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Do you want to build emotional attraction with a man? Of course you do! You want him to want you, you want him crave for you, not just for your physical aspects but for who you are as a person. This is a guide on how to make him crave for you, how to make him want you more.
But if you’ve not had much luck getting deep into relationships, it might be because you are struggling to create that emotional attraction and develop some real feelings for him.
Luckily for you, we’re here with some simple yet highly effective tips to make him more attracted to you on an emotional level.
By implementing these things you’ll begin to forge a real bond between you and this guy so that he falls in love with you and finds himself irresistibly attracted to you for who you really are behind your physical appearance.
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So you want to build an emotional attraction with a man
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Well, as you can see, I'm a man. I think I can offer a little bit of advice on this subject
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While it's true that man tend to be very visual creatures who develop physical
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attraction to someone quite quickly, they still value their emotional connection too
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In other words, looks alone aren't always enough for us. Maybe you find it easy to meet man
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That's a different thing. But you still struggle to turn dating into something deeper and longer lasting
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Perhaps you're looking for that Mr. Wright, but don't understand how to get him to like you beneath the surface
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Well, by the end of this video, you'll have all the tools to create an emotional bond with man
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So let's get started. Use physical touch to create intimacy. Physical touch is often one of the primary ways that men like to express and receive love and affection
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It's almost hardwired into us. So if you want to attract us on a deeper level, you can still use touch as a means to do there
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Touch us on the arm while talking to us. Give us a hug, hold our hands
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You know, it's all about affection, all about contact. Don't always wait for us to initiate things
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Be bold. After all, fortune favors the brave. Compliment him. Just like everybody else, men or a woman, we want others to have a positive attitude towards us
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We want to hear nice things said about us. Positiveity is very attractive in general
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so if you can be positive and make us feel good about ourselves
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we'll love you for it. Now you don't need to go overboard with compliments
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If you just continuously gush about how wonderful we are, it can start sounding fake
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But try to become somebody a man wants to be around because he feels at his best when he's with you
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As his confidence grows, so will his emotional. attachment to you. Don't jump into bed with him too quickly. Men like sex. Of course, women like sex
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too, but it's probably much higher on the wish list of your average man than of your average
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woman. That being said, having sex too soon can cause a relationship to fizzle out before it's
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going anywhere. You see, sex makes things very intense very quickly. If you don't build up an emotional
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connection at the same time as the physical connection, there might not be a strong enough attraction
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left once the initial excitement of jumping between the sheets wears off
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Now, when to have sex is an entirely personal decision, and I'm not saying your relationship won't work if you have sex right from the start
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For many people it does But it might increase the chances of successful relationship if you build more of an emotional connection first Make sure your relationship isn just physical
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You can't have a purely physical relationship with someone and hope that emotional
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attraction will take care of itself because it won't. It's just not going to happen
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You have to put an effort into getting to know the other person better by actually talking
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to each other about things other than sex. I mean, sex is great, but there are other things too
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Don't always end the date in a bedroom. Sometimes just enjoy each other's company and then part ways at the end of the day
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Get out of the house and do different things together. Have fun together
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Explore together. The closer you get outside of the bedroom, the greater the chances of relationship lasting
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Commit to the relationship. Take a leap. Commit to a man. Trust me, that is the only way
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Sure, you might get hurt, but that's always the risk with love
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But without the commitment, the chances of you building a strong emotional element to your relationship remains very slim
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If you are seeing multiple people casually, stop. Choose one and then let the other go
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You can't build a deeper connection with the guy if he feels that your attention is split
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You can feel scary committing to one person knowing that it may not work out
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But if you want emotionally fulfilling relationship, that is the chance that you're going to have to take
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Talk to each other and get to know him. Okay, so this probably sounds like an obvious advice
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But you can't build an emotional attraction if you don't really know each other
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You've got to get beneath the surface and discover who he really is
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His likes, his dislikes, his views on the world, his passions, emotions, his anxiety
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everything. Ask him questions. Even if he asks you questions, try not to dominate the conversations
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give him space to express himself. People like to talk about themselves
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So if you can get him to talk about himself, he'll associate you with more positive emotions
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He'll begin to see you as someone he can trust and open up to. And you know what
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Guys fall in love with their friends all the time. So build their friendship alongside the more physical and romantic things
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that go on between you. Be thoughtful and show you care. I love it when my wife surprises me out of the blue
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Everybody does. Little surprises here and there go a long way to showing a man you care
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It doesn't have to be anything big though. It might simply mean you cooking his favorite
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meal or getting tickets to his favorite team or a band A guy will notice this small thoughtful acts and will see how much effort you are making This will ignite an emotional attraction in him because he will feel wanted and appreciated
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It's the same for everyone. He is also more likely to do nice things for you in return because he will want to invest
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in the relationship that he has with you. Listen to him. You know why it's amazing just how much we don't actually listen to someone or whatever
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they are saying even when we think we are. already thinking ahead. We are preparing our own responses. And it can be really annoying to not
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feel hurt by somebody who claims that they actually care. So whatever you do, don't talk over him
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He might find it difficult to open up to you. Many guys do. And as harmless or helpful as you think
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your comments are, interrupting him, could put him off and make you feel as though you're trying to
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take over the conversation. Also, remember that you don't have to try to fix him or fixing his
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problems all the time. This is something that men are often guilty of, but women do it too
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Listening to someone isn't always about resolving the issue. It's about letting them talk and share
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the emotions they are feeling without interrupting or judgment. The more he feels as though he can
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do this with you, the more invaluable you're going to become to him. You will become his go-to-person
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in the good times and the bad times. Don't over-share too early. You could be forgiven for thinking
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that the best way to build a deeper connection with somebody, with a guy especially
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is to be totally transparent with him and share all of your into most thoughts
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That is not true. It's not that easy, not that simple at all
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Just because you have strong feelings for him and are ready to open up your life to him
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it doesn't mean he feels the same. As guys tend to be less emotionally available than women
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especially early in the relationships. If you overshare too early, it could actually push him away
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It could push him towards somebody else. Talking about heavy personal topics can weigh relationships down
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especially in the beginning, especially if it's the early days. It will squash any fun out of it and make it way too serious too fast
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The more you try to force an emotional attraction with a guy, less likely it's going to happen
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Be strategically vulnerable around him. Now, this point may sound like it contradicts the previous point
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but it's all about finding the right balance of things. If you want to show a man that you are someone he can trust and open up to
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you might have to make the first move. He not going to feel comfortable being open and emotionally vulnerable around you if you can do it yourself if you can show him that you can be that way But you can show him that it okay to be emotional and vulnerable by revealing snippets
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of your personal information about yourself and letting your own guard down. Just a touch
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Do it slowly, a little bit every time. This will show him that you trust him enough to share more
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of your personal feelings and memories, but it won't be like it's bombarding him with all the emotional
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stuff. It's not going to feel heavy. Allow him to get to know the real you. Of course you'll want to make a
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good first impression on a guy that you like, but once you've been on a few dates and have had
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plenty of fun, it's time to let the real you shine. You're a human being after all and you're not
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meant to be perfect all the time and then he needs to know and see this. It will
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make you seem more authentic, which is important because it's much easier to develop feelings
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for somebody when you are seeing them as the real them. It's obvious when someone isn't being genuine, and the man you are trying to win over
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will soon lose interest if that's the case. So be brave and be yourself
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If they don't like you for who you actually are, no amount of faking is going to give you
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an emotional connection anyway. And that's it for me today, guys. Hopefully this video will help you create an emotional attraction
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when you're looking for a man, when you're being attracted to somebody
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and you are looking for a deeper relationship. I hope this helps you
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I know this is a touchy subject for a lot of people because there are so many different opinions how to do it
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and there is no real way, no right way. But hopefully this video offers you some
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