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hi happily lovers flirting is a subtle
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art when done right it's a powerful way
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to connect with someone while cheesy
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pickup lines May often fall flat there
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are scientifically backed strategies
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that can help you master the art of
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Attraction let's dive into 10 proven
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flirting techniques that actually work
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according to psychology 10 eye contact
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eye contact is essential in conveying
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attraction when you make eye contact
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with someone you're subconsciously
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searching for signs of their interest
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look for dilation it's a natural
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psychological response to attraction
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locking eyes creates an intimate
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connection and lets the other person
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know you're interested nine we red red
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is not just a flattering color it's also
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a symbol of lust and attraction studies
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show that both men and women appear more
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attractive when wearing red why it may
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be tied to evolutionary cues signaling
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Readiness to connect so incorporating
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red into your wardrobe could give you a
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subtle Advantage eight be funny humor is
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a major factor in attraction being funny
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demonstrates quick thinking and
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creativity traits that are essential for
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survival according to psychologist
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Jeffrey Miller sharing a good laugh not
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only makes the interaction enjoyable but
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can also leave a lasting impression
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seven play hard to get uncertainty can
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make someone more appealing playing hard
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to get creates a sense of desirability
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and exclusivity while you shouldn't
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overdo it a little aloofness can go a
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long way six women smile smiling is
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universally seen as a sign of warmth and
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approachability research from the
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University of British Columbia found
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that men are more attracted to women who
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smile why because it signals
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friendliness and health five men brood
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for men the opposite is true the same
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study found that women prefer prideful
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or brooding Expressions over cheerful
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ones this may be tied to stereotypes of
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masculinity and confidence so gentlemen
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channeling a subtle bad boy Vibe might
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work in your favor four mirror their
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body language mirroring is an
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unconscious way of showing interest when
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you subtly mimic someone's gestures
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posture or movements it signals that
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you're in sync and paying attention it
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also helps build rapport and trust and
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if they mirror your mirroring it's a
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strong sign that the interest is mutual
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three be a smooth talker your tone and
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Pitch can influence attraction women who
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vary their vocal tone are perceived as
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more engaging meanwhile men who use
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supportive phrases like I see or okay
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appear more attentive varying your tone
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makes conversations more Dynamic and
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confidence confidence trumps physical
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appearance when it comes to attraction a
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study by Dr Monica Moore found that
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confident individuals who smiled or made
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eye contact were more likely to attract
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attention than those who relied solely
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on their looks confidence is key to
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making a memorable impression one
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initiate light touch touch is a powerful
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tool in flirting a light touch on the
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forearm or shoulder can significantly
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increase someone's openness to
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interacting with you Dr Moore's research
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found that tactile gestures signal
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dominance and confidence boosting
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attraction in the process flirting is
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about More Than Just Words it's about
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subtle signals confidence and
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understanding human Psychology by
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practicing these strategies you can
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build deeper connections and make your
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interactions more meaningful which of
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these techniques do you use or plan to
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try out let us know in the comments
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