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It began not with a bang, but with a
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whisper, a barely audible crack in the
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foundation of my life. A divorce. The
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word hung in the air, a venomous cloud I
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had not seen gathering. "It came from
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Elden, my husband of four years, now a
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stranger with a malignant grin."
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"I don't need a wife who abandons her
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husband," he sneered, thrusting a packet
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of legal papers at me. They were a
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testament to his meticulous, twisted
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forethought. The pre-filled divorce
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papers were a grotesque punchline to a
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joke I hadn't known I was part of. I,
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Gloriana Ambrosio, a woman of 30, a
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professional, had been foolish enough to
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believe in a life where love and
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partnership were reciprocal.
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My mind raced back, trying to pinpoint
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the exact moment the rot set in. Elden
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and I were inseparable once.
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We met in the trenches of the same
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department, two cogs in the corporate
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machine who fell in love over shared
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lunches and late night deadlines. He was
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charming, ambitious, and driven. His
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compliments were a balm to my soul, and
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his dedication to his work mirrored my
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own. We married a year later, a
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whirlwind romance culminating in what I
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believed was a rock-solid partnership.
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Our paths diverged soon after. We were
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moved to separate departments, and while
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I continued my ascent, Elden's
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dedication seemed to falter. I would ask
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him about his day, and he would dismiss
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my inquiries with a vague wave of his
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hand. I dismissed his behavior as work
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stress, an unfortunate side effect of
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corporate life, how wrong I was.
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The reality was a slow motion car crash
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I was too blind to see. It started with
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Gloriana," he said, his voice laced with
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concern. "I've heard Elden's work
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attitude has deteriorated. He's not
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meeting deadlines, and he's not even
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apologizing for being late."
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The news hit me like a physical blow. I
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had no idea. Elden, my once reliable
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partner, was a ghost in the machine.
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When I confronted him, he dismissed it
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as a minor squabble with his boss. He
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promised to fix it, to turn a new leaf.
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A week later, he came home with a
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different kind of promise. "I quit," he
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said, his eyes empty. "I can't work
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under that boss anymore." "I was
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speechless. This wasn't the Elden I
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knew. The man who would face a challenge
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headon and win. This was a defeated man,
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a shadow of his former self. His
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colleagues loved his boss, a man known
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for his fairness and respect. Elden's
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logic was flawed, but I chose to believe
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in him. I'm sorry for the trouble," he
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said, his voice a whisper. "I'll find
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I wanted to believe him. I needed to
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believe him. But the weeks that followed
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were a cruel parody of job hunting.
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Elden, a man with a degree from a
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prestigious university and a resume full
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of impressive work history, complained
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that no one wanted him. He was too good
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for them, too ambitious. All he needed
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was a company with no nagging boss and a
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salary of at least $5,000 a month.
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His words were a mirror, showing me a
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distorted reflection of the man I had
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Then came the truth, a chilling
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revelation that shattered the last
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remnants of my naive faith.
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One afternoon, I came home early and
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heard Elden's voice on the phone. "Since
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Gloriana is working, I don't have to."
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He laughed, his voice laced with
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contempt. I'll just sweet talk her into
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supporting me. I never thought
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pretending to be serious would work this
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My heart turned to ice. My partner, my
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love, was a fraud. The man I had married
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was a lie, a performance he had
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perfected to get what he wanted, a life
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of leisure at my expense. When he saw
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me, he tried to salvage the situation
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I was just joking, he stammered, his
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face pale. But the mask had slipped, and
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I had seen the true Elden. I stood
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there, trembling with rage and the
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bitter sting of betrayal.
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"Enough," I said, my voice shaking with
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a fury I had never felt before. "Get a
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My anger wasn't just for our future, but
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for the life blooming within me. I was
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pregnant. I had found out just as Elden
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quit his job. The revelation should have
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been a source of joy, but with Elden's
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unemployment looming, it became a source
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of fear. I needed him to be a partner, a
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provider, a father. Instead, he was a
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child, a burden I couldn't afford to
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The morning sickness and exhaustion of
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pregnancy made household chores a
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herculean task, but Elden lay on the
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sofa, a perpetual fixture, his hand
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buried in a bag of potato chips.
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Pregnancy isn't an illness, he lectured,
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his voice a condescending drone. Deal
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with it. His disdain for my condition
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grew with each passing day. He demanded
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proper meals, fuming when I resorted to
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canned food to conserve my energy. His
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lectures on a wife's duties were a
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painful echo of his twisted entitlement.
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The breaking point came after a fiery
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argument where I, weary and heartbroken,
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screamed at him to be a better man, to
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be a father to his unborn child. He
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remained silent, his face a blank mask
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The thought of divorce was a constant
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hum in my mind, but the image of a
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fatherless child stopped me. I decided
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to wait, to give him a chance to grow
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up, to mature with the arrival of our
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child. Given his unreliability, I made
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the decision to give birth at my
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parents' home, a decision they readily
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"What am I supposed to do without you?"
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Elden whed, his voice a petulant
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complaint. "Who's going to do the
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His words were a final nauseating
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testament to his selfishness. "You're an
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adult," I said, my voice colder than I
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had ever heard it. "Figure it out."
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I left, and two months later, I returned
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to his place. A newborn in my arms and a
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newfound strength in my heart.
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The house was a monument to his
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idleness. Scattered trash, a mountain of
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clothes waiting to be washed, the sour
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smell of neglect hanging in the air. "As
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I stood in the doorway, a ghost of the
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man I had married appeared, unshaven and
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with a glint of malice in his eye.
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"Finally, you're back," he said, his
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voice a low growl. "I'm divorcing you. I
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don't need a wife who abandons her
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The words, so twisted and cruel, failed
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to wound me. Instead, they were a cold
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slap of clarity. The love I once felt
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for him, a flickering candle in the
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dark, was extinguished forever. I didn't
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need this man in my life. I didn't want
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him to be a role model for my child.
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Fine, I said, my voice as detached as
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his. You'll get your divorce.
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I snatched the papers from his hand and
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filled them out on the spot. My
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signature a final act of liberation.
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Goodbye, I said, turning on my heel.
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I'll come back for my things later.
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Don't throw anything away.
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I walked away from the shambles of my
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marriage and went directly to the
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courthouse. The divorce was finalized
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and Elden was no longer a part of my
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life. I returned to my parents' home, my
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heart a mix of relief and trepidation.
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Raising a child alone was a daunting
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prospect, but with my parents by my
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side, the challenge seemed surmountable.
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Life became a mosaic of small, precious
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moments. The gurgle of my child, the
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reassuring presence of my parents, the
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simple joy of watching my baby grow. A
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month after the divorce, the phone rang.
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It was Elden. He had my cell phone
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number blocked, a small victory. But I
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had forgotten about my parents'
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Hey, when are you coming back? He asked,
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his voice a strange mix of bravado and
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desperation. We're strangers now, I
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said, my voice cold. I'm never coming
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back. The silence on the other end was a
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symphony of his panic. You You actually
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filed the divorce papers? He stammered.
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Yes, I said, my voice flat. You wanted a
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divorce, didn't you? He erupted, his
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voice a torrent of fury and disbelief. I
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was just trying to scare you. I wanted
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you to come back and take care of me.
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His words were a confirmation of my
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worst fears. He was a child, a master
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manipulator who saw me as a resource to
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be exploited, not a partner to be
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Whether you were serious or not, I said,
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my voice firm, I have no intention of
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reconciling with you. You've been
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useless ever since I got pregnant. Who
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would want to be a family with a man
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I hung up and blocked the landline
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number. I thought that was the end. I
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was wrong. A month later, a peaceful
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Sunday afternoon was shattered by a
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relentless pounding on the door. It was
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Elden, a gaunt, unshaven figure who
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looked like a man who had lost a war.
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"Gloriana, I need money," he said, his
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voice a desperate plea. "Just $1,000."
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My mother, her face etched with disgust,
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retreated to tend to the baby. My
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father, a man of quiet strength, simply
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looked at Elden with a mixture of pity
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Elden, oblivious to their unspoken
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judgment, launched into a grand
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monologue about his new venture.
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A regular job is for fools, he scoffed,
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his eyes gleaming with a manic fever. I
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have a trustworthy adviser. I'll make
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millions. I just need a little more
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money to get started.
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The mention of the police was enough to
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send him scurrying, but the threat of
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his return hung over us like a dark
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cloud. We considered moving, but the
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thought of uprooting our lives for this
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manchild was an absurdity we refused to
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And so my parents and I devised a plan.
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The next time Elden came, we would be
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Another month passed, and as if on cue,
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My mother, with a practiced calm, made a
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phone call. My father and I let Elden
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in, listening to his soba story about
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being scammed out of $10,000 by his
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He had nothing left, he said, and I was
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I smiled, a small, reassuring smile that
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held a promise he couldn't possibly
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understand. "Don't worry," I said. "I'll
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help you find a new job and a place to
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live." His face lit up with a pathetic
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hope, a final flicker of the boy I once
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knew. Just then, the doorbell rang. I
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opened the door to reveal the person my
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mother had called. Elden's father,
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Caden. Kaden, a man of quiet dignity and
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immeasurable strength, had been a rock
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for me throughout this ordeal. We had
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been in contact since the beginning of
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Elden's downward spiral, and he had
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promised to handle his son if he ever
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became a persistent problem. His
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presence was a silent rebuke, a
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testament to his unwavering support for
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me and his deep-seated disappointment in
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his son. "What have you done?" Elden
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sputtered, his face ashen with shame.
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"This is a family matter."
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Caden's eyes, usually so gentle, were
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now blazing with a righteous fury. "What
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kind of attitude is that?" he thundered.
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"You've caused so much trouble that even
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your parents have to intervene.
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What are you doing with your life?
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Elden was silenced. Caden took him by
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the arm and led him out. A father
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finally reclaiming his errant son. From
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what I've heard, Elden is now working as
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a general helper at his father's
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company. He's being strictly trained not
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just in a job, but in manners,
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discipline, and how to be a decent human
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being. His salary is a pittance, a
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bitter reminder of the $5,000 he once
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believed he was entitled to. He's in a
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living hell, and a part of me, the part
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that was so deeply hurt by his betrayal,
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He brought this upon himself, and I hope
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he learns from it. As for me, life is a
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daily joy. My child is growing. My
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parents are a constant source of support
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and I am surrounded by a community of
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loving friends and colleagues.
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The challenges of single motherhood are
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a mountain I am ready to climb and every
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day I am grateful for the strength I
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found and the life I reclaimed.
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The road ahead is long, but I am no
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longer walking it alone.