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being in love is enjoyable the Pinnacle
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of your romance is the wedding day years
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of happy marriage ahead of them as two
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folks ride out into the sunset together
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but when the music ends and the formal
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attire is packed away a happy and
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healthy marriage really gets started
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greetings and welcome back to another
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bestie video everyone even the most
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successful couples have ups and downs in
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their levels of Attraction chemistry and
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connection marriage can be an amazing
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journey important metrics indicate how
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well our marriage is doing and we'll
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tell you what they are in today's video
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watch until the end to learn about all
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of them from asking each other questions
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to not controlling each other praising
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rather than criticizing letting go of
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stuff to finding ways to spend time
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together and more you approach things as
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a teen you approach things as a teen
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making choices as a team with your
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spouse is a crucial indicator of a happy
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marriage if you make decisions that are
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advantageous to you both as a couple
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your marriage will have a solid basis
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team language establishes and sustains a
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team spirit when a couple makes the
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effort to communicate as a team their
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marriage becomes stronger and more
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satisfying do you discuss decisions with
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your partner or make them alone as a
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couple tell us right away in the
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comments box below you inquire of one
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another you pose queries to one another
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some couples settle into a routine of
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merely coexisting after living side by
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side for a number of years or even
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decades they give up trying to find out
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their partner's thoughts and point of
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view by asking inquiries there's no way
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around it it's a sign of a strong
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marriage when you can share your
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thoughts ideas and opinions with your
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partner even if you fear your spouse
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won't agree you prioritize the
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relationship over accuracy you
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prioritize the relationship over
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accuracy this indicates that you have a
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rapid forgiveness skill this implies
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that you are open to considering their
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perspective even if you believe you are
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correct and the other person is is
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mistaken it demonstrates your preference
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for the relationship over your ego in
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certain cases even if you don't think
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you're at blame this can mean you have
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to apologize first your partner will see
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this as an example of humility and
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forgiveness and most of the time they
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will reciprocate you don't attempt to
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dominate one another you don't attempt
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to dominate one another this one is
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significant when each decision you make
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has an immediate impact on another it
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becomes natural to want to be in charge
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however it's imperative that you allow
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one another to be who you are despite
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the fact that these disparities may seem
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dangerous the fact that you both have
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unique strengths and weaknesses rather
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than the same ones makes you stronger
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your first person is your spouse your
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first person is your spouse who do you
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call in good times or bad your marriage
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is probably doing well if your partner
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is the first to hear the majority of
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your good and bad news something is
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problematic anytime we realize we are
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depending too much on people other than
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our spouse our spouse doesn't always
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have to be our first choice in
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relationships friends are just as vital
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however we ought to prefer to share our
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lives with our companion over those with
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others the majority of the time
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one another effective communication is
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the Cornerstone of a healthy marriage
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nevertheless disdain can grow when one
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spouse consistently becomes sidetracked
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or acts as though they have more
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important tasks to complete fobbing is a
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popular complaint which is the act of
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aimlessly browsing through one's phone
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while someone else is talking will you
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occasionally ignore the conversation yes
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you are merely human however matrimony
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is a Gamble and the likelihood of a
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couple lasting is higher when they
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listen to one another
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together you never stop attempting new
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things together you never stop
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attempting new things there is truth to
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the flatmate phase it might lead to
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boredom and disinterest if you find
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yourself slipping into habits this may
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cause other more harmful behaviors to
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seep into the marriage it can be
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disheartening for partners if their
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significant other is unwilling to
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attempt anything new like taking a class
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or visiting a new place contempt swiftly
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follows complacency actively ATT
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attempting to infuse fresh elements into
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their relationships frequently results
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in happy couples you let your
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significant other to develop
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independently your companion grows apart
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from you growing together is essential
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however it's equally critical for
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couples to give each other space to
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develop independently constantly being
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needy and clinging might wear down your
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partner's feelings and make them give
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you ATT tension out of Duty rather than
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love they may eventually begin to view
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your relationship as a job they might
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want to leave allowing your partner to
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develop independently of you is crucial
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to your own happiness recall that you
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are not a prepackaged pair but rather
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two unique people who are in love some
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things you learn to let go of you get
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better at letting go you will inevitably
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irritate each other from time to time
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you too will engage in combat it will
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accumulate as you recall all the
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instances your spouse did or did not do
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something the best course of action is
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to discuss it and move on the
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Partnerships between two outstanding
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forgivers are the best there is noise in
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your home there is noise in your home if
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the nest is empty it may be considerably
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quieter than it formerly was a healthy
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home isn't silent though there is a
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significant amount of back and forth
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dialogue you're inquiring conversing and
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trying to establish a connection the
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lack of emotional connection is the
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issue with a silent house make time to
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play laugh and take pleasure in each
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other's company you give each other more
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praise than you do criticism you give
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more compliments than criticisms in any
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relationship criticism is required that
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is how Partners develop and comprehend
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problems but a collaboration cannot be
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sustained by criticism alone you are
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going to have problems if you are
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critiquing each other more often than
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praising one another in fact studies
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indicate that to maintain a positive
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relationship you need five nice remarks
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to offset every bad one even when your
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partner is in a you talk about them with
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difference even when your partner is not
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around you talk about them with
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difference the overall atmosphere of
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your marriage will be determined by the
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words you say to and about your partner
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despite your disapproval of what your
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spouse has done resist the urge to
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criticize them respect each other's
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opinions when working through conflicts
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and stand up for your spouse's
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reputation in public show each other
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respect when conversing with and about
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each other you two are honest with one
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another your candidate with one another
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it's difficult to put your heart out
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there and show your weaknesses in a
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relationship however it aids in the
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development of strong emotional bonds
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which are essential for any happy
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marriage your spouse's Comfort level and
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ability to communicate freely with one
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another are indicators that your
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marriage has the potential to last you
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prioritize your relationship Above All
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Else your partner comes first at all
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times you don't always have the time to
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put your spouse first because of
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obligations to your children and your
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job that's not the case though when
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you're with the correct person saying I
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love you doing the dishes after supper
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or taking them to that new restaurant
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they've been wanting to try could all be
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examples of what to do the key is to
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prioritize your marriage above all else
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no matter how hectic life may seem this
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is not natural to some people it takes
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effort to become second nature just like
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anything else in life your arguments are
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constructive rather than harmful your
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fights are productive not destructive
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even seemingly Flawless couples argue
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behind closed doors the difference
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between dysfunctional and healthy
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relationships is that disputes shouldn't
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be about who's right they need to be
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more productive this includes listening
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to each other understanding and
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respecting each other's opinions and
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finding common ground so that you may
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build your marriage and please call it
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what it is a struggle don't go around
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saying we never have fights we have
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discussions a coral doesn't mean you are
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slinging in Sals or getting physical no
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sure you are discussing it's a fight but
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you may and should have a fair one when
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your conflicts start to become harmful
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rather than being productive it's a sign
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that you may be in an unhealthy
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relationship there are other symptoms to
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recognize such a relationship learn more
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by watching 17 warning signs you are in
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a toxic relationship now back to signs
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you have a very strong marriage you
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share each other's beliefs and Ambitions
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you share each other's values and goals
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it would be boring if a couple had the
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exact same interests or personalities
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some of the strongest Partnerships are
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the ones where the couples balance each
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other out one of them may be too
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spontaneous but their significant other
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may pull them in a bit at the same time
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such spontaneous individual might make
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their partner more extroverted there are
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some long-term ideals and goals that
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they should share though for instance if
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you want to have children but your
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husband doesn't that could have serious
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implications for your marriage marriage
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you seek ways to spend time together you
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seek opportunities to spend time
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together this differs between phases of
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Life Newly Weds and retirees usually
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don't have to seek time together as much
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as a couple working two jobs and raising
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kids this doesn't imply you have to
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spend every minute together but it does
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mean you should arrange some date
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evenings some real one-on-one time where
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you can connect again if you no longer
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desire to spend time with your lover
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it's a clue that something is not right
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while these might be signs of a happy
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marriage it is very important to
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recognize the signs of an unhappy
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marriage learn more about these signs by
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watching eight signs your partner isn't
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your Forever partner or eight signs your
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partner no longer loves you so go ahead
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and watch one or both of these video to
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know when it's time to walk away from a
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relationship how many years have you
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been married let us know in the comments