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container with no drainage holes, it's
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basically drowning with no way out.
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Picture this. You water it like usual,
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walk away feeling good, but underneath
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those roots are just stewing in stale
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water. Fast forward a few days and bam,
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yellow leaves, mushy stems, root rot
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creeping in like it owns the place. I
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had this sleek ceramic pot once. Looked
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amazing, but the plant hated it. I
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didn't even realize how bad it was until
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I tipped it over and got hit with that
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swampy smell. Now I drill holes in the
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bottom or just use a nursery pot inside
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the pretty one. Trust me, your plant
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cares way more about airflow and
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drainage than how chic the container
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looks. I used to think any bag of dirt
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from the store was good enough. Soil is
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soil, right? Wrong. Planting your
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filidendrin in heavy compact potting
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soil is like wrapping its roots in a wet
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blanket and hoping for the best. These
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plants want to breathe, not sit in mud.
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I remember scooping out some bargain
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brand mix that basically turned into
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concrete after one good watering. The
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water just sat there like a mini swamp
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on top and the roots underneath were
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basically suffocating.
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Now I mix in perlite or orchid bark,
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sometimes even a little cocoa choir to
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keep things airy and loose. Once I
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switched to a chunky, well- draining
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mix, my plant actually started pushing
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out new growth like it was finally free.
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Don't make your filidendrin fight the
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soil. It should feel like home, not
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I get it. Watering feels like love,
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right? You see a leaf droop a little and
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suddenly you're standing there with the
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watering can like a hero. But with
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filidendrrons, overwatering is the
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silent killer. I used to think more
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water meant more growth, but all it did
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was turn my healthy plant into a soggy
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mess. The leaves got yellow, the stems
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got soft, and one day I pulled it out to
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check the roots, and it was straight up
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mush. What I didn't realize was these
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plants like to dry out a bit between
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drinks. Now, I stick my finger in the
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soil or lift the pot to check the weight
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before I water. If it still feels heavy,
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I back off. And ever since I started
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waiting until the top inch or two is
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dry, I haven't had a single yellow leaf
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freak out. Overwatering doesn't show up
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instantly. It sneaks up on you. So,
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learn your plant's rhythm and stop
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treating it like a cactus with trust
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I used to think more light meant better
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growth. So, I parked my filidendrin
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right next to a big sunny window, front
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row seat, full blast. Bad move.
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Within days, those deep green leaves
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started looking crispy around the edges,
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like they'd been toasted. Filidendrrons
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aren't sunbathers. They're shade lovers
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born under tree canopies, not on a beach
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towel. Bright indirect light is the
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sweet spot. Think filtered sun, not a
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spotlight. I ended up moving mine a few
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feet back where the lights still strong
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but not harsh, and it bounced back like
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it never happened. If the leaves start
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fading, curling, or getting those weird
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bleached patches, it's probably getting
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scorched. Direct sun might be great for
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your mood, but for your filidendrin,
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it's just too much drama.
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I had this idea that filidendrrons were
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basically vampires. Like, throw them in
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a dark corner and they'll be fine. So, I
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stuck mine in this shady little nook by
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the couch where no natural light ever
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touched. And surprise, it started
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stretching like it was begging for
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sunlight. The leaves got smaller, the
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stems got leggy, and it just looked
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tired, like it had given up. These
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plants might tolerate low light, but
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they don't like it. They still need some
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brightness to thrive, just not the harsh
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kind. I moved mine closer to a window
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with a sheer curtain, and the difference
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was wild. New growth, fuller leaves, a
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whole attitude shift. Don't let your
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plant live in the shadows. It's not a
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mushroom. So, there was this one time I
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thought I'd give my filidendrin a little
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growth boost. And uh let's just say I
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got carried away with the fertilizer. I
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figured more food equals more leaves,
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right? Nope. What I ended up with was a
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plant that looked like it got hit by
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chemical warfare, crispy leaf tips,
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weird spotting, and just overall bad
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vibes. Filidendrrons aren't heavy
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feeders. They're more like casual
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snackers. A gentle feeding once a month
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during the growing season is plenty. And
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even then, I usually dilute it to half
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strength. I learned the hard way that
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dumping in extra nutrients doesn't speed
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things up. It just stresses the plant
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out. It's like force-feeding someone
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five protein shakes a day when all they
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needed was a light salad. Keep it simple
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and your plant will thank you. I didn't
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think much of it at first. I had my
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filidendrin chilling near the front
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door. looked good. Plenty of light. But
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then winter rolled in, and every time
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that door opened, a cold blast hit it
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right in the face. The leaves started
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curling. Some turned yellow. And one
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even dropped off like it had given up on
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life. Drafts, whether it's from an AC
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vent, a window crack, or a door you use
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a lot, mess with the plant's vibe big
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time. Filerendrrons like stable, cozy
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temps. Not surprised, gusts of cold air
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or dry heat blasting from a vent. I
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ended up moving mine to a spot away from
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all the action, and it perked up like it
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could finally breathe. Lesson learned.
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Your plant's not a fan of drama,
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especially the kind that comes with
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fluctuating temperatures.
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One day, I noticed these tiny little
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dots on a leaf. Thought it was just dust
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or maybe water spots. No big deal. A
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week later, the plant looked like it had
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been through a battle. Spidermites, meie
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bugs, you name it. They were throwing a
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full-on party. The thing is, pests don't
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show up with flashing signs. They sneak
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in quiet and slow, and by the time you
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notice the damage, they've already set
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up camp. Now, I make it a habit to check
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the unders sides of leaves when I water.
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Just a quick scan. If I spot anything
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weird, I jump on it fast with neem oil
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or insecttoidal soap before it turns
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into a full infestation.
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Ignoring those early signs is like
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leaving your front door open and
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wondering why raccoons showed up. Don't
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wait for a plant emergency. Catch it
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early and keep your filidendrin
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I used to think wilting was just the
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plant's polite way of saying, "Hey, I'm
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thirsty." So, I'd wait for that dramatic
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leaf droop before giving it a drink.
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Turns out by the time your filidendrin
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is wilting, it's already stressed out
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and not in a good way. It's kind of like
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waiting until your phone dies before
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charging it every time. Sure, it works,
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but long-term not great. That constant
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dehydration messes with the roots, slows
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down growth, and can even lead to leaf
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drop. Now, I check the soil before it
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gets to that point. Stick a finger in,
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or better yet, lift the pot and feel the
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weight. Once the top couple inches are
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dry, that's the signal. Waiting for
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wilting is reactive care. Your plant
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deserves better than being on the edge
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of collapse just to get your attention.
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All right, so if your filidendrin's been
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throwing attitude lately, chances are
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you're making one of these mistakes
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without even knowing it. Fix a few of
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these and you'll see it bounce back like
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it just got a new lease on life. Thanks
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for hanging out. Go check on your plant
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and I'll catch you in the next one.