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you're sitting there trying to go about
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your day but your mind keeps circling
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back to them you feel it deep down
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something unresolved something unsaid
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you wonder "Do they miss you too?" You
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check your phone nothing no message no
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sign no I miss you but still something
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tugs at your gut if you've ever felt
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this quiet ache and sense someone
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pulling away but not entirely gone this
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video is for you because sometimes when
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someone misses you the most they're the
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least likely to say it and according to
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Carl Young the reason is hidden in the
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unconscious mind let's unpack the signs
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and the psychology behind why they miss
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you but can't admit it sign number one
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they create distance but keep the door
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open they unfollowed you on social media
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but still check your stories they stop
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texting but pop up when you least expect
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it they avoid a direct conversation but
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like an old photo leave a cryptic
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comment it's a dance forward backward
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close distant this is what Jung called
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shadow behavior when someone can't
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consciously admit what they feel so it
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leaks out in sideways ways they're
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protecting their ego but their
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unconscious is reaching out sign number
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two they mention you indirectly maybe
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it's through a mutual friend maybe it's
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a vague social media post maybe they
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bring up a person who once said "And you
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know it's you." People who miss you
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often struggle to say it outright so
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they use proxies safe roots to release
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the emotion without vulnerability
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according to Jung what's not made
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conscious is lived out as fate they
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don't say "I miss you." But their
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unconscious finds a way to whisper it
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anyway sign number three they appear in
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your life when you finally start to move
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on why do they come back just when
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you're healing why do they text when you
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finally stopped waiting it's not just
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coincidence it's energetic when you
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detach they feel the absence more fully
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jung believed we are all connected by
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the collective unconscious a deep
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reservoir of shared emotion memory and
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instinct so when you stop feeding the
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cord they feel the silence and in that
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silence their longing grows louder sign
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number four they watch you without
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engaging you post something joyful and
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they're the first viewer they don't like
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don't comment but they saw it every time
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people who secretly miss you often turn
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into invisible observers they want a
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piece of your life without admitting
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they still want you jung would say
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they're locked in an internal conflict
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between the ego that says "I don't need
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them." And the soul that still aches for
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closeness they're watching because they
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care more than they're ready to say sign
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number five they try to replace you but
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it never quite works new friends new
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partner new habits but somehow you sense
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they're trying to replicate what you had
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maybe their new person says things you
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used to say maybe they pick up your old
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hobbies start dressing like you you were
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more than a person you were a mirror a
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trigger a deep emotional experience jung
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believed the people who impact us most
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often awaken unconscious archetypes and
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those echoes don't disappear just
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because someone moves on they just echo
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louder in their replacements sign number
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six they get defensive when you're
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mentioned you come up in conversation
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and they shut down change the subject or
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snap this isn't indifference it's
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discomfort because to hear your name is
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to confront their feelings feelings
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they're not ready to face according to
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Jung we repress what we're not equipped
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to integrate so they push you down not
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because you mean nothing but because you
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meant too much their denial is a shield
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but shields only exist when there's
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something worth protecting sign number
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seven they haven't fully let go and you
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can feel it it's hard to explain but you
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just feel them their energy their
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presence their absence something in your
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body knows they're still holding on even
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if they say they've moved on this is the
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mystery Young spoke of the invisible
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threads that connect us across time and
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silence because sometimes when a bond is
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real it doesn't dissolve with distance
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it just waits quietly so why don't they
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just say it why don't they tell you they
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miss you jung would say because missing
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someone is vulnerable and vulnerability
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threatens the ego to say I miss you is
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to admit that you've been affected that
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something touched you deeply that you're
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not in control and for many people
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that's terrifying especially if love
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wasn't safe for them in the past
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especially if closeness has always come
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with pain but here's the deeper truth
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just because someone misses you doesn't
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mean they're ready for you missing is
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emotional returning is intentional they
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can ache for you and still not know how
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to meet you where you are and that's
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okay their growth is not your
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responsibility their silence is not your
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reflection jung taught us that
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relationships are mirrors every person
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you love reveals something about
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yourself so if you find yourself stuck
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in the wondering "Do they miss me?"
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Pause and ask "What part of me is still
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waiting to be seen what love am I still
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hoping to receive that I haven't yet
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given myself?" Because here's the truth
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when you finally give yourself the love
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you've been chasing you stop craving it
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from the ones who can't offer it let
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them miss you let them wrestle with what
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they weren't ready for let them do their
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work in their time you're here to become
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whole not to be the half they never
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learned how to hold so if you're
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watching this right now and there's
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someone you can't stop thinking about
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but who won't say what you feel they
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want to say send them love quietly from
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a distance then turn inward and become
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the person you've always been looking
