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why are black women the only group
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that's being asked to build men up
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financially I will definitely not aim
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this towards all black women because I
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know there are a lot of traditional
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black women that are out there but I do
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not agree with this woman at all hear me
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out I am a sales consultant for a luxury
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car brand and I sell cars to all walks
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of life all different types of cultures
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ethnicities all different types of
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people you just all different types and
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the reason why a lot of those men who
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are from different cultures who are very
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traditional do not have to ask their
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women for any type of help is because
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their women do it willingly it's almost
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like that's who they are and I'm going
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to give you some examples I had sold
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this doctor a car okay I believe he was
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a neurosurgeon or something of that
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nature and he also did Real Estate the
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guy made a lot of money so I wanted some
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advice and I asked him you know
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different tips he can help me on because
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I was a marketer so after we talked he
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literally told me he said the reason why
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I am where I am today is because of my
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wife as his wife sat across him he told
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me that when he was in med school when
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he was trying to get better at real
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estate and all these different things
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his woman held him down she made most of
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the money at that time he didn't want
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for anything he did the best he could to
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help support himself just as much as his
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relationship with his woman because of
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her it helped Elevate him to being in
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the position that he is now as a
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neurosurgeon and also him being really
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good in real estate which gives them the
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riches that they have today and what if
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I told you that that same woman is in a
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medical field and makes over $500,000 a
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year like the woman was a straight boss
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but the dopest thing that I heard from
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this woman had nothing to do with how
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much money she made she listened to her
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man speak and literally let him do his
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thing she didn't have to tell me what
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she did for that man it's just it was
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something she knew she wanted to do she
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allowed her man to lead and she showed
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that man respect and he loved her for it
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and he made sure to reciprocate that
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energy just like she did to him and I
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also met another man that was from
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Palestine and he had his own hotel and
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when I sold this man a car he told me
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before I make a decision I want to talk
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to my wife first and I said that's no
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problem I said is there a reason why and
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he sat there and said my wife is
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actually my accountant my wife does all
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my numbers my financial decision is just
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as important as hers when he's so busy
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running his hotel or doing other things
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she's helping him run it on a side look
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I've met black couples like this Asian
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couples like this almost every type of
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person when it comes to a marriage the
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biggest common denominator is that these
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women work with their men they are
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teammates these men want their wives to
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live soft lives but the difference is
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that these women also reciprocate they
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also work with their men they are high
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functioning teammates she helps him and
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he gives her a beautiful life and
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together they both win now to my ladies
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I'm not telling you to give your all to
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a man that is a bum dude that comes home
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every single day doing absolutely
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nothing with himself borrowing your car
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you know ripping and running doing all
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that stupid stuff like we know those
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types of men there's a lot of women out
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there that give their all to men and
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ain't doing nothing for themselves and
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we all know those types of women that
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date those types of men so don't be mad
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if things are not working out for you if
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you are giving your all to a man who is
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not going to reciprocate the way you are
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not a black thing it's not a white thing
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Asian thing it is a traditional thing
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it's a teamwork thing and men and women
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work together to make the Dream Work
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pour into a fountain and not a drain
