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10 good reasons to disregard what others
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say about you the desire to be liked and
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accepted by others is innate in human
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nature because everyone around us does
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we accept the current state of affairs
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as it is we tread carefully through life
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acting in ways that appease others our
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Behavior looks and lives eventually take
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on the characteristics We Believe other
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people find attractive however the truth
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is that our decisions and actions are
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frequently negatively impacted by what
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other people believe about us our
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potential to lead Rich autonomous lives
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can be greatly hampered by our desire to
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submit to the preferences of others we
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provide you with some very good reasons
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in this video to disregard what other
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people think of you first thing first
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your life is your business your life is
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what you do how often have you wondered
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how certain things like how these
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clothes would make me appear will affect
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how you look if I voice my opinions what
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would my co-workers think are those
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folks secretly chatting trash behind my
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back what would my friends and family
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think of me if I accept this job take a
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look individuals are free to hold any
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opinion they choose as you have the
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right to think whatever you like unless
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you let them what other people think of
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you cannot alter who you are or what you
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are worth you have this life to live you
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are the only one who needs to ultimately
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approve of the decisions you make for
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yourself that is unless you are married
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of course that's a completely different
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subject object second they're not sure
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what's best for you they are unaware of
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what is best for you it's critical to
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understand that other people frequently
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base their opinions on what they would
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do the issue is with this alone it might
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not be the best for you to do what is
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best for someone else no one will ever
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care about your life the way you do
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therefore you must learn from your own
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decisions in order to determine what is
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best for you you can never really learn
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anything unless you take complete
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responsibility for the decisions you
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make on your own this way instead of
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blaming someone else if you do fail at
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least you can fully learn from it third
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people's perceptions shift people's
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perspectives shift everybody has an
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inner story that shapes their thoughts
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and how they interact with others at any
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given time however our opinions ideas
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and thoughts are constantly evolving
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this implies that even if someone
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currently has a negative opinion of you
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there's a good possibility they won't
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for a while in summary people's opinions
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are meaningless and that's a fairly
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excellent excuse to put aside your
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concern for what other people think
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number four you'll have a lot more
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happiness you'll experience happiness
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you'll discover that you're spending
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more time doing the things that bring
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you Joy when you start putting your
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needs first being self-aware will help
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you become a more well-rounded person it
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will provide you more time management
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skills and Leisure Time you will thus
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truly change how other people see you
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which will undoubtedly make you even
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happy your connections will get better
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number five your interactions will get
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better try prioritizing yourself in more
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circumstances you will then have a far
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stronger Foundation to defend your
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actions in relationships saying no with
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conviction comes from having the ability
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to create boundaries with Effectiveness
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you'll just do the things that make you
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happy and that will give you more energy
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and a better reputation for
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dependability rather than accepting
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every request in the long run
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these will improve the quality of your
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connections with other people
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significantly it benefits your career
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sixth it's beneficial to your career
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give this some thought for a moment who
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are the individuals who Advance up the
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leadership and management hierarchies at
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work usually it's the more self-serving
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individuals prioritizing oneself
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increases a person's likelihood of
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setting and working toward goals they
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also have a lower tendency to feel
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guilty about their ambition which makes
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them far more in inclined to ask for a
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raise and pursue a promotion in addition
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to looking out for those in their
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immediate vicinity managers and leaders
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also need to look out for themselves
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furthermore it's unlikely that you'll be
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very good at taking care of others if
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you can't take care of yourself number
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seven people are not as concerned as you
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may think we spend our entire day
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worrying about what other people could
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be thinking of us in actuality though
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those folks are thinking precisely the
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same thing in actuality people don't
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spend a lot of time thinking about
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others the typical individual uses their
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ego to filter the world most of the time
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we only think in terms of me or my this
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implies that people are unlikely to
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think about you at all until who you are
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or what you have done directly impacts
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them or their life you'll never please
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everyone number eight you can never win
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over everyone it is impossible to please
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everyone all the time there truly is no
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point in exhausting one's self trying to
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live up to everyone's expectations
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because it is impossible to do so being
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liked by everyone is not as good as
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being loved by a select group of people
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who you truly care about these
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individuals are your spouse family and
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friends basically the people who accept
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you for who you are and who will support
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you in your darkest moments these are
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the ones who really important so pay
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attention to them nine you get what you
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give what you seow is what you get an
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excessive amount of worry about what
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other people think can become
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self-fulfilling since our thoughts
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eventually influence the way we act
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furthermore the actions we take in an
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effort to win over people may have the
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opposite impact this implies that if
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you're a pushover pushover people will
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come into your life and attract
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themselves to you and the other way
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around trying to please everyone will
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not make you immune to criticism the
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majority of people dislike pushovers but
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they also dislike hottie bastards
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ultimately you are the one who has to
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deal with the Fallout from your actions
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both negative and positive 10th life is
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just too short simply put life is too
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short why would you waste your one and
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only life worrying about what other
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people think be who you want to be and
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do anything you want you can really live
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your life if you don't care about what
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other people think or believe about you
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never forget that you have the right to
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make choices for your life even if they
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don't agree with others it is truly
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possible for you to iously choose to
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cease caring you will discover your true
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self once you stop giving in to the
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opinions and thoughts of others there
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are already a lot of people in the world
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who follow the status quo however those
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who don't care are the ones who bring
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about change in the world you now have
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the freedom to select your course of
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