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how to spot a lie in someone telling a
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lie through their body language Liars
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body language cues it's in our nature to
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lie everyone has lied to them or been
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deceived to themselves but it can be
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difficult to tell when someone is lying
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to you directly fortunately there are a
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few non-obtrusive cues and non-verbal
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cues that we can watch out for while
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attempting to spot a lie these 12
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indicators expose even the most seasoned
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of liars first thing take long pauses
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between sentences extended intersects
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between phrases occasionally Liars pause
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more than usual when speaking a delay
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after a phrase could mean that the
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speaker is considering the best way to
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tell a lie when pauses become a habit
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for someone who speaks fluently it's a
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clear warning indicator there's a good
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likelihood that someone who speaks
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without thinking all the time is busy
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fabricating a lie if they find
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themselves having to think before
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speaking the pauses are necessary
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because we find it difficult to believe
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lies when they are present presented to
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us they buy us a little time while we
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conjure up the next bit of our most
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recent fabrication number two altering
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voice tone and speed voice tone and
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speed modification pitch shifts are a
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more accurate approach to uncover lies
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than sophisticated lie detectors vocal
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cords constrict and a person's Voice May
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rise and Pitch when they lie speaking at
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a different rate can also be a sign if
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the person you're speaking with is lying
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keep an eye out for lies If You observe
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that someone begins talking talking as
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though they've accidentally hit the fast
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forward button speaking more quickly
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than necessary may be an unconscious
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attempt to tell a lie as soon as
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feasible on the other hand someone who
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starts talking more slowly and
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methodically may also be lying sluggish
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speech May indicate that you are
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processing a lie very slowly the longer
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it takes the brain to piece together a
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lie the more intricate the LIE this
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explains why someone's speech may sound
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robotic as their mind tries to conjure
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up a convincing deception number three
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visual contact visual contact the common
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misconception is that people who lie
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avoid eye contact but in reality they
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keep eye contact longer than people who
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don't lie sometimes in an attempt to
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overcompensate for the assumption that
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you won't look away while they lie Liars
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fix their Gaze on you for longer than is
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necessary in order to persuade you of
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their truthfulness everyday talks
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usually involve eye contact that lasts
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between 3 and 5 Seconds your lie
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detectors should sound if witness
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someone staring at you for an extended
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period of time they're either lying to
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you or attracted to you in my opinion
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breathing either speeds up or slows down
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breathing increases or decreases
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breathing patterns that alter could be a
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dead giveaway when someone is lying to
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you for example deep breathing May
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indicate increased brain activity and
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lying is also linked to Greater brain
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activity paying attention to our
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breathing is one of the most significant
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lessons that mindfulness has given us
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in this situation you ought to be as
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conscious of other people's breathing as
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you are the fifth is excessive sweating
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sweating excessively anxiety is a
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symptom of sweating and lies are
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frequently accompanied with anxiety
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while their falsehood develops some
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Liars break out in a cold sweat While
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others sweat the LIE out without really
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getting sweaty the beads of sweat on
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your discussion partner's forehead May
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indicate that they are lying if they
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don't usually sweat or if they have a
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reputation for perspiring while lying
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just be careful not to assume someone is
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lying just because they are perspiring a
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lot there are two possible reasons for
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this either they have a new medical
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problem or the environment is extremely
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hot number six presenting as smiling
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pretending to Smile everybody has
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experienced circumstances where they had
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to pretend to be happy in order to
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protect the sentiments of others indeed
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grins can be misleading they can make
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you appear cheerful but that happen
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happiness could be fake an authentic
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smile differs slightly from a fake one a
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phony smile merely uses the lips but an
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honest smile uses the mouth and the eyes
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a person's grin is probably not sincere
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if it can't be seen in their eyes
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contradictory gestures number seven in
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congruous motions even when we don't
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mean to lie our actions and words don't
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always ly up sometimes people who are
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lying will turn on themselves by acting
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in a way that goes against what they are
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saying a liar for instance might
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inadvertently give the nod when
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responding affirmatively to a question
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alternatively a dishonest person may
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talk lightly about something terrible
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you can be certain that one person is
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lying when their words actions or voice
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tone don't match step eight caressing
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the nose grasping the nose everyone is
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aware of the impact lying has on
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Pinocchio's nose researchers have
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discovered that when someone tells a
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falsehood the human nose actually grows
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larger chemicals released as a result of
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lying under pressure are the source of
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this even though you won't be able to
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see the consequences the liar may end up
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rubbing their nose since the swelling
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may cause a tingling or itching feeling
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that makes them want to scratch touching
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the neck or pulling on the collar is the
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ninth rule putting hands on neck or
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grasping the collar this is a well-known
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Telltale indication of lying and it
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occurs because the sensitive tissues in
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the face and neck are so sensitive these
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places get tingly when someone lies and
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the liar will desire to touch those
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spots the reason collar poles are so
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common is because lying puts pressure on
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the neck which increases perspiration
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scratching the area immediately below
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the earlobe on the side of the neck is
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another tell tail sign this is typically
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done with the dominant hands index
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finger in a certain manner this is a
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classic symptom of insecurity doubt and
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uncertainty that someone who isn't
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telling the whole truth is experiencing
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10th Place overly defensive excessively
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protective a liar typically goes on the
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defensive refusing to answer any
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questions and even accusing you of lying
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when you provide them with the truth
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sayings like why do you want to know
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that or that's not important now in
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response to your questioning indicate
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that the suspect has had enough and is
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turning this defense into an attack
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Point 11 changing the topic Shifting the
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topic lying makes one feel weak and
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uneasy for everybody a person may appear
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calm on the outside but be terrified on
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the inside even if they are an expert
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liar a liar will undoubtedly want to
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shift the conversation swiftly and move
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on to anything else count 12 covering
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the mouth putting a mouth guard on
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specifically covering one's mouth is a
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subconscious reaction that may actually
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indicate that the speaker is attempting
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to stifle the lies they are saying it
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could take the form of a real hand over
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the mouth or simply a s s shh motion
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with a finger over the lips this is
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probably the result of parents who may
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have signaled their wish to remain
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silent with this gesture but as an adult
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it can signify an attempt on the part of
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the person to tell oneself not to
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express certain emotions or phrases you
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are now equipped with the ability to
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detect deception you can therefore stop
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folks in their tracks if you practice
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noticing these indications no matter how
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serious a person seems if you recognize
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these warning indicators you'll be less
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likely to for their lies but even if
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someone shows one of the symptoms on
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this list you shouldn't automatically
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conclude that they are lying to you but
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if you notice multiple of these
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indicators you might want to check the
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veracity of what they're saying tell us
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