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hey everyone welcome to Reddit Unheard
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Stories where we share tales that'll
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grab your heart and make you think Today
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I've got a story about a guy named Tom a
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regular dude trying to hold his marriage
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and family together when things start
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falling apart It's a wild ride so grab a
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coffee get comfy and let's dive into Tom
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and Laura's story told like you're
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hearing it from a buddy over beers My
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name's Tom and I'm just your average guy
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I work hard love my family and try to do
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right by them My job's no joke Long
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hours tight deadlines and yeah sometimes
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I come home a bit grumpy I'm not perfect
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and I'm sure as heck not rich But Laura
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and I we've built a good life We've got
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a cozy house two nice cars and our
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8-year-old daughter Sophie has more toys
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than she knows what to do with Laura's
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got a closet full of killer outfits and
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I'm not chasing millions I'm just a guy
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who loves his wife and kid Laura and I
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have been married for almost 12 years
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And man most of those years have been
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Like the kind of good where you're
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laughing till your sides hurt dreaming
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big together just vibing
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But the last couple of months
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something's been off I can't quite put
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my finger on it but Laura's been distant
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like she's sitting right next to me but
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a million miles away She's been snappy
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picking fights over dumb stuff like how
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I stack the dishwasher or forgetting to
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take out the recycling
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That's not her Laura's usually warm
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patient the kind of person who lights up
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a room But now it's like a storm clouds
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following her around I tried talking to
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her I'd sit her down look her in the
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eyes and say "Babe what's going on did I
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mess up somehow?" She'd just shrug it
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off "Nothing's wrong Tom." She'd say
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"I'm just tired." Or "Rough day You know
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those answers that don't actually tell
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you anything At first I figured I'd give
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her space Maybe she's stressed Maybe
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it's her job or something with Sophie."
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But weeks went by and that distance kept
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growing It was starting to tick me off
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if I'm being honest It wasn't just her
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attitude either Our marriage has always
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had this spark you know I've tried to
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keep things fun keep the romance alive
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I'd swing by the store after work grab a
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bouquet of roses maybe light some
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candles try to set the mood Back in the
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day that would lead to a night we'd both
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be grinning about come morning But
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lately I hand her those roses and she's
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like "Thanks hun." With a quick peck on
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the cheek That's it No fire no passion
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It's like she's just checking a box It's
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been weeks since Laura's shown any
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interest in well you know us When I try
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she's either not in the mood or hits me
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with the classic "I've got a headache
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On the rare times she says "Okay it
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feels like I'm the only one there."
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She's just going through the motions
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It's like trying to dance with someone
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who's already left the floor And that
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hurts man It makes you feel like you're
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not enough like you're failing somehow
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As time dragged on I started pulling
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back too I'd come home play with Sophie
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read her a bedtime story and keep my
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distance from Laura It wasn't what I
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wanted It just felt easier than getting
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shut down again But deep down I was
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freaking out I started overthinking
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everything replaying moments in my head
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trying to figure out where I went wrong
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Did I say something stupid forget an
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anniversary I was coming up empty Then
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one day at work I'm zoning out at my
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desk staring at my computer and this
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thought hits me like a freight train
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What if Laura's cheating no way right
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not my Laura She's my rock my partner
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the woman I've built a life with But the
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more I thought about it the more it
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started adding up The mood swings the
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distance the way she's been shutting me
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out It's like every article I've ever
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read about infidelity was screaming at
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me I tried to push it away tell myself I
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was being crazy But once that thought's
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in your head it's like a weed It just
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keeps growing I started doing some
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digging you know late night Google
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sessions searching signs your spouse is
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cheating changes in behavior secret
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schedules new clothes all that stuff
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Laura wasn't exactly strutting around in
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fancy new outfits but I'm at work all
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day Who knows what she's wearing or
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where she's going her schedule's always
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been a bit of a mystery She's running
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errands picking up Sophie doing whatever
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I started wondering what she was really
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up to when I wasn't around The idea of
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hiring a private investigator popped
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into my head but that felt like
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something out of a movie Plus we don't
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have that kind of cash lying around
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So I turned into a low-key detective
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I started calling the house during the
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day just to see if she was there
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Sometimes she'd pick up sometimes not
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When she did she'd sound annoyed like I
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was interrupting something I even dug
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out an old security camera from the
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garage set it up under the eaves and
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hooked it to a recorder hidden behind
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some paint cans I was looking for
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anything weird like an unfamiliar car
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pulling into our driveway 2 weeks later
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No strange cars no shady visitors just
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Laura leaving the house a few times when
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she said she was home all day The trip
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seemed too short for anything big but it
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still bugged me Was she just grabbing
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milk or was something else going on our
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12th anniversary was coming up and I saw
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it as a chance to hit reset
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We hadn't had a real date night in
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forever So I planned something special
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Dinner at Laura's favorite spot Bella's
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and dancing at our old haunt a cozy
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little club with soft lights and music
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that makes you want to hold someone
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close I got Sophie to stay with my
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parents hoping a night out would bring
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back the old Laura the one who used to
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laugh with me until we were gasping for
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air We get to Bella's and for a bit it's
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Laura's smiling We're sharing a bottle
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of wine and the conversation's easy fun
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She's looking at me like she used to and
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I'm thinking "Okay maybe we're going to
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be all right." After dinner we head to
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the club It's got that warm nostalgic
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vibe perfect for dancing which is
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something Laura and I have always loved
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We hit the floor moving together
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laughing and for a moment it feels like
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we're us again But then Laura says she's
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got to hit the bathroom I'm chilling at
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our table sipping my drink feeling
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pretty good That's when I notice this
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guy across the room He's sharp nice suit
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confident vibe and he's watching Laura
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as she walks away I swear I see her
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glance back at him just for a second My
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stomach drops Does she know this dude
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the club's packed but he's sitting alone
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I start wondering if his date's in the
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bathroom too or if there's something
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else going on Laura comes back and asks
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me to grab her another glass of wine
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saying hers tastes off I'm already on
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edge not loving the idea of leaving her
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alone But before I can get up a waitress
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comes over to take our order And I catch
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this look on Laura's face like she's
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annoyed I didn't go to the bar myself
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My guts screaming "Something's wrong."
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But I try to shake it off Then out of
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nowhere the guy from across the room
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walks right up to our table Doesn't even
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look at me Just says to Laura "Want to
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dance?" I'm like "Hold up That's my
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He's got the guts to say "I was talking
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to her not you." I'm seeing Red but
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before I can say anything Laura jumps in
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telling me I'm being rude "Rude me?" I
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ask her straight up if she knows this
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guy and she hesitates just a split
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second but it's enough She says "No but
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her eyes." They're telling a different
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story Things get heated fast Laura's
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like "You don't own me Tom If I want to
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dance I'm going to dance I'm floored
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This isn't the Laura I know I remind her
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it's our anniversary that I just want to
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have a good night with her not watch her
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dance with some random dude But she's
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stubborn says she's dancing with him and
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we'll talk later The guy smirks holds
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out his hand and Laura takes it They
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walk to the dance floor and I'm just
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done I grab my jacket and walk out I'm
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eight blocks away when my phone rings
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It's Laura sounding all sorry asking
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I tell her I'm heading home to pack a
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bag and get out of there She's shocked
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like "What over one dance?"
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But it's not just the dance I lay it all
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out The distance the fights the way
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she's been shutting me out I ask her
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point blank if she's cheating especially
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with this guy She swears she's not Says
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she loves me but I'm too hurt to listen
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I tell her if she's got someone else she
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can go to him She's begging me to stay
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promising we'll talk it out but I'm
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already pulling into our driveway I pack
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a bag hop in my car and head to a motel
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Next day I'm at work dodging Laura's
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calls I've hired a private investigator
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figuring if I'm not around maybe she'll
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slip up and show her hand Our neighbor
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Lisa calls me trying to play peacemaker
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She says "Laura's sorry Swears there's
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no affair but I'm not ready to talk I
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I tell Lisa I'll call Laura in a couple
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weeks after I've had time to think For 2
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weeks I'm a wreck I'm checking in with
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the PI but he's got nothing Finally he
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calls me into his office and hands me a
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I'm braced for the worst but when I flip
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to the key page it says there's no
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evidence of an affair They tracked
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Laura's every move Phone records credit
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cards followed her around Nothing No
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secret meetups no shady calls I'm
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flooded with relief but I'm still shaken
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Did I get this all wrong i spend the
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weekend thinking it over trying to make
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sense of it all On Monday I call Laura
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She answers sounding like she's been
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crying I ask if she's okay and she just
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breaks down apologizing for everything
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Her attitude the dance making me feel
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like I didn't matter She begs for
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another chance Says she wants to be the
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wife I fell in love with I'm still hurt
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still got doubts but I love her I tell
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her I'll come home but it's a trial run
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I need to see that she means it When I
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walk through the door Sophie comes
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running nearly tackling me "Daddy where
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were you?" she asks I tell her I was out
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of town for work not wanting to worry
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her Laura's there too wrapping her arms
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around me kissing me like she used to I
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kiss her back and for the first time in
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months I feel a flicker of hope That was
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two years ago Things aren't perfect but
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they're good Really good Laura's back to
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being the woman I married full of love
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We just celebrated our 14th anniversary
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with a night at a dinner theater
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watching one of my favorite plays
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followed by a walk along the lakefront
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The moonlight the breeze it was perfect
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Later that night well let's just say we
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didn't get much sleep I still think
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about that guy at the club sometimes
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Part of me wonders if Laura knew him but
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I'm just glad I came home Life's messy
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but it's ours and I wouldn't trade it
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for anything Now let's switch to Laura's
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side of the story It's 2 years later and
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she's meeting her friend Megan at a
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little coffee shop in town
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The place smells like fresh brewed
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coffee and Megan's at a corner table
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waving her over They hug laugh about old
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times remembering school functions and
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how fast their kids are growing Sophie
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and Megan's son Jake are the same age so
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they've been tight for years Megan's
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married to Dan a solid guy who's always
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been good to her About an hour in Megan
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leans in close lowers her voice and
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She's been kind of seeing this guy Mike
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Laura's eyes go wide
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What do you mean kind of seeing are you
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having an affair megan gives this sly
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smile and says she hasn't done anything
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yet but she's thinking about a fling
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She knows it's risky but he makes her
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feel alive like she's more than just a
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She's worried he'll lose interest if she
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doesn't take things further But she
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swears Dan will never find out Mike's
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married too so they're both being
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careful Laura's been holding on to a
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secret for 2 years something she's never
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told a soul But hearing Megan talk like
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this it's like looking in a mirror She
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takes a deep breath and decides to open
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up hoping it'll make Megan think twice
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Megan you remember a couple years ago
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when Tom and I were going through a
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rough patch he left for a bit
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Megan nods says she remembers but never
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knew the details Laura makes her swear
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to keep this between them and Megan
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promises knowing how messy this kind of
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Laura takes a sip of her coffee steals
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herself and starts talking
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After 12 years of marriage I got bored
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Everything felt so routine Same chores
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same schedule same everything I started
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wondering what I was even doing with my
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life I love Tom don't get me wrong but
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it felt like something was missing I was
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in this funk almost depressed Nothing
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was fun anymore not even being with Tom
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He'd try so hard Flowers sweet gestures
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but I just couldn't feel it Even school
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events with Sophie felt like a drag Then
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she met James It was at the grocery
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store of all places He was tall rugged
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with sandy blonde hair and these
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piercing blue eyes Like a younger Brad
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Pitt Laura says laughing nervously They
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bumped into each other by the tomatoes
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started chatting and there was this
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instant spark He noticed her wedding
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ring but still flirted gave her his
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number and suggested lunch
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Laura knew it was wrong but she kept his
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Driving home she couldn't stop thinking
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about him When Tom got home she snapped
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at him for no reason Feeling guilty but
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she told herself she wouldn't call James
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But the next day she found one of the
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last payoneses in town and dialed his
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number They met for lunch the following
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week and it was electric He held her
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hand made her laugh made her feel seen
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It wasn't physical but emotionally She
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was hooked They had lunch twice more
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over the next few weeks and each time it
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got harder to stay faithful
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James started talking about Tom saying
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he didn't appreciate her didn't deserve
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her Laura started buying it resenting
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Tom for things she hadn't even noticed
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By their third lunch James was pushing
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her to come back to his place She made
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excuses but she could feel herself
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slipping Her conscience or maybe fear
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kept her from crossing that line but she
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was close Then came their 12th
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Tom planned this amazing night Dinner
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dancing the works Laura was having fun
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feeling like herself again But when they
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got to the club she spotted James across
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the room He'd told her he'd be there
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Said he wanted to dance with her to show
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Tom what he's missing
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Laura didn't tell Tom not wanting to
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ruin the night But when James came over
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and asked her to dance ignoring Tom
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completely things went south fast Tom
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was furious told her not to dance with
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him She said "You don't own me." And
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went to the dance floor with James It
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was a huge mistake James was smug
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holding her close acting like he was
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proving something Laura was so worried
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about Tom watching that she barely
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noticed the dance When it was over she
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told James one quick dance was enough
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that she was staying with her husband
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But when she got back to the table Tom
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was gone She called him begging him to
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come back but he was done He thought she
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was cheating especially with James Laura
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said she wasn't but Tom wasn't hearing
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it He said he was packing a bag and
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leaving She took a cab home hoping to
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catch him but he was already gone She
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tried calling but his phone was off
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She was terrified she'd lost him for
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good She confided in Lisa hoping she
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could get through to Tom
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He told Lisa he needed time and Laura
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had to wait Those two weeks were the
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worst of her life She kept a brave face
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for Sophie saying Daddy was home but
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alone she was a mess crying herself to
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sleep scared she'd thrown away her
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marriage for a stupid dream
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When Tom finally called Laura poured her
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heart out apologizing for everything She
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never told him about James she couldn't
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risk losing him again
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Tom came home and she spent every day
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trying to be the wife he deserves
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She's thankful every day for what they
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have knowing how close she came to
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losing it all Laura looks at Megan who's
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been listening quiet
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Megan think about what you're doing What
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kind of person goes after someone who's
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married would Dan do that no way So why
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risk your marriage for someone who would
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megan's eyes are tearary but she's
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smiling a little She says she's been
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feeling the same boredom as Laura but
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now she's not sure she can go through
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with the fling with Mike Laura smiles
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relieved and wraps Sophie in a big hug
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when she gets home She greets Tom with a
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kiss that says everything she can't put
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That night lying next to him she traces
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his face overwhelmed with love They talk
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about Sophie's upcoming 10th birthday
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and Laura teases about giving her a
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sibling Tom's smile says he's in Two
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months later they throw Sophie a huge
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party with ice cream and cake After the
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candles are blown out they tell her
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she's getting a baby brother The look on
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her face pure magic Tom and Laura's
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story is raw messy and real
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They hit rock bottom but clawed their
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way back proving love can survive the
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toughest storms if you're willing to
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