Magnetism

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be better for you. Be better for the

people that really love you and for the

people that touch your energy every

single day. Just carry yourself with

clean energy. And the way to do that is

to clean yourself out. Get to know

yourself. Do the work. Even if it takes

time, even if it's hard, it's going to

be the most rewarding thing. And I

promise you that. I promise you that.

Become somebody that people cannot

understand. you will become like an

enigma to them because they cannot

comprehend how you exist. And I don't

mean to say it in like a prideful way as

if you are better than them, but I mean

to say it as in they wonder how how

you're so effortlessly yourself because

you when they watch you, you are so

settled into yourself. You're so

comfortable. At least you can be

comfortable in your skin. At least you

can have a sense of groundedness and a

sense of inner knowing that, oh, this is

who I am. And it feels so good. It feels

so good to just sit with myself and and

have this time, you know, whether that's

in solitude or if you're in a public

space. It just you just feel that in

your heart.

Sister Redart,

all those people when we're in a

conversation and they cannot stop

talking about themselves and there's no

room for us to be able to speak, what is

magnetizing about that? What is

attractive about that? It's not an

attractive thing. People love to be

around people who are curious about

them. And that's the reality of it.

That's how it's been for eons. Um,

people just enjoy being around people

who they feel like want to know more

about them and that makes them more

magnetic. Obviously, it has to come from

a genuine place. Um, but it's just a pro

tip. Also leading me to my next point,

which is that magnetic people make other

people feel comfortable. They make other

people feel like they are worthy, that

they're confident. And it sounds like

very simple things, but it's actually

not an easy job because in today's

world, everybody loves to talk about

themselves. magnetic people direct focus

usually toward other people. It's not

that they um don't take up space or that

they never speak about their

accomplishments and their things too

because they're very confident people,

but it's that they give space for the

other person to be entirely themselves

without feeling like they need to um

impose their own opinions on every

single thing. And another thing is

magnetic people are very picky with

their time. They're very picky with the

people that they give it to and they're

just very

observant of the people that are around

them. If they if people around them do

not serve them, they understand that

that's going to be their downfall and

they take those people out of them out

of their lives. And it's not just

people, it's habits, places, situations,

anything, they are so aware of it and

they do not engage in any behavior

that's going to oppose this because to

be great is to be misunderstood. To be

great is to be misunderstood. And that's

what magnetic people understand is that

if somebody misunderstands you, it just

means that you're doing something right.

That not everybody has to like you. It's

not this you're not trying to live your

life to please somebody else. Because

that's the opposite of magnetism.

Magnetic energy comes from you a not

caring about what anybody thinks of you.

B you're living in your truth, which

means all of the values and the morals

that you live by, you basically walk

your talk and people can see that. Um,

you say what you mean and you mean what

you say and a number of other things

that support this portrait of you, this

mental image that people have adopted of

you being such an honorable person. A

lot of people have different mixed

opinions about this kind of stuff. But

for me, I feel that, you know, our

truest nature as a woman is really to

just be, just exist, and things

effortlessly flow to us. And I found

that to be true in my personal life

because I don't have to struggle. I have

the universe on my side or God or

whatever it is that you believe in. And

I feel and I have faith in that every

single day that I wake up, I have faith

in that. And that is what drives me um

to do the things um that I need to do in

order to achieve my dream life. trying

to get somebody else's attention and

you're straining and you're striving to

get people's for maybe like a specific

person's attention or maybe a collective

group, I don't know, but straining for

it is going to repel what it is that you

actually want. It's going to repel

people away from you. You do not chase,

you attract. Adopt that mentality early

on. If you're constantly worried about

what other people think about you, that

is going to make you the opposite of

magnetic. Because magnetic people are

authentic and authentic people don't

care who's watching them. They literally

live their life as if they are free

because in their minds they are free

spirit. If magnetism comes from being

entirely yourself, you don't feel any

need to seek out validation. How is

somebody magnetic? How are they able to

achieve this magnetism? Is it something

that everybody can do or is it something

that only a select few people are born

with? And I'm here to tell you that it

is not true. Nobody is born with it. I

promise you. I definitely think that

there's some people who are naturally

just a lot more magnetic. Um maybe just

because of their upbringing, they had a

little bit more confidence instilled in

them than the average person. It might

sound cringy or corny or whatever it is

that you want to see it as, but that's

the reality of it. It's that people who

are themselves and they are

unapologetically themselves, we

gravitate more to. part of being someone

who is magnetic and tapping into that

authentic nature that you have also

comes with easily being able to manifest

anything. And I found this to be true in

my own personal life because it was so

much harder to manifest as someone that

I wasn't than from the person that I

truly was. And when I started to step

into the world unapologetically as

myself, even if everybody is fighting

against every single one of your beliefs

and you stand by that, life is so

effortless. Being able to do this inner

work is so rewarding in the end and it

honestly makes you that much more

captivating. You live in your truth,

people respect you. Why? Because your

average person is not living in that. Be

somebody who is curious to find out more

about you. I was listening to this

podcast and this woman was saying um the

most interesting topic you will ever

study is you. you don't know everything

about yourself and you are constantly

learning and if you actively put in the

work to learn more you will become like

and it's worth getting to know yourself

this year just get to know yourself and

I promise you it might quite literally

save your life self-concept might save

your life self-awareness might save your

life um being a magnetizing person might

save your life and learning the tactics

of that because it might save your life

I know it sounds crazy might sound like

a little bit of a reach for some of you

but at the end of the Okay, I'm talking

from experience. Your life changes when

you start to become hyper aware of these

things. Obviously, not in an obsessive

manner, which often times you will

encounter that um those feelings on your

journey as well where you want to get

something so badly or you want to become

something so badly that it ends up going

in the opposite direction and that's

often what happens. So, take your time

with it. Spend time in solitude.

Spiritual solitude is such a beautiful

thing and it will teach you things that

you would just you cannot understand or

comprehend otherwise if you had not

spent that time alone to have those

epiphies. You have the best realizations

when you're in your solitude and

obviously make time for other people too

but need

you know you don't necessarily need

other people to fill your cup because

you were already pouring from a cup

that's full so you don't feel depleted

by the end. have no real way of

replenishing yourself, it becomes very

difficult to be able to navigate a

better life for yourself. You cannot be

better for anybody else if you yourself

are not better to begin