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today I'm sharing something really
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important seven things women often do
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for men that actually make men lose
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interest this isn't about playing games
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or pretending not to care it's about
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recognizing hidden behaviors that
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relationships by the end of this video
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you'll clearly see why these actions
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backfire and I'll show you how to gain
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genuine respect instead
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make sure to watch till the end because
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mistake number seven is extremely common
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and almost everyone makes
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it now let's jump right
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effort here's the truth a man only puts
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in as much effort as you
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expect if you let him get away with
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minimal effort like rarely texting never
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planning dates or always making excuses
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okay women often tolerate this because
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they want to seem easygoing but this
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actually signals that you don't value
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yourself enough to set
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standards eventually the guy loses
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example imagine you text a guy and he
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always responds hours or even days
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later you ask him out he's always
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busy yet you accept his excuses again
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happens he'll never respect your time
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because you're not respecting yourself
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standards if he's interested he'll step
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up don't reward minimal
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effort two always being his therapist
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being supportive is great but if you're
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constantly his emotional support
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listening to all his problems all the
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time you might actually hurt your
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relationship at first it feels special
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but soon he sees you less as a romantic
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partner and more like a therapist or
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figure this kills attraction
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example he always complains about his
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job family or friends but never fixes
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problems you become drained from his
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negativity and he stops seeing you
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romantically solution: Encourage him to
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issues listen but don't take on all his
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weight healthy boundaries are key
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three constantly apologizing and taking
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blame apologizing when you're truly
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good but apologizing constantly even for
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things you didn't do makes you look weak
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desperate over time he'll stop valuing
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example if he forgets plans or hurts
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your feelings and you quickly say "It's
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okay my fault." You teach him your
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important solution: Speak honestly when
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you don't apologize for having
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feelings a confident woman owns her
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truth four making him your whole life
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many women drop everything for a man
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cancelling friends hobbies or personal
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goals it sounds romantic at first but it
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respect men love women with their own
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lives if you have no identity outside of
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example you loved painting spending time
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with friends or traveling but now all
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your time revolves around your
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boyfriend soon he'll start taking you
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granted solution: Maintain your own life
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friendships men respect women who
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respect themselves and their
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independence five giving too many gifts
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giving thoughtful gifts occasionally is
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sweet but constantly showering him with
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gifts especially expensive ones reduces
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eyes men value what they have to earn
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not what's freely handed to
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them example you always buy him nice
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things or pay for everything hoping
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instead he expects it and stops
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trying solution: Allow him to put effort
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relationship gifts should be special not
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constant let him value your presence not
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presence six always being available
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being available to your partner is
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important but always being ready to drop
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everything for him tells him you're an
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priority soon he'll take your presence
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granted example he calls last minute to
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hang out and you immediately cancel your
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at first he appreciates it but later he
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expects it and stops seeing you as
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special solution: Be there when it's
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reasonable but don't abandon your own
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schedule allow him to respect your time
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by making him value the moments he
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you seven ignoring red flags biggest
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mistake this one's common but very
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if you ignore signs like dishonesty
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disrespect or inconsistency early in the
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relationship you silently tell him
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you're okay with poor
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treatment eventually he'll lose respect
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knowing you'll accept whatever behavior
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offers example he's always late cancels
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often or doesn't keep promises
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you think maybe he'll
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change but instead things get worse
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because you've allowed it from the
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start solution: Respect yourself enough
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to have non-negotiable
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standards address issues
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early if he's not treating you right
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confidently now here is the summary
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apologies making him your
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available ignoring red
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flags you deserve respect and genuine
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love doing these seven things might feel
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natural or kind but they often silently
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relationships recognizing and stopping
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these behaviors empowers
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you remember a high value woman knows
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her worth and expects others to respect
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the right man will value you more when
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first you're now equipped to build
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stronger more respectful
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relationships if you found this helpful
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