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This story explains how many fathers' love are ignored and perceived as uncaring. This has resulted in making many men feel unhappy and it also add to their early deaths. #nekenwatv #vlog
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something happened yesterday in my
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neighborhood one of my neighbors was
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having a problem with his wife they were
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having this very serious argument he was
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telling his wife how in Earth is she
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always doing things that will make the
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children to favor her over him all the
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time she will always be acting as if him
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being the the husband or the father is
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not doing anything helpful to help or to
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to to bring in positive input to the
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family then the wife will be like is
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have you been doing anything all the
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time you are at work work work work work
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then the husband will be like I have
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always sent you money to take care of
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this children yes I'm always busy at
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work but you know that I cannot always
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be there but you as the wife you are
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supposed to be showing this children
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love and care also making them to
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understand or never to feel the absence
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of their father anytime I come back I
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will be there with them but the woman on
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the other hand She's
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always telling the children that their
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father is not doing anything to help the
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family and so on and so forth so I
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unfortunately I couldn't take a video of
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it because I I felt so sorry for the man
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it's true that the man is not always
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available to kind of have this emotional
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presence for both the wife and the
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children but the man who is trying his
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best to always send money home because
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he works from a very far place he only
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comes home once in a month that's the
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only time his job allows him to come
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back home but there's no single day that
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this family he doesn't send them money
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every weekend he ensures that he he walk
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himself out just to make sure that the
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family are doing well and each time he
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comes back home he becomes a stranger in
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his own
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home the reason I'm trying to make this
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video is to point out something there
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are things
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that some parents do I won't say all the
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parents there are things that some
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parents do if maybe they have this
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personal issue with their partner would
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like to get the children involved in it
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trying to make the child begin to hate
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this other partner which is very very
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uncal for it's very very bad i' I've
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witnessed a situation where a woman is
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always telling her children that their
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father is stupid she lives alone with
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the children she's separated with the
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husband every time maybe when the child
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or when her children commit one offense
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or the other she begin to liken them to
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their father telling them that they are
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always acting like their father that is
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because of their father's stupidity and
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irrational behaviors that made her to a
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look with the children all these kind of
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things try to send some signals to the
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children making the children to feel
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that their father is a bad guy you never
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can tell the reason why she separated
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with the husband in the first place
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anyways well because she's always trying
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to make the children believe that their
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father is the reason for whatever be the
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misery they passing through it's very
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unfortunate it's very very unfortunate
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so you as a partner I do not know the
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problem you may have been facing with
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your spouse maybe you both had a
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misunderstanding and listen let children
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be out of it don't get the children
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involved focus on you on your partner if
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you and your partner are having issues
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settle it within yourselves don't get
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the children involved because the moment
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you start getting them involved and they
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begin to pick sides that is when chaos
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begin to come into the family some
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people will be asking why is it that men
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don't live long a lot of men they don't
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live long yes a good number of men don't
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live long because they don't feel loved
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that's the truth sometimes you see a man
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who is walking on the road he has
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children he has like five children but
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to him he see himself as a loner he see
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himself as somebody who is the only
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person on Earth because none of his
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children are interested to ask Daddy how
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are
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you all these things are Coury of the
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mother if father will bring out money
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let's say when we were kids when we were
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kids there's something my mother used to
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do sometimes if maybe my father do not
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have enough cash to pay our school fees
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my mother will give us the money my
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mother will give us our school fees and
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tell us that our
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father gave her the money to give to us
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so we should better go and say thank you
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to Daddy I only came to know about this
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when I got to
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ss3 on a very good day I requested for
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school fees then my father told me he
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had none but I should just pray for him
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probably one of before the week runs out
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he will give me my school Fe so that I
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can go and pay my school fees then when
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I was about going to school the next
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morning my mother called me and said
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Daddy has gone to work and he before he
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left he gave me this money to give to
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you for you to pay your school fees I
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told my dad yesterday and he told me
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that he doesn't have his money he
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doesn't have the money for my school Fe
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anding this my mother G me the money I
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was like you know so that time I
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beginning to have some sense of proning
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you know then later in the evening my
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daddy came back from work
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and in their private conversation my
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mother told him that she has paid my
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school fees and my daddy thanked her so
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very much I overheard what when they
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were discussing that and I acted as if I
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didn't hear nothing then I walked to my
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daddy and I in in the presence of my
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mother I told my father thank you for
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paying my school fees and thank you
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Mommy for being a supportive
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wife and that was it you get that that
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that that's goes a long way irrespective
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of how sometimes both of them of course
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normally it is normal for partners to
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have misunderstanding in their marriage
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but what is more important is the love
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the both of them share and how they
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understand themselves till this humble
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day there are still the best couples
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that I have ever experienced in my life
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to be honest with you so I don't know
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about you I don't know about you how do
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you cope with your husband are you the
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type that instigates war between your
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children and their father or or are you
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the man that loves to instigate a fight
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between your children and their mother
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simply because the other partner is is
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is behaving somehow or something he
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decided to wage a war between the
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children and that partner listen for the
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last time okay if you are having an
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issue with your partner please don't get
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the children involved do not get the
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children
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involved until I come your path again
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don't wor to subscribe to this channel
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and if you have anything to say about
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this whole thing please feel free to
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tell us the comment section there are
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lot of a lot of people especially men
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have have died because of
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loneliness not like they don't have
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children they have children they have
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wives but they still feel that emptiness
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because the children are not are not
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looking up to their fathers no more so a
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lot of a lot of things are happening
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especially to the men so if we continue
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to discuss it there is going to elongate
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this video even further but feel free to
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tell us what you feel via the comment
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section I'll be coming there to respond
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to everything you have to say until I
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see us again please do well to take good
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care of yourselves
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