“She Ghosted Me” Here Is What You Should Do!

Have you been ghosted? If you’ve ever been interested in a girl only for her to disappear from your life, it’s only normal for you to wonder “She ghosted me, what do I do?’. Being ghosted can leave you feeling very confused because you get no closure and explanation. At first you might just think she’s preoccupied with something, but eventually you’ll start to wonder, “Is she ignoring me”? People ghost for all sorts of reasons that can vary in complexity. Ghosting, or suddenly disappearing from someone’s life without so much as a call, email, or text, has become a common phenomenon in the modern dating world. Studies have shown that social rejection of any kind activates the same pain pathways in the brain as physical pain, meaning there’s a biological link between rejection and pain. So, if you are sad because she ghosted you, don’t blame yourself – it’s only biology. Since you’ve been given no indication from her of what went wrong, you might feel like reaching out to her. You might even find yourself looking for reasons and telling your friends, “She ghosted me but still watches my stories. Maybe she wants to talk to me.” The best piece of dating advice we can give you is to stay strong and avoid the urge to talk to her. She didn’t value you enough to have a mature conversation about your relationship with you before she disappeared. This is something you must not take lightly. Getting left on read is tough. The natural first reaction is embarrassment, but don’t beat yourself up for taking a risk and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is crucial for any future healthy relationship, so don’t teach yourself to be closed off to avoid pain. For more such content on relations, follow our social media handles: Website: https://www.bonobology.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/bonobology-media-llp/ Pinterest: https://pin.it/TUXUzgQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonobology Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bonobology Twitter: https://twitter.com/bonobology Don't forget to click on the bell icon to get notifications every time we upload a video.