It all started quietly — not with a bang, but a whisper. What seemed like a stable marriage shattered when Elden, my husband of four years, revealed his true colors: selfishness, deceit, and abandonment. As I faced the crushing reality of betrayal and his refusal to take responsibility, I was also carrying our unborn child — a new life that became my source of strength and hope.
This is my story: a journey through heartbreak, resilience, and ultimately, liberation. From the painful discovery of Elden’s manipulations to the difficult decision to file for divorce and raise our child alone, I share the emotional rollercoaster of reclaiming my life and finding strength in family and motherhood.
If you’ve ever faced betrayal or felt alone in your struggles, this story is for you. It’s about rising above pain, standing firm for yourself, and embracing new beginnings.
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It began not with a bang, but with a
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whisper, a barely audible crack in the
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foundation of my life. A divorce. The
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word hung in the air, a venomous cloud I
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had not seen gathering. "It came from
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Elden, my husband of four years, now a
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stranger with a malignant grin."
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"I don't need a wife who abandons her
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husband," he sneered, thrusting a packet
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of legal papers at me. They were a
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testament to his meticulous, twisted
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forethought. The pre-filled divorce
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papers were a grotesque punchline to a
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joke I hadn't known I was part of. I,
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Gloriana Ambrosio, a woman of 30, a
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professional, had been foolish enough to
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believe in a life where love and
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partnership were reciprocal.
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My mind raced back, trying to pinpoint
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the exact moment the rot set in. Elden
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and I were inseparable once.
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We met in the trenches of the same
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department, two cogs in the corporate
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machine who fell in love over shared
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lunches and late night deadlines. He was
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charming, ambitious, and driven. His
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compliments were a balm to my soul, and
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his dedication to his work mirrored my
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own. We married a year later, a
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whirlwind romance culminating in what I
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believed was a rock-solid partnership.
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Our paths diverged soon after. We were
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moved to separate departments, and while
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I continued my ascent, Elden's
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dedication seemed to falter. I would ask
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him about his day, and he would dismiss
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my inquiries with a vague wave of his
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hand. I dismissed his behavior as work
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stress, an unfortunate side effect of
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corporate life, how wrong I was.
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The reality was a slow motion car crash
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I was too blind to see. It started with
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a call from my boss.
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Gloriana," he said, his voice laced with
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concern. "I've heard Elden's work
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attitude has deteriorated. He's not
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meeting deadlines, and he's not even
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apologizing for being late."
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The news hit me like a physical blow. I
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had no idea. Elden, my once reliable
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partner, was a ghost in the machine.
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When I confronted him, he dismissed it
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as a minor squabble with his boss. He
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promised to fix it, to turn a new leaf.
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A week later, he came home with a
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different kind of promise. "I quit," he
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said, his eyes empty. "I can't work
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under that boss anymore." "I was
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speechless. This wasn't the Elden I
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knew. The man who would face a challenge
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headon and win. This was a defeated man,
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a shadow of his former self. His
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colleagues loved his boss, a man known
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for his fairness and respect. Elden's
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logic was flawed, but I chose to believe
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in him. I'm sorry for the trouble," he
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said, his voice a whisper. "I'll find
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another job soon."
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I wanted to believe him. I needed to
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believe him. But the weeks that followed
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were a cruel parody of job hunting.
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Elden, a man with a degree from a
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prestigious university and a resume full
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of impressive work history, complained
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that no one wanted him. He was too good
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for them, too ambitious. All he needed
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was a company with no nagging boss and a
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salary of at least $5,000 a month.
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His words were a mirror, showing me a
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distorted reflection of the man I had
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married.
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Then came the truth, a chilling
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revelation that shattered the last
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remnants of my naive faith.
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One afternoon, I came home early and
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heard Elden's voice on the phone. "Since
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Gloriana is working, I don't have to."
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He laughed, his voice laced with
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contempt. I'll just sweet talk her into
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supporting me. I never thought
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pretending to be serious would work this
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well.
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My heart turned to ice. My partner, my
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love, was a fraud. The man I had married
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was a lie, a performance he had
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perfected to get what he wanted, a life
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of leisure at my expense. When he saw
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me, he tried to salvage the situation
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with a clumsy lie.
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I was just joking, he stammered, his
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face pale. But the mask had slipped, and
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I had seen the true Elden. I stood
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there, trembling with rage and the
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bitter sting of betrayal.
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"Enough," I said, my voice shaking with
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a fury I had never felt before. "Get a
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job! Any job!"
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My anger wasn't just for our future, but
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for the life blooming within me. I was
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pregnant. I had found out just as Elden
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quit his job. The revelation should have
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been a source of joy, but with Elden's
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unemployment looming, it became a source
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of fear. I needed him to be a partner, a
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provider, a father. Instead, he was a
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child, a burden I couldn't afford to
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carry.
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The morning sickness and exhaustion of
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pregnancy made household chores a
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herculean task, but Elden lay on the
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sofa, a perpetual fixture, his hand
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buried in a bag of potato chips.
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Pregnancy isn't an illness, he lectured,
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his voice a condescending drone. Deal
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with it. His disdain for my condition
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grew with each passing day. He demanded
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proper meals, fuming when I resorted to
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canned food to conserve my energy. His
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lectures on a wife's duties were a
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painful echo of his twisted entitlement.
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The breaking point came after a fiery
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argument where I, weary and heartbroken,
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screamed at him to be a better man, to
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be a father to his unborn child. He
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remained silent, his face a blank mask
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of indifference.
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The thought of divorce was a constant
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hum in my mind, but the image of a
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fatherless child stopped me. I decided
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to wait, to give him a chance to grow
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up, to mature with the arrival of our
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child. Given his unreliability, I made
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the decision to give birth at my
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parents' home, a decision they readily
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supported.
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"What am I supposed to do without you?"
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Elden whed, his voice a petulant
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complaint. "Who's going to do the
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chores?"
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His words were a final nauseating
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testament to his selfishness. "You're an
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adult," I said, my voice colder than I
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had ever heard it. "Figure it out."
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I left, and two months later, I returned
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to his place. A newborn in my arms and a
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newfound strength in my heart.
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The house was a monument to his
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idleness. Scattered trash, a mountain of
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clothes waiting to be washed, the sour
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smell of neglect hanging in the air. "As
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I stood in the doorway, a ghost of the
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man I had married appeared, unshaven and
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with a glint of malice in his eye.
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"Finally, you're back," he said, his
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voice a low growl. "I'm divorcing you. I
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don't need a wife who abandons her
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husband.
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The words, so twisted and cruel, failed
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to wound me. Instead, they were a cold
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slap of clarity. The love I once felt
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for him, a flickering candle in the
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dark, was extinguished forever. I didn't
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need this man in my life. I didn't want
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him to be a role model for my child.
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Fine, I said, my voice as detached as
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his. You'll get your divorce.
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I snatched the papers from his hand and
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filled them out on the spot. My
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signature a final act of liberation.
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Goodbye, I said, turning on my heel.
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I'll come back for my things later.
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Don't throw anything away.
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I walked away from the shambles of my
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marriage and went directly to the
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courthouse. The divorce was finalized
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and Elden was no longer a part of my
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life. I returned to my parents' home, my
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heart a mix of relief and trepidation.
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Raising a child alone was a daunting
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prospect, but with my parents by my
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side, the challenge seemed surmountable.
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Life became a mosaic of small, precious
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moments. The gurgle of my child, the
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reassuring presence of my parents, the
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simple joy of watching my baby grow. A
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month after the divorce, the phone rang.
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It was Elden. He had my cell phone
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number blocked, a small victory. But I
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had forgotten about my parents'
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landline.
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Hey, when are you coming back? He asked,
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his voice a strange mix of bravado and
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desperation. We're strangers now, I
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said, my voice cold. I'm never coming
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back. The silence on the other end was a
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symphony of his panic. You You actually
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filed the divorce papers? He stammered.
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Yes, I said, my voice flat. You wanted a
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divorce, didn't you? He erupted, his
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voice a torrent of fury and disbelief. I
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was just trying to scare you. I wanted
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you to come back and take care of me.
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His words were a confirmation of my
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worst fears. He was a child, a master
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manipulator who saw me as a resource to
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be exploited, not a partner to be
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cherished.
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Whether you were serious or not, I said,
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my voice firm, I have no intention of
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reconciling with you. You've been
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useless ever since I got pregnant. Who
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would want to be a family with a man
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like that?
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I hung up and blocked the landline
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number. I thought that was the end. I
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was wrong. A month later, a peaceful
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Sunday afternoon was shattered by a
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relentless pounding on the door. It was
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Elden, a gaunt, unshaven figure who
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looked like a man who had lost a war.
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"Gloriana, I need money," he said, his
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voice a desperate plea. "Just $1,000."
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My mother, her face etched with disgust,
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retreated to tend to the baby. My
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father, a man of quiet strength, simply
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looked at Elden with a mixture of pity
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and disdain.
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Elden, oblivious to their unspoken
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judgment, launched into a grand
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monologue about his new venture.
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Investment.
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A regular job is for fools, he scoffed,
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his eyes gleaming with a manic fever. I
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have a trustworthy adviser. I'll make
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millions. I just need a little more
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money to get started.
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The mention of the police was enough to
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send him scurrying, but the threat of
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his return hung over us like a dark
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cloud. We considered moving, but the
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thought of uprooting our lives for this
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manchild was an absurdity we refused to
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accept.
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And so my parents and I devised a plan.
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The next time Elden came, we would be
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ready.
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Another month passed, and as if on cue,
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Elden returned.
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My mother, with a practiced calm, made a
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phone call. My father and I let Elden
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in, listening to his soba story about
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being scammed out of $10,000 by his
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adviser.
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He had nothing left, he said, and I was
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his last hope.
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I smiled, a small, reassuring smile that
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held a promise he couldn't possibly
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understand. "Don't worry," I said. "I'll
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help you find a new job and a place to
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live." His face lit up with a pathetic
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hope, a final flicker of the boy I once
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knew. Just then, the doorbell rang. I
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opened the door to reveal the person my
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mother had called. Elden's father,
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Caden. Kaden, a man of quiet dignity and
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immeasurable strength, had been a rock
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for me throughout this ordeal. We had
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been in contact since the beginning of
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Elden's downward spiral, and he had
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promised to handle his son if he ever
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became a persistent problem. His
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presence was a silent rebuke, a
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testament to his unwavering support for
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me and his deep-seated disappointment in
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his son. "What have you done?" Elden
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sputtered, his face ashen with shame.
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"This is a family matter."
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Caden's eyes, usually so gentle, were
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now blazing with a righteous fury. "What
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kind of attitude is that?" he thundered.
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"You've caused so much trouble that even
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your parents have to intervene.
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What are you doing with your life?
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Elden was silenced. Caden took him by
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the arm and led him out. A father
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finally reclaiming his errant son. From
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what I've heard, Elden is now working as
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a general helper at his father's
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company. He's being strictly trained not
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just in a job, but in manners,
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discipline, and how to be a decent human
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being. His salary is a pittance, a
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bitter reminder of the $5,000 he once
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believed he was entitled to. He's in a
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living hell, and a part of me, the part
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that was so deeply hurt by his betrayal,
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is glad.
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He brought this upon himself, and I hope
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he learns from it. As for me, life is a
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daily joy. My child is growing. My
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parents are a constant source of support
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and I am surrounded by a community of
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loving friends and colleagues.
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The challenges of single motherhood are
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a mountain I am ready to climb and every
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day I am grateful for the strength I
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found and the life I reclaimed.
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The road ahead is long, but I am no
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longer walking it alone.

