How To Not be Lazy

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Hi guys, welcome back to my channel for

another video. If you are returning,

today we're going to be talking about

how to not be lazy because we have

approximately like 6 months left in the

year and I just don't want any time to

be wasted. We got to be making money. We

got to be making progress. We got to be

improving ourselves. If you're with me

and you want to see me at the top, keep

watching. I'm sorry I'm so blabby blabby

today, but let's get into the video.

Okay, how to not be lazy. Okay, let me

explain. People have become so lazy and

like so unproductive that like

self-development or productivity has

become almost like phony in a way or

just like very frowned upon. And I hear

a lot of people say things like, "Oh,

it's a sin to change myself and I love

myself the way I am and I would never

want to change myself." And that's fine.

You don't have to change yourself. If

you love the way you are, you don't have

to change yourself, but you should never

like shame anybody else for wanting to

actually improve their life. There's

nothing wrong with wanting to be better.

There's nothing wrong with taking a look

at your flaws and saying, "Hey, cuz

I know where I lack. I know where I fall

short. Every single one of my friends

know where I fall short. Like, it's very

obvious. I don't lie about it. I'm very

um transparent with my flaws." You're

constantly working on everything that's

a part of you. Like, you're working on

yourself in general 24/7. And if you're

somebody that actually puts in that

effort, you'll realize it's never going

to be perfect. is never going to be

perfection. Um you you have to honestly

learn a way to beat perfectionism. There

is so much opportunity for me to learn

something to grow in some new way or

like gain new insights or new

perspectives. And I would just never

want to miss out on that personally. So

essentially what I'm trying to say is if

you have no discipline, you are a slave

to your moods. I go according to my

emotions too. Like if I feel like

I'm not doing anything. If I really feel

truly like I am incapable of doing

something, I will not push myself past

my own limit. And this is one of the

things that I think differentiates a lot

of people is that I acknowledge when I

when something needs to be done, I need

to push myself or if I need to relax and

not push myself past my limits and just

like get out of the city, relax whatever

it is that I need to do, right? But the

thing is I know that I have earned it.

people don't want to earn anything

anymore because I know and I trust that

you know once my emotions or whatever it

is a situation that's presented to me

has been dealt with that I will go right

back into being disciplined. For a lot

of people they can't say the same thing

about themselves. Take care of your

body. Okay? Listen to me when I say this

and it's that your body is a vessel that

God lives in. It doesn't matter if you

don't believe in God. Okay? But your

body is being occupied by a higher

consciousness too. If you didn't have

your body tomorrow, only then would you

really begin to appreciate it and

realize how much it actually does for

you. So, you have to learn to appreciate

and nurture it. Go to the gym, work out,

just do some movement. Stop like sitting

in one place and making that a regular

thing. I would be damned if my kids ever

saw me uh make that a normal thing for

myself to be like in this sedentary

lifestyle where I never move or I'm

never walking around. I don't want that

to be their interpretation of healthy.

On a side note, this is something that I

hear so many times, and I'm just going

to address it because it happens. Like,

I've seen it under so many of my videos

that I just need to say it. And I hear a

lot of people say, "I'm not pretty

enough. I'm not this enough. You look

like this." And whatever, whatever. All

I hear is excuses. And I know that

somebody's going to get triggered and

angry, and I'm sorry for that, my love,

but this is the reality. This is the

truth. I really do feel like people make

excuses. And why do I know that so well

is because I was one of them.

You have to work for things that you

want in your life. And I don't care who

it is, everybody is born with a

disadvantage. If you were born with good

looks, you might not have the intellect

that you want. If you were not born into

wealth, you have to go through the

struggle of making that wealth yourself.

And everybody who's tried to do it

before knows how hard it is. You have to

look at your weaknesses and say like,

okay, this is what I'm working with.

What can I do about it? And that is 100%

on you. But always finding ways to

improve yourself because you a thousand%

do not have it all. There is always

something to work on. There's always

something to improve. The people who you

think got it like that in life, don't

actually got it like that. Stop

comparing yourself to other people. I

feel like this is a really big cause of

laziness. And I know this for myself.

I'll give you guys an example. I don't

have social media, okay? Like as in I do

have an account and whatever. Sometimes

I download the app, but for the most

part throughout the week, the app is not

on my phone. I don't care what other

people are doing with their lives. Like,

how do you expect somebody to execute

these huge visions for themselves when

you're constantly like looking at other

people? I just don't get it. It's not

something that I want for myself. And on

top of that, I genuinely have no

interest. I don't care what other people

are doing with their lives. And I think

you should adopt the same mentality. If

you have to remove social media or like

get it off your phone in some way in

order to be motivated or disciplined to

actually do something with your life, do

it. It's the greatest peace of mind I've

ever been able to attain just taking

Instagram off of my iPhone and only

downloading it for like business reasons

or like some friends on there don't have

my number so I'll just go and like text

them there whatever it is right apart

from that I'm not spending time like

looking at other people and especially

looking at other people and comparing

yourself to their lives and whatever

like people don't actually have it like

that this is another thing I will say

another triggering thing I will say this

is going to this video is probably going

to trigger a lot of people but whatever

it's my channel Okay. Okay.

Down to a person's core, which means

like the realest parts of somebody, most

people are boring.

And that's the reason I feel like I vibe

with so few people nowadays is cuz I

genuinely think there's no there's no

like purity at the core anymore. Uh

people don't want to like live by real

values. And it's not like I'm pointing

fingers saying this, this, and that. I

see why they don't want to live that

way. I have been there myself. the

motivation to live that way is not there

anymore. When you're looking at

somebody, whether it's online or in

person, you're not seeing somebody for

their depth. You're just seeing an idea

of somebody, which is an idea that

they're making you see. You are only

going to see what other people are

willing to show you. That is the reality

of most people's lives. They're okay

with looking a certain way to other

people without actually having it like

that. I have been fooled so many times

before and I've tried to fool people

myself. Like to sit here and say that I

haven't tried to do that is so stupid.

Your aim in life honestly when it

pertains to that should always be to be

somebody who's wealthy and not

necessarily rich because rich I feel

like it's a look whereas wealth is more

of a mentality. It's an ambiance. It's a

mindset. That's where I I'm looking to

get to at least and I think it's where

other people should aspire to get to

because it's like wealthy people you

usually can't tell are very wealthy but

in some way you kind of can because of

the way that they maneuver. Um so it's

hard to explain but anyways back to my

point. Don't believe in like don't give

into that Don't give into

people selling you all this stuff that u

this idea of themselves isn't actually

real. When you find someone with depth,

you're going to understand what depth

truly means. And then you're not going

to want to look anywhere else for it.

Like you're not going to want to uh be

around people who don't have that

beautiful, beautiful, and very rare

quality, which is depth, my love. That

is something that does not come from

money. And those kind of people

understand that you can't just take a

$100 bill and rub it on your chest and

uh feel like your pain is going to go

away because money does not buy

happiness. It doesn't buy the ability to

patch you up and heal you. That's what

it doesn't do. It might help and assist

and of course it does. It's beautiful.

It does wonders. You should never view

money as evil. I've said this before,

but at the end of the day, you have to

realize it is very helpful. It isn't.

Number one, it isn't going to heal you.

It's not going to take you back to your

past and heal your traumas for you. it's

not going to make you a better person or

improve um the internal. It will do a

lot externally, but it will not

necessarily do very much internally. It

might fix a lot of your problems because

I've seen money change people's lives.

It changed my life, too. I'd be lying if

I said it didn't. But at the end of the

day, it's like those scars, those

wounds, and everything within you are

still there. Are still there. And

they're going to be there until you face

them, until you sit with them, until you

look look at them. Right? If you have

actually been there in a time where you

had to be completely in your solitude

because you had no other choice and on

top of that you probably hit rock

bottom. Nobody wants to sit with

themselves anymore. It's too

uncomfortable of a process because

there's too much that obscures um our

clarity. Like in other words, very few

people are on the search for clarity. In

those moments, you really have to let

yourself sink to the bottom. But the

biggest blessing about rock bottom is

the fact that there's nowhere to go but

up. Like you have no choice at that

point. And it's only the people that

have been there that know exactly what

I'm talking about. So when it comes down

to wanting to be or like seeking out to

be somebody who's productive, you have

to put in the work for that, too. That

is not an easy task to like wake up

every day, decide to make your bed,

decide to go to the gym, decide to do A,

and C, and then on top of that make your

money and like do whatever it is. If

you're not somebody who's obviously

already born into those things, like

there's things that you have to work

for, you have to figure out, okay, what

is it that I want? What do I want to

work for? Who do I want to become? And

like, how can I do that? How exactly can

I do that and plan it plan it that way?

My willingness to be so much more

motivated and disciplined, I feel like,

is at its peak right now because I feel

like the person that was truly holding

me back was myself. And I feel like once

you start to realize that, everything

becomes so much easier for you.

Sometimes you really are your worst

enemy when it comes to this, you know,

process of transformation and just like

wanting and seeking out to be a

different person. You really have to sit

with yourself and figure out who it is

that you want to be and like not allow

other people tell you who that is. And

when you're lazy, you're doing yourself

a huge disservice cuz like you have so

much potential and you already know

that. I'm sure you already know that or

otherwise you wouldn't be here watching

this video today. You just have to learn

how to tap into it and that is honestly

entirely up to you and that's a

responsibility that you really have to

take upon yourself. So I hope you guys

enjoyed today's video. Let me know what

you guys think and let me know what you

guys want to see more of. But thank you

so much for the love. Best of luck on

this journey and I will see you guys in

the next one.