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14 Toxic Habits That Are Hurting Your Relationships
Relationship issues are frequent. Furthermore, even if you don't personally exhibit toxic behaviors, your relationships may suffer as a result of your toxic behaviors. Yes, you can not even be aware of your negative habits that make people despise you!
However, self-awareness is a prerequisite for personal growth and self-improvement, therefore admitting these negative habits is the first step. After that, you can try your best to refrain from the very actions that ruin relationships and make the required adjustments.
You have to work at relationships; they're not easy to navigate. It does not follow, however, that you cannot have and should not have healthy relationships if you identify with any of these poisonous behaviors. However, there's undoubtedly space for improvement.
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14 negative behaviors that damage your
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relationships managing a relationship is
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difficult it's going to need emotional
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labor and it's not easy work to improve
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platonic familial or romantic
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relationships however there are moments
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when our less than ideal actions
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overcome us and we all exhibit some
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poisonous characteristics although it
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goes without saying that no one wants to
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hurt the ones they love the following
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behaviors could nevertheless be
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seriously harming your relationships
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minimize or disregard the feelings of
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others first downplaying or ignoring the
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emotions of others most of the time we
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confide in those we love and Trust when
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something horrible happens of course
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some people still come to us in their
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moments of distress the issue is that
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without even recognizing it you can be
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downplaying or dismissing the sentiments
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of others saying it's not a big deal
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conveys your opinion that they are
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exaggerating which is why it matters
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someone may feel worse if you invalidate
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their feelings and cause them to doubt
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who they are even undeserving or unloved
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that implies you should try to
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understand their feel feelings even
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though you don't have to agree with them
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disregarding borders number two ignoring
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limitations boundaries and Healthy
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Partnerships are respected physical and
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emotional boundaries Encompass a range
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of things such as how you spend time
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together what you feel comfortable doing
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or not doing and even what you discuss
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this kind of respectful Behavior conveys
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your sincere concern by straying Beyond
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someone's limits you are showing disdain
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towards them furthermore you might need
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to reconsider how you view other
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people's time and space if you consider
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pushing someone to boundaries to be
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normal your sense of entitlement can be
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causing tension a rift and harm in your
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relationships never having to be
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incorrect third the constant need to be
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correct if your constant drive to be
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correct frequently ends talks you most
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likely cause others to feel ignored
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Additionally you risk coming across as
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arrogant huy or conceited this holds
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true for both new and old acquaintances
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as well as family members in addition to
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being a sign of respect and
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understanding for other people's
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viewpoints owning up to your mistakes
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and AD admitting you were wrong is a
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necessary part of personal development
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insulting other people fourth insulting
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other people no matter how i rate or
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unhappy you are it is never acceptable
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to purposefully damage someone although
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it's common knowledge that offensive
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language is poisonous and cruel it's
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also critical to understand that
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insensitive remarks and jokes can have
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equally negative effects if you say
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things like I love how you don't care
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how you come across you probably have no
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trouble making other people doubt
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themselves making others feel horrible
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about about themselves on purpose is
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toxic and will destroy your
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relationships providing Uninvited
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counsel number five offering unsolicited
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counsel even with the greatest of
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intentions offering unsolicited counsel
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frequently comes out as condescending
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generally speaking unless someone
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specifically asks for your advice
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presume they don't want it adding your
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two cents on your terms rather than
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theirs will irritate others and make
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them want to leave furthermore your
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council could ruin a relationship that
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is otherwise strong even if you intend
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well lie number six lying Mutual trust
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is essential for a relationship to
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succeed and lying is the one thing that
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destroys this Bond more than anything
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else having difficult and awkward talks
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might result from being honest in
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challenging circumstances but
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considering the chaos and grief that
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lying can produce being honest is
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unquestionably the preferable course of
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action being sincere with people and
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with yourself is essential in
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relationships any future pain will only
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be exacerbated and delayed if the truth
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is denied behaving jealously taking
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action out of Envy being a human feeling
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Envy is harmless when it doesn't
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escalate when we behave out of Envy a
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problem occurs while it's acceptable to
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Envy what others have it's not
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acceptable to treat others poorly
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minimize their achievements or make
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disparaging remarks about them just
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because they possess something that you
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don't your relationships are destroyed
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when you behave this way toward other
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people on the other hand you strengthen
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your bonds when you rejoice with them
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give credit where credit is due and
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think about the things that the
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individuals you are envious of have to
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teach you emotional coercion emotional
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blackmail number eight everyone has
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experienced the guilt trip however it is
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toxic and manipulative to use guilt as a
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tool to achieve your goals you lose
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because your relationship suffers even
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if it succeeds when you use emotional
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blackmail to manipulate others they will
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grow resentful of you and refuse to
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assist you or even spend time with you
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regular criticism number nine
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NeverEnding criticism although
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constructive criticism has no intrinsic
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negative effect
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your need to assist someone you care
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about may be hurting them someone who
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receives repeated criticism begins to
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doubt themselves and is much less likely
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to make any progress at all if you want
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to strengthen your connections don't
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keep your criticisms to yourself because
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that will only make other people feel
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like they're doing things wrong all the
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time the constant need to be in charge
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10th the constant need to be in charge
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nobody likes someone who constantly
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feels forced to be in charge of other
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people or who insists on having final
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say in all choices your loved ones don't
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always want you to take the lead they
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have their own preferences and beliefs
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give people the Reigns occasionally this
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can include letting them pick what to do
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where to eat or how to organize the next
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get together you can demonstrate that
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you appreciate and believe in the
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abilities and ideas of other people when
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you let go of your continual need to be
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in control not offering assistance
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number 11 lack of support toxic habits
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can be caused by our actions or are in
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action in certain situations they will
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cease coming to you for assistance if
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you are not there for them when they
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need you you may soon discover that they
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anticipate you being completely
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unresponsive to them and it may be
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painful supporting someone entails not
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only being there in times of need but
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also showing concern for them on a daily
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basis in less dramatic situations you
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must be physically and emotionally
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present in order to build solid
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relationships that are full of affection
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and support for one another passing
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judgment number 12 making judgments
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everyone desires to be loved respected
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and accepted especially from those
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individuals
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however you can be expressing criticism
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rather than acceptance people will start
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to turn away from you if you find
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yourself passing judgment on them for
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anything their looks choices
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relationships Financial circumstances or
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anything else really it's probably best
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to keep your critical remarks to
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yourself even if you mean well your
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remarks will only come out as demeaning
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unless you genuinely think that
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someone's life is in immediate danger
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taking offense at something 13th taking
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things too personally naturally there
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will always be cruel individuals who
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pray on our fears however there are
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instances when we take things personally
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that aren't really personal thus it's
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critical to understand the distinction
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you should never assume that someone's
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anger irritation or upset is your fault
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if not you'll begin to accept damaging
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self-defeating ideas about your own
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value it is the person's job to let you
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know if they are unhappy with whatever
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you said or did it's only then that you
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can safely admit that you could have
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made a mistake persistently negative 14
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persistent negativity it's said that
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optimism spreads easily but negativity
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is too you will be brought down by your
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pessimism which also has the ability to
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draw others down with you people won't
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want to spend much time with you if you
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express your negative views about the
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world with them on a regular basis can
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you identify with any of these harmful
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behaviors if you do it doesn't always
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indicate that you're a completely toxic
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person nevertheless you can definitely
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do better you should concentrate on the
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areas that need Improvement but you're
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still more than capable of keeping up
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good relationships you and the people
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you care about will benefit from it
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