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please be seated want to welcome you to the wedding of Wes Moyer to Janette
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maruson let's pray together Our Father we thank you for
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this event that is such a joyous event we thank you for the fact that you out
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of all the people in the world bring together too to be a man and wife we
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thank you that you have chosen Wes and Janette to be together to be married to be committed to each
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other we pray particularly for the day for the moments ahead where you
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will be present and be part of this joining of man and woman we pray that
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you would join them and be with them in Jesus name
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amen David maruson the Father of the Bride will now sing a solo
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[Music] is this little girl
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[Music] I is this the little girl I
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see I don't remember growing old
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[Music] did she get to be
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a and she grow to be so
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tall was it yesterday when
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she small
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[Music] Sunrise
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sunet Sunrise sunet swiftly for the
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days overnight to [Music]
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Sun even as we
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gaze Sun r sunet Sunrise sunet
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swiftly fly the One season following
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anothering with happiness and
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tears is this the little girl I
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car is this the little girl I
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see I don't remember growing
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old when did
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she when did she get to be a [Music]
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beaut when did she grow to be so [Music]
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was it in yesterday when she was
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small sunrise sunset sunrise sunset
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swiftly by the years one season following and
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mother made him with happiness and tear
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who gives this woman in marriage her mother and I
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do do you West promise before your family and friends and most importantly
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before our Lord to take Janette to be your wife to give her all that you are
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and have and promise to love her for as long as God will give you life I do do
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you Jette promise before your family and friends and most importantly before our
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Lord to take Wes to be your husband and give him all that you are and have and
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promise promise to love him for as long as God shall give you life I
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do ask for all of us to take our hles and turn to number
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337 praise the Lord the
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Almighty going to stand together please to sing that
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337 oh my PR for he is th
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and to his Temple near join me in the
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Ador praise to the Lord all things
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wonderously rain Shel
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the his wings yes so gently
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sustain [Applause] all
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gr he
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praise to the [Music]
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lordos Sur [Music]
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his of be Al mighty
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can praise to the Lord all that
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is adore him all that life and Bre down with
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praises [Applause] [Music]
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[Applause] let his
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again GL for we
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adore please be seated
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now uh the brother of the Bride Michael Markus will read will read from
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Ephesians 5: 22-
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27 wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the
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church his body of which he is the savior now as Church submits to Christ
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so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the
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church and gave himself up for her to make her holy cleansing her by washing with water through the word and to
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present her to himself as a Radiant Church Without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish but holy and blameless in
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the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies he who loves his wife loves himself after all
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no one ever hated his own body but he feeds and cares for it just as Christ does the church for we are members of
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his body for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be United to his wife and the two will
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become one flesh this is a profound mystery but I am talking about Christ in the church however each one of you must
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love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her must respect her husband
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marriage is the ultimate human relationship but it is a
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relationship and relationships and especially of all of those relationships marriage can meet two deep needs that
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all people have one need is for security
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that is the security of being truly loved and totally accepted and another need is
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the need of significance that I as a person would do something substantial
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lasting and positive in the life of someone else many people approach marriage
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however as a method to getting their own needs met and not to meet the needs of
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their mate the bridegroom might say for example I need to feel important I expect you to
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meet that need by submitting to my every decision whether good or bad by
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respecting me no matter how I behave and by supporting me whatever I choose to do
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I want you to treat me as the most important man in the world I want you to treat me that way I
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want my goal in marrying you is to find significance through you
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an arrangement by the way which you are commanded by God to to submit to my
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every whim sounds very attractive that's what the bridegroom may say the bride might
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say I have never felt as deeply loved as my nature requires I'm expecting you to meet that
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need through gentle affection even when I'm growling thoughtful consideration
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whether I am sensitive to you or not and accepting romantic sensitivity to my
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emotional ups and downs don't let me down so the husband may say the one
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thing and the wife the other and expect that as a demand
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almost one man in writing about this says a marriage bound together by
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commitments to exploit the other by fulfilling one's own needs is sort of
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like looking out in the woods and thinking of yourself as a this
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is probably the most unpleasant of animals the tick and here is a tick
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sitting on a branch and he looks at a dog coming towards him and says this will fulfill
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my needs this is what I need to have he will take care of me this animal and he
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goes on to say just as a hungry tick clamps on a a nourishing host in the anticipation of a meal so each partner
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unites with the other in expectation of finding what his or her personal nature
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demands in a marriage like that where one is looking to be fulfilled totally
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by the other and the other is looking to be fulfilled by the other you have two ticks and no
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dog but I noticed Wes and Janette that you did not say that or anything like that in your
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vows or in your Declaration of intent Wes you said to her that I give you all
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that I am and all that I have I have it right here in writing that you said
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that and Janette you said exactly the same thing I give to you all that I am
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and all that I have you see the difference in it inste instead of looking to another person and expecting
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to get you are saying I give and that's the total opposite and it doesn't work
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unless you say to the other person I give not expecting to give Jesus Christ gives us the ultimate
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example of that in the book of Ephesians that was just read chapter 5 Paul tells
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us that Jesus Christ so loved the church that he gave himself for her the example
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that we're given especially as husbands to be the leader in that way so give
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ourselves so much to our wives as Jesus Christ did our need before
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Christ was so great totally rejected of God because of our sin and Jesus Christ
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came to Earth expressly to meet that need to die on the cross to bear the sin
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so that we might be able to believe in him and have eternal
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life that all he did tremendous giving of himself
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it's my prayer that in your marriage you will both give up yourselves to the other person not just
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for days but for years as long as God will give you
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life now we'll have a solo by Anthony and Mary Joe
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DEA one hand one
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heart for
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take of our hands one
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and make all our hearts one
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heart make all on
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last Earth will [Music]
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our [Music]
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Liv now it begins now we
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start on hand
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Lord our
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one take of our heart
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one take of one
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as only death
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will
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our day after
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day now be now we start
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now [Music]
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going to be making promises to each other the key and most important part of the
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wedding is that Wes and Janette are going to make promises before you you
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are in effect witnesses to their promises they going to promise many things to each other I ask you to listen
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carefully to what they say this is the cross of the
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way Janette is head of our home I will lead you with love that the Lord Jesus
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Christ has shown to us I will provide provide for you protect you as God shall make me Able by the power of the Holy
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Spirit working in me I vow to you a love which is patient kind not jealous not
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boastful and not proud a love which is not rude not self-seeking and not easily
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angered and keeps no record of wrongs my love will not Delight in evil
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but will rejoice in the truth it will always protect always trust always hope
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and always persevere my love for you will never
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fail last as your wife I will strive to become a supportive understanding and
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godly wife submitting to your loving leadership as unto Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit working in me I vow
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to you a love which is patient kind not jealous not boastful and not proud a
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love which is not rude not self-seeking not easily angered and keeps no rec of
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wrong my love will not Delight in evil but will rejoice in truth it will always
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protect always trust always hope and always love for
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you this ring is of gold very valuable
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and it tells us symbolizes that marriage in God's sight is a very valuable
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precious thing
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the ring makes a circle in God's sight marage is permanent and not
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temporary now God has given me the authority to perform marriages state of
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New Jersey he recognizes that right so it's my pleasure before God and before
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these people to pronounce you man and
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wife this little ceremony represents the two becoming one flesh as it says in
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Genesis and will leave his mother mother and father cleave to his wife and they will become one
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[Music] flesh please stand for number 377
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Joyful Joyful We Adore the god of
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[Music]
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Glory the to
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the the the
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the [Music]
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of us with the of
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all me
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heaven stars and Angels sing around the
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ofing PR forest and
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Mountain flashing seting
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and all us
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toing and foring blessing
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ever Welling of the joy of
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living rest father Christ our brother all
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R our teach us how to love each
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other us to the Joy
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Theus the morning [Applause]
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STS love ising
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[Applause] us singing
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Us in the tri
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of please be
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seated that your hand upon them would cause them to be glory to you
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and pleasantness for each other I pray that you would bring this
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to pass although life holds many difficulties that you would be with them
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that you would help them lift them up be very present with them I pray in
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Jesus name amen it's my uh pleasure to introduce to
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you for the first time publicly Mr and Mrs West Moyer
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hall hallu [Music]
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hallu hallelu hallelujah Hall
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all hallelu hallelu Hallelujah hallelu
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for [Music]
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brother [Applause]
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bye [Music] [Applause]
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auto focus I can see [Music]
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going sh go outside get ready to take
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almost [Music]
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[Music] almost everybody
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around can't see them at this point so I don't know who I'm announcing but uh I think it's uh here
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we go Susan Morgan and Michael
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marus then we have Elizabeth boys and Henry
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Moyer we have Mary Benfield and Carl Moyer
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and then we have the two people we're all here for Janette
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Moyer and Wes
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Moyer we start off with the first dance being yes everybody can please join in
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with dancing as soon as they start dancing we'll have a little time of dancing before the meal let drop off
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waking up the
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B just you [Music]
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sharing our [Music]
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love everybody join in
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we had and we were dancing this
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[Music] yes myus
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and I'm eating I'll get i'll get Genie and you get Wes with Co stuff on while we're eating
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the table right now that's on is
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it what is you doing careful what you
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say look like he was taking professional sound too oh yeah oh
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wonderful oh that's
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great back normal
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[Music] noral in the
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leave I'm not here here
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got but the uh pretend I'm not here um you have
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sound on that you have sound on it perfect I have to talk to you remember
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that I know this is gen's way no bu but congratulations Genie
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but tell Jim that he has to talk to me
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hello Benny say something something congrat congratulations best tea is
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always I'm
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jealous smile how you doing that sound on it oh
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yeah get that putting in an we
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have back
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just ignore [Music]
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okay camera's ready why
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catch the
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come on W [Applause]
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got it [Music]
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up and take it
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doing we got all that onil all of
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it it's
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yeah we're not all here [Music]
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on [Music]
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Debbie and I are going to sing two songs for Janette not like
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tell me that you may walked on and how you feel of you
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so you stand here come taking all the things to heart
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I hear you saying you want to see changes but you don't
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[Music] know find way do you know find
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way see I know it's hard to see the past and still believe love is going to find
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your way I know that love find
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way all the love the only out love will
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surely find [Music]
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way strange thing I can't answer all
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always finds me taken Again by
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surprise I could stand here an angry young woman taking all the pain to
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heart but I know that love can bring changes and so we've got to move on we
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find a way how do you know how find way how can you see I know it's hard see the
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past and still believe love is going to find your way I know that love will find
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a way
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make behind the down the only out love will surely find
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way our God his not sparing came to
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resue you is there any
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are he can see
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you how do you know how can you see I know it's hard to
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see the past is still believe love is going to find a
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way a way to go Love Will Find way only love know leave behind the doubt love
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the only shall find a [Applause]
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way to the way know behind down the only love will
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surely find way
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love is fragile but I found in you a love of Another
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Kind say love brings her I say loveing
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understanding first love [Music]
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another is a love so few discover they need to
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know Jesus
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nowon laugh I love in you I have love another heart
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they would change their they would add another measure they only knew love
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another I know it's so discover
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know Jesus the
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water they say love is is cruel they say love is rather fragile but I found in
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you the love of another they say love brings heart I say
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love brings understanding the love of another
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[Music] mind love I say love
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different in you I have a love of
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another they could change their to they would another measure they only do love
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of Another Love Of Another Kind Love Of Another
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Kind Love Of Another Love of another another
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it
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Eyewitness News tast
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hi back there you have a good [Applause] time got aong here for you called
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there's love and woman leave her home they shall travel on where the two
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shall be as one as it was in the beginning and it shall be till the
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end woman draws her life from and giv it
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back again and there
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is there is [Music]
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[Music] love well then what to be the reason for
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becoming man and why love that brings you here oh love
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that brings you life for loving is the
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answer and who's the giving for do you believe in
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something that you've never seen [Music]
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before and there is
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oh there is
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love there is love
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[Music] there is
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[Music] love love me
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tender love me true I forgot words let's do it again I
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told you I forget the [Music]
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words it's okay I do too much to uh love me sweet that's
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it I'm going to the third verse you know take let's try this again this would
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never happen to Elvis so don't tell him if you see him
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love me tender love me sweet never let me
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[Music] go you have made my life
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complete and I love you so [Music]
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love me tender love me
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true all my dreams
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fulfilled for my darling I love
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you and I always
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will let's try the second one [Music]
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love me tender love me long and take
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me to your heart for it's there that I
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belong and will never
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PR Love Me Tender Love love me
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true all my dreams
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fulfilled for my darling I love
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you and I [Applause]
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always love me love me dear tell
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me you are mine I'll be your through all the
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years till the end of
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time love me tender love me
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true all my dreams fulfill
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for my darling I love you and I always
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[Music] will when at last my dreams come
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true darling this
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I Happ been [Music] will follow
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go love me tender love me
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true all my dreams
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fulfilled for my da I love
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you and I always [Music]
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and I L youro together
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you and you to me
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true love
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true so on and on it will all always
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be true Lord [Music]
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true love for you and have a
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guardan angel on high with nothing to
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[Music] do but to give to you and to give to me
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love [Music] forever [Music]
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true true love true
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good [Music]
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dance true for
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you and I have a guardan
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angel on high with nothing to do
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but to give to you and to give to
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me love forever true
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everybody where are all the single women out there come on out on the floor
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[Music] [Applause] and no fighting
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[Laughter]
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girls smile will me to
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do and my heart
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