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I Was Betrayed. Here’s How I Took Control and Got My Life Back | TRUE STORY
This is the true story of a man who had everything—a successful business, a loving family, and a marriage he thought was unshakable. But everything came crashing down the day he discovered his wife’s 8-month affair. In this gripping narrative, watch how a betrayed husband goes from victim to strategist, using intelligence, strategy, and sheer will to reclaim control of his life.
From uncovering his wife’s betrayal through technology to leveraging legal and personal power, this story takes you through a rollercoaster of emotions. Witness how a seemingly perfect life can fall apart in an instant and how, in the aftermath, a man rebuilds from the ashes of his broken world.
This is a journey of hurt, anger, resilience, and the eventual rise of one man taking back control over his life and destiny.
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The betrayal hit me like a physical
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blow, a sudden violent impact that
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shattered the suburban dream I had so
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carefully constructed. Before that day,
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my life was a perfect picture of quiet
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contentment. A successful business, two
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incredible daughters I adored, and a
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marriage of 14 years that I believed was
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unshakable.
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Then a message on my wife Charlene's
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phone, followed by a flicker of guilt on
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her face, and my world tilted on its
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axis. Her infidelity wasn't a one-time
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mistake. It was an 8-monthlong affair
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with a man named Jim. Confronting her
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was a slow, agonizing process.
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Charlene's lies unraveled until she
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finally admitted the truth. Her
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confession laced with a cold cruelty I
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didn't recognize.
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I've been doing it for 8 months, she'd
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sneered. He's a good lover. Not better
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or bigger, just different. Think long
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and hard before you do anything. See a
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lawyer. Your life would be a living hell
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if we split. I'll make sure of it.
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Her words felt like a 1973 Johnny Taylor
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song, a bitter anthem for a man facing
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alimony or jail. I was facing both. A
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despondent father staring into the abyss
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of a broken life. Leaving my attorney's
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office, I realized I couldn't simply be
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a victim. I had to become a strategist.
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My first move was to take back control.
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The house, the cars, the money, it was
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all in my name. I used a keystroke
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recorder and installed surveillance
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cameras, uncovering all her secrets. I
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learned her lover's name, Bob, a county
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permit supervisor, and found videos and
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photos that laid bare her deceit. When I
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confronted her again, I was no longer
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pleading. I was laying down the law.
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"Who said I came to my senses?" I
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demanded. Here's what's going to happen.
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Effective now. I'm done with you. I
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won't share your bed. I'm moving into
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the spare room. You better get a job or
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have your lover support you. The girls
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get anything they want, but you won't
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see another penny from me.
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Her furious reaction, complete with a
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half- undressed attempt at seduction and
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a vile threat about her lover, confirmed
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my path.
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I snatched her phone and called Jim.
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I have your number now, I said calmly.
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Having my cheating wife is punishment
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enough. Surely you don't want a
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permanent relationship with her knowing
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she'd cheat on you, too. He hung up and
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I pocketed the phone. I cut off her
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credit cards and locked her out of our
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computer accounts. Her afternoon trrists
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were ruined when I put a GPS and an
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anti- theft system in her Mercedes.
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One day, I saw she was heading to her
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lover's place. I shut the car down
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remotely. She called in a panic. "The
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car cut off and won't start. I'm stuck,"
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she said frantically. "Where are you?" I
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asked, already knowing the answer. She
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stammered. "I'm across town. I was going
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to drop by Beverly's." I asked if
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Beverly was at work catching her in a
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lie. "Try the car again, Charlie," I
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said. "I bet it starts right up." "It
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did, but shut down again after 5
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blocks." When she called back, I simply
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told her to head home. After two more
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shutdowns, she finally got the message.
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My friend Harry, a computer genius worth
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millions, and his wife June, along with
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their ex-military bodyguard, Shauna,
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helped me develop a solid plan.
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Harry suggested I remodel our basement
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into a separate apartment with its own
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entrance and power. This would allow me
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to separate from Charlene while still
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being in the same house for my girls.
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A judge would likely support the plan.
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He said it was perfect. Shauna Ever the
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Firebrand offered to kick his balls up
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his throat, but we settled on a less
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violent plan B. I also targeted her
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lover, Bob.
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I met with the county commission
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chairman, Fred, a man who knew my
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father. I discreetly informed him that
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his permits and zoning manager was
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sleeping with my wife.
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I have video and audio, I told him
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bluntly, including footage of him
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jacking off in his office.
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Fred's face went slack. The scandal
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would be messy. I offered a deal, Bob's
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quiet resignation, and in exchange, I
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would drop the matter after the
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election. The chairman agreed, sending
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Bob to a training seminar while the
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basement remodel began.
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Charlene's behavior grew erratic. She
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tried to reconcile, giving a long speech
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about boredom and feeling unattractive.
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I saw through her excuses.
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Instead of having an affair, you could
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have volunteered or gotten a job, I told
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her. You chose a sex buddy instead.
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How's that working out for you? The trip
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to Disney was a test of wills with me
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booking separate beds and refusing her
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advances. She finally hinted at divorce
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and I had my opening. I filed for a
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legal separation and moved into my newly
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remodeled basement apartment. I
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explained the situation to my daughters
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who were sad about the separation, but
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comforted by the fact that I would still
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be in the house. Charlene's ensuing rage
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was so loud the neighbors called the
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police. I showed the officer my
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separation papers and explained the
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situation. The officer spoke with the
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girls, then with Charlene, advising her
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to prioritize their welfare. The girls,
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for their part, held firm, refusing to
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let her into my new apartment. In court,
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I explained to the judge that my wife
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had been unfaithful and refused to end
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the affair. I presented my legal
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evidence and my new living arrangement.
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The judge, seeing that I was taking
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responsibility and protecting the
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children, ruled in my favor. The
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separation would stand for 90 days. We
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were ushered out of the chambers and I
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saw Charlene in my rearview mirror
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crying violently.
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In the past, I would have comforted her.
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Now, I just sighed and drove away.
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Charlene was left alone upstairs.
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Her lover, Bob, was quietly fired after
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the election. I hired his wife, a
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devastated accountant with young
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children, for a part-time job at my
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company, offering a lifeline to a fellow
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victim of infidelity.
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I even had to threaten to cut Charlene
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off financially for a month before she
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apologized to one of my staff, Misty,
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whom she had accused of flirting with
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me. Misty, a confident redhead, now
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flirted with me openly, joking that
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she'd be first in line when I was
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single. This annoyed Charlene,
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especially when she saw other moms at
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the kids pool parties hint at or suggest
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dating me. I smiled, feeling the quiet
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satisfaction of having moved on. A month
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later, a desperate Charlene showed up at
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my door. She was a different woman now,
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lonely with no lover, no husband, and no
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one to talk to.
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She asked if being with her lover would
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bother me now. "No more than when you
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did it while we were together," I
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replied, my voice steady. "Now you're
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legally separated and he's divorcing, so
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there's less stigma."
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She looked down in shame. "We haven't
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been together in a while," she admitted.
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"The thrill is gone. The sex was good
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when it was a secret, but now it's not
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satisfying.
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She had lost the excitement of her
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secret affair, and with it, her
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leverage.
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Bob was working in a small county, his
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career in shambles. The woman who once
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threatened to make my life hell now
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stood alone, broken by her own choices.