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hey amazing parents do your kids fight
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over toys compete for attention or argue
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over the smallest things you're not
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alone sibling rivalry is normal but the
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good news is you can turn those fights
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into friendship today I'll share
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powerful strategies to stop sibling
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rivalry and build stronger sibling bonds
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stick around till the end for my top
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secret tip on handling sibling Jealousy
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and if you love parenting tips don't
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forget to subscribe one why do siblings
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fight sibling rivalry often happens
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because they're competing for attention
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kids want to feel special and noticed
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they have different personalities one
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child might be quiet while the other is
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loud and assertive they struggle with
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sharing especially when it comes to toys
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or personal space they copy what they
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see if they see conflict around them
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they may act the same way how to stop
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sibling rivalry give each child
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individual attention kids fight for
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attention when they feel ignored spend
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one-on-one time with each child to make
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them feel valued teach conflict
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resolution skills instead of solving
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fights for them guide them to work it
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out say how do you think we can fix this
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this teaches them to solve problems
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without constant parental
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intervention set fair not equal rules
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each child has different needs instead
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of making everything equal focus on
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what's fair for each child's age and
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ability avoid comparisons saying why
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can't you be more like your brother
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creates resentment instead praise each
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child's unique strengths encourage
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teamwork not competition make family
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activities about cooperation for example
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instead of who can clean up faster try
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let's work together to clean up before
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the timer runs out use positive
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reinforcement when siblings get along
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acknowledge it say I love how you helped
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your sister just now positive
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reinforcement encourages repeat Behavior
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teach the art of sharing and taking
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turns a timer for toy sharing say you
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play for 5 minutes then it's your
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brother's turn this teaches patience and
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fairness give them a chance to work
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together assign team-based chores like
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setting the table together or building
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something as a team this helps them Bond
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naturally bonus tip how to handle
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sibling Jealousy if one child feels left
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out don't brush off their feelings
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acknowledge them I see that you're upset
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because your sister got a reward let's
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talk about what's bothering you
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sometimes kids just need to feel heard
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before they can move on sibling rivalry
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is normal but with the right approach
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your kids can grow into best friends for
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life which tip are you excited to try
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